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CONTROVERSIAL OPINION ABOUT BISEXUALITY

that purple in the middle is not the right saturation, it doesn't fit with the other two colors and it drives me crazy.

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Can we talk about Nick's wonderful secondary journey of discovering true friendships? I fully love and appreciate the fantastic job the book/show does with his bisexual awakening and subsequent struggles coming out. But another thing the story does so, so beautifully is show Nick's gradual but essential movement from surface-level friendships built on societal norms and expectations to deeper friendships based in mutual trust and vulnerability. Every moment in season one where he expresses disgust or discontent with his "mates," or the feeling that he doesn't fit in with them, is mirrored later in season one and in season two by moments of openness and caring in and among his new friend group. It is just so nurturing to watch the Paris gang accept Nick not just because of his relationship with Charlie, but because he makes the time and effort to connect with each of them in a way that shows he truly sees them and cares about them. Even when he's initially met by skepticism, especially from Tao, he persists because he knows the worth of those more meaningful relationships. That, for me, is the quiet magic of Nick's character arc... his gentle but tenacious efforts to be a loving friend, and how he's then loved in return.

Honorable mention goes to the most excellent expression of said friendship, the Nick Nelson hug.

[Thanks to everyone on Tublr who has already created absolutely perfect Heartstopper gifs 🥰]

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Happy 2 years of heartstopper 🍂🍂🍂❤️❤️❤️

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adults are always talking about how “kids will do anything to get out of school” and okay, first of all that’s not true, but I think we really need to ask why that idea holds so much sway.

children’s brains are hard-wired to take in new information and acquire new skills. consider, for a moment, just how thoroughly our society had to fuck up the concept of education for it to be a normal thing to assume kids are universally desperate to avoid learning.

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Happy birthday Charlie Spring!!!

I love you 💛💛💛

#charlie spring #heartstopper #heartstopper netflix #osemanverse #alice oseman #character birthday #happy birthday

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Nostalgia, emotions and all kinds of love. Happy two years 🍂HEARTSTOPPER 🍂

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Me with all the tabs of fanfics I haven’t looked at in 17 months but still say I want to read at some point eventually

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“You shouldn’t self-ID as ADHD/autistic, you’re turning a very real mental condition into a trend” Ok then stop saying delulu. Stop speculating on which cluster C personality disorder the criminals you hear about on the news have. Stop saying “schizoposting” and “acoustic” and “is it restarted?” Stop using “psycopath” and “sociopath” as catch-all ways of calling someone a bad person. Stop saying “the intrusive thoughts won” when you bleach your hair and then turn your nose up at people who suffer from very real, very scary urges of physical/sexual violence. Stop saying “I’m so OCD” as a way of calling yourself neat. Stop treating BPD/ASPD/Bipolar as inherently abusive. Stop saying “OP I am living in your walls” without tagging for unreality. Stop diagnosing complete strangers you’ve never met on r/AITA with NPD.

You first. If you don’t want our disabilities to be treated like trends then stop belittling and minimising them. I’ll NEVER judge a person for trying find labels for their symptoms when an apathetic, racist, sexist, ableist healthcare system refuses to. But I will absolutely judge a hypocrite. Which a lot of you are

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SUPPORT OUR TRANS BROTHERS AND SISTERS AND OUR AMAZING NONBINARY SIBLINGS

no one will ever know which one

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I ✨ politely ✨ don't take criticism <3🩷🩷

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Y’all need to stop with this “actors can only play characters that match their identity categories down to their astrological sign” shit cause there’s still some straight actors I wanna see take dick

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Horny asexuals you have my sympathy and respect

Asexuals who look at horny posting and think "real" I love you guys

Non-horny asexuals you have my sympathy and respect

Asexuals who look at anything sex related and gag I love you guys

All asexuals you have my sympathy and respect

Asexuals who just exist I love you guys

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yes all my favorite characters are desperate to be loved. no i don’t think that says anything about me