the worst part about having huge autistic fantasy worlds in your head is that it takes like 8 billion years to turn that into something substantial you can show people
They hurt you. You will likely carry that for a long time. It wasn’t fair. You’re allowed to say that.
I get so tired of people who respond with “life’s not fair,” or “you’re letting them win by holding onto the past.”
Yes, it’s important to move on and not let it run your life, but it still wasn’t fair. And sometimes, we need to let that out.
Denying us that or making us feel bad about that is very invalidating. It’s okay to be angry, sad or whatever else and acknowledge the wrong that was done to you.