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Everything you need to know if you plan to have a threesome

For both men and women, the threesome is the most repeated sexual fantasy. Although it is not a novelty, the menage a trois continues to awaken erotic passions and, in some cases, illusions that have nothing to do with reality. The shadow of the porn movie hoax is that long. Learn more details information.

Do we really want to have a threesome? What do we think of the people who do it? Researchers Ashley Thomson and Sandra Byers, from the Universities of Wisconsin and Brunswick studied our disposition to this sexual practice. To do this, they brought together 300 men and women between the ages of 18 and 24, who had to fill out tests in which they were asked what they thought about the people who participated in a threesome. Also, if you have ever made one and if they would be interested if the opportunity arose.

As a result, men rated threesomes more favorably than women. That was further accentuated when asked about their interest in participating in one. Up to 82% of men, but only 31% of women said they would be ready for a menage a trois if they had the chance.

If you are part of that group that fantasizes about participating in one sometime in life, there are several things to keep in mind so that the erotic dream does not turn into a nightmare:

1-Trust

If you are going to have a threesome with your partner, you have to have a lot of confidence with her. None of the three people need feel displaced during the menage a trois. And neither member of the couple has to feel that the other prefers to be with the guest.

2-If you are in crisis, do not do it

If the couple is having a bad time, having a threesome is a bad idea. Crises are often accompanied by mistrust, so getting into bed with that third person will only be pouring gasoline so that the relationship ends up burning out completely.

3-No pressure

Do it only if you want and you are very sure. If in doubt, don't do it. Do not let anyone pressure you, because then it will be an unpleasant experience and you will feel terrible before, during and after doing it.

4-You can stop

If you regret it when everything has started, you can also stop. Nothing happens. You are not obliged, you can back out at any time.

5-Meet

If it is a couple and a guest, it is advisable to meet him a while before and talk about what the three of you like and what the limits are. If all three are strangers, it is also a good idea to have a drink beforehand to talk about how each one wants the meeting to be.

6-Erotic toys

If they are going to be used, it should be remembered that they must be washed before and during, whenever they are to be shared.

7-Protection

As always, we remind you of the importance of safe sex. Whether in a threesome or in a couple, it is essential to use condoms and other methods that will protect us from STDs and pregnancies.

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Sex is better in winter!

Extended nights, want to warm up… What if winter was the hottest season for a couple? Use this to get more details information.

Sex is better in winter: testimonials

When I'm bundled up under three sweaters and a scarf, the slightest bit of skin visible drives Mathieu crazy. I only have to reveal a shoulder to make him want me. 

Clotilde, 29 years old

We live in Royan, so from May to September, we always have a friend who squats on our sofa. It's cool, but I have a hard time letting go in bed when there's someone right outside the door. In December, we are quiet: we make all the noise we want. 

Carlota, 32 years old

The condominium raises the heating to 24 ° C. Inside, we are suffocating, impossible to keep our turtlenecks, we put on T-shirts or sometimes even underwear. Once half naked, we make love without even asking a question. 

Monia, 26 years old

In winter, I often wear long leather gloves. If I remove them slowly in front of Benoît, the temperature between us immediately rises. 

Rachida, 30 years old

It is dark from 5 p.m., so so that the neighbors opposite do not see us, we turn off all the lights to make love. It suits me, I let go more easily in the dark. 

Judith, 31 years old

When Stéphane begins to caress me, with his still cold hands, I have crazy chills all over my body. 

Bérengère, 24 years old

When it falls off the ropes, with Tom, we have only one desire: to stay with us. As we are more often alone, we make love a lot more . 

Gwen, 29

In summer, to be comfortable in a bikini, I shave my swimsuit, in winter, I don't touch anything. Manu loves it, he spends more time caressing and kissing my cock during foreplay , it drives me crazy. 

Laetitia, 27 years old

We only make love in bed. Unlike the summer when you dare to caress yourself on the beach or enjoy the freshness of the tiled kitchen ... And finally, you never take as much pleasure as on a super comfortable mattress.

Josefa, 32 years old

Under my big woolen sweaters, I don't wear a bra. When Mourad notices it, my turtleneck becomes as sexy for him as a cropped top. 

Flore, 28 years old

Every year during the holidays, with Jeremy, we spend a lot of time with our two families. Even if we get along well, it's not always easy to manage. Relieve the tension on the pillow, there is nothing better.

Cynthia, 30 years old

In summer, Yoan works in Anglet as a lifeguard on the beaches, we hardly see each other. So we make up for the cold months: even if we don't leave, we spend days just the two of us. We never make love as much as we did then. 

Marine, 25

When you spend an entire Sunday warm under the duvet, it makes sense to cuddle several times during the day, right? 

Kathy, 24

As I don't feel very feminine in a down jacket, I put everything on lingerie. I put on lace bodysuits , silk shorties… Julien knows it, he adores it and has only one desire: to take off my sweater to see what is hidden below.

Eve, 24 years old

Every winter, thanks to raclette and chocolates, I gain two kilos during the holidays. I feel sexier and Cedric's gaze is full of desire. 

Sandrine, 27 years old

I work in an amusement park, during the season, I do not have a minute, I am 200?% For work. In bed, I can feel it: I'm never fully relaxed, I have fewer orgasms. After the gunshot, my days calm down and my stress peaks come back down while my libido skyrockets. 

Valérie, 30 years old

When it's too cold, Arnaud pricks my lip balm. His kisses are even sweeter.

Émilie, 23 years old

When my skin is all white and I want to avoid the crocodile effect, I massage myself with a vanilla oil. Thiên is a fan of his perfume, he nestles his nose in the hollow of my shoulder and then all along my body. It is often the beginning of delicious moments ... 

Johan, 27 years old

With David, when we feel that our desire drops at the same time as the thermometer, we do not let go: we invent scenarios, we buy accessories in a sex shop … Our sex life is more inventive than ever. 

Cécile, 31 years old

The nights are longer. Logically, we have more time for the preliminaries and then to chain positions. 

Maude, 28 years old

A heating lubricant is used . The contrast with the coolness of the bedroom is very exciting.

Ina, 29 years old

With jeans that make me pretty buttocks and make-up, I'm more confident, I feel much sexier than in a swimsuit. So I meet a lot more boys.

Aline, 26 years old

I am a ski instructor and after a day on the slopes, all I want is a long massage all over my body. Yann is always voluntary because he knows that it often rhymes with foreplay ... 

Charlotte, 29 years old

In winter, I am always cold. When you're cautious like me, you know that sex is the best way to warm up. 

Delphine, 25 years old

Under my skirt, I put on stockings. Antony never resists it.

Irina, 30 years old

New Year's Day is the best night for dating. Everyone really lets go on this special day, and since I'm single… 

Anna, 26 years old

The opinion of the sex therapist

Magali Croset-Calisto, sexologist, author of “Sexo, a small guide to sexology and sexual practices today”, published by Maxima, talks about winter and desire. 

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