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Hey since TERFs buried the original, higher quality recording, here’s the only surviving recording of trans activist Sylvia Rivera’s infamous “Y'all Better Quiet Down” speech, along with full transcription, now free and open on Archive.org. The transphobic fucks can try their best to scrub us from history, but we’re not going anywhere.

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Ready when you are 💫🗺️

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to all the trans men in history who identified as dykes & to all the trans women in history who identified as faggots.. you were epic and i hope you got sucked dry every single day of your life

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*likes your post* a great interaction, we are truly bonding

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save me hot tboy in cargo shorts and a sports bra

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Apparently Miles is a JJK fan (in the comics)

If you put these two in a room together I think the result would be adorable 🥺

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The meds part is so real. But it’s reversed for me. Turns out I do in fact need drugs (my antidepressants) for some freak shit

We need to be more realistic about lesbian sex, too, because sometimes it feels like this huge expectation to maintain a certain level of stamina looms over us, simply because we're more prone to practice what the straights think is foreplay and we consider full on sex.

Some of us have chronic pain. Some of us have past or present injuries. Some of us are on medication that screws with our libido or the amount of time we can last and keep going. Some of us simply don't feel that much of a desire to fuck. Some of us are on the ace spectrum. Some of us are more than content with frotting and kissing and calling it a good intimate moment 20 minutes in. Some of us have vaginismus or other conditions that make sex uncomfortable to some extent.

It's OK to not go on for 1 hour. It's OK to tell your partner to stop. It's OK to ask them to change positions if you have a bad knee or back. It's OK to not last, and to be too sensitive to go on, and to call it a day.

Don't feel pressured to perform. Sex is good when there's enthusiastic consent and enjoyment from both parts, no matter the amount of time it lasts.

#depression murdered my desire for sex so hard #i was in the fucking trenches #i felt so guilty about it but idc anymore plus i have drugs so yay :D

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black lesbians brainrot.

- this post was made by a minor, mdni accs dni!

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Oh strawberry... We're really in it now...

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you never know what someone is going through. for instance i didnt know i was going through anything until about 2 years later. i thought i was just chilling

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The fem4stud tags are full of yts

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hi it's lesbian visibility week. i am a struggling lesbian as i was in the hospital last week and the week before. please consider helping me out if you have the ability.

pp / vn / ca

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cooking while chronically ill

baking with arthritis or other chronic hand pain

living with chronic migraines

adhd meal plan

chronic pain tips

getting yourself to eat

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Hey! No idea if you've made posts abt this before or awnsered this since I couldn't find anything but do you have any resources on bi femmes, butches, or dykes? I'd love to do more research on how bi wlw used the labels in the past, especially since I'm tired of being called lesbophobic for calling myself a butch or dyke :/

I have a few! I don't have a post for them though. Might as well make one now

I do already have a post on all Dyke Marches I am aware of that are inclusive, which is the majority of them in the US

Thotscholar on twitter has a great collection of bi resources, here's a few mentioning dyke identity

X Discussing infighting within Chicago Dyke March and a few others (CW for use of the t slur)

X On bi women and how they identify themselves (CW mentioned biphobia/monosexism, bi erasure, attempted murder)

This article from Anything That Moves on the bi label and other similar labels including bi-dyke

As for butch/femme femmebis has an excellent essay with sources on this!

Some of the sources I found really interesting on how butch/femme originate from black queer communities and were never wlw exclusive to begin with

Another article from Anything That Moves on the second annual Femme Conference in San Francisco (Cw f slur)

A few people who have identified as bi dykes

Leane Franson- Creator of the Liliane, Bi-Dyke comics X

Unfortunately I cannot find anywhere to get a hold of more than bits of pieces to read them which is a shame they look really interesting

Loraine Hutchins- Bi activist and co-editor of Bi Any Other Name: Bisexuals Speak Out

Who spoke at a Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual Pride March in 1992. At the beginning of her speech: "Four years ago in Washington, D.C., there was no bisexual contingent in our Gay Pride Parade, as usual. But I was tired of being anonymous after being out as a bisexual in D.C. for over 15 years. So I dressed up in my WonderWoman with a Hard-On outfit, painted a bi byke (B-Y-K-E) license plate for my BI cycle, and made a sign saying 'Peace To All Closet Bisexuals And To Those Already Out Too.'"

Tracy Schmidt- The same one from the ATM femme article, who identifies as a dyke-bi-poly-femme-top

Some more recent articles X X X

Pieces on bi history and queer history in general can be a pain to find or get ahold of. But I'm always looking for more. And you aren't wrong for reclaiming a word that's rightfully yours. Anyone who has an issue with m-spec wlw and other queer people reclaiming dyke obviously think our discrimination or queerness is somehow "lesser" which is a ridiculous notion and also bigoted.

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can anyone pls send me some money for food. my other post is getting a lot of rbs but nobody’s sent me any money and i don’t have anything to eat. i hate asking like this but i haven’t even heard back from any of the jobs i’ve been applying to. my cashapp and paypal

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"i just don't like masculine women" literally i'm so sorry for you loss. i hope you get well soon