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#bbc ghosts

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bass makes a dollar. i make a dime. that's why i think about lesbian sex on company time

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pissing each other off as foreplay

#reidxethan

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few things more humbling than the realization that you really do write the same fic(s) over and over again

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The thing that abled people who advocate for the disabled community don’t get is that there are times when disabilities/accommodations clash. Horribly.

Like I spent years having to come up with a solution to get therapy dogs into a series of residence halls. Why years? Because we had to decide who got to stay and who got to leave: the people who needed therapy dogs or the people with severe allergies to animals. Who got the alternative housing? 

Things like fidget toys might seem great for some disabled people but having them in the room could be distracting/overstimulating for others. The same goes with stimming. It can’t be helped but neither can the anxiety that another person in the room feels as they watch/hear it. Additionally, something like a weighted blanket might immediately calm one kid down and send the other one into a panic attack due to the claustrophobia it causes. (*Points to myself*)

Every Metro bus in New York City has a series of seats at the front that can be lifted up to accommodate people in wheelchairs but if I’m in one of those spots then someone with a cane/walker has to journey even further to sit down.

The flashing lights of a fire alarm are there to help deaf/hearing impaired but if they’re not properly timed, they can also cause a person to have a seizure.

The worst part about all of these is that there is rarely a concrete solution that makes everyone happy/safe. And I’m not here to offer any because I don’t know them. I’m just here to remind you all that as you’re taking your education/health classes, as you’re reading your textbooks, as you’re preparing to go be an advocate, just remember that there is rarely ever such a thing as a one-size-fits-all solution to advocacy and that something you do that can help one disabled person might actually hinder another.

Food for thought.

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ELEMENTARY | 2.19 The Many Mouths of Aaron Colville

#elementary

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Maybe It's a Thrill [E] [1657 words]

Reid asks Morgan for something new.

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“How did we meet then, stranger?” Morgan asks.

“Where would you usually meet a one night stand?”

“Bar, club, coffee shop,” Morgan says, “a museum, once.”

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You can find more of my fic on my blog tag or Ao3. also on Twitter or Discord (Quan Tea Co & Adoribull Holiday) if you want to hang out!

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its so brave that you have such a 2012-coded url in this 2024 world

would you call a bear brave for standing in a new construction suburb or would you recognize the unfamiliar world they built around him

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me 250 words into a chapter: Gosh, how am I gonna make this at least 2500 words?

me at 6193 words on accident: Uh

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rest assured i am always thinking about joe and nicky from the old guard. ALWAYS.

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Miss Congeniality (2000) dir. Donald Petrie

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i think everyone needs to adopt "i didnt say it was good, i said i liked it" into their vocabulary right now. it did me wonders

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emily prentiss: the girl who fell in love with another girl

jj jareau: the girl who wanted to fall in love with another girl but didn't allow herself to

#jemily

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[video by soupygarbagejuice. original caption: stuie]