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Your dynamic is a real goal for myself and my partner, but I struggle very much with falling into my place with her. It can be difficult to feel entirely submissive to her. Did your hubby struggle at all to give up control as well? Did you implement anything that helped put him in his place?

Thanks !

This is a really good question, and your timing is pretty remarkable because my hubby-baby and I recently had a talk about some of this.

My apologies in advance for the long response. We have come to believe that many ABDL's have various types and degrees of guilt/shame that can manifest in binge/purge cycles. Where they get into it, but then eventually feel that creep of shame and then go for a drought. My hubby-baby feels only a small amount of that, and it isn't because of diapers themselves, but because he's an intentional, hard-working straight male raised in this society and the idea of being submissive and babied by his wifey-Mommy eventually begins to run contrary to those standards. In his mind, at least. It's possible that this is affecting you as well in some way.

I can't say what will work for you and your partner, but for us, I don't really force him to wear diapers and be babied. I am assertive about it, but if he is not feeling it for legit reasons, then I let it go and simply warn him that he will be in diapers soon enough. I am also going to make a concerted effort to instill in him that not only is it okay for him to be my submissive, diapered hubby-baby, and that he should never feel any shame or guilt about that, but that it is important and necessary for him to be diapered and babied by me (his Mommy). That he is happier, less stressed, better behaved, and receives more playtime the more often he is diapered and babied (to various levels).

We have some variance in the degree of his regression. Sometimes, it's mostly just diapers plus he can feed himself and drink big boy bottles, etc. Other times, I will escalate his regression, with mittens, pacifier, a bib at meal time, he must ask permission for everything, he doesn't get his phone, and only I can feed him his alcoholic drinks. And always, he must address me as Mommy. Sometimes, I make him talk like a baby as well. I also LOVE to hold him in my arms (I can even carry him a little bit if I pick him up off of our kitchen counter). This makes him feel very little, and it's very important that I make him feel like the little baby he is.

But what I am doing now is reinforcing in him and reminding him proactively that this is for his own good, and that he needs this. I don't literally force him or make him. I guess I just very assertively persuade, but this is also something that he is coming to accept more and more. And my goal is to keep him in diapers more and more. So yes, he has struggled from time to time with this dynamic, and I suspect that will continue to some degree. But because I am the Mommy and he is the baby, the reinforcement and insistence must come from me, because ultimately I make the rules and decisions. So, I will be proactively... persuading him to be diapered and babied more. If I completely missed your question, feel free to ask again and I'll be happy to try again, hehehe. It's possible your partner should just force you, but I feel like that has some pretty serious risks.

[juliaedwardabdl]

I wish I was your hubby, I really do he is one lucky baby

Hehehe you're not wrong!

I just made him wear diapers under his bog boy clothes while we ran errands. I changed two wet diapers, and then we had a double-dose of playtime (once in the afternoon and the other in the evening). And yet he was still fussy at times about wearing his diapers and obeying his Mommy! Thanks for reminding me to remind him just how lucky he is! Hehehe

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Hi guys absolutely love your content!! It literally is enough make any little blush!!

Could I ask does your hubby mess his diapers and if so does he tell when he has?

Hi there! Thanks so much for the kind words, sweetie! I LOVE making little babies blush!

We do not do messy diapers. Neither of us has interest in that. I admire the ABDL couples who do though. If my hubby-baby DID mess his diapers, I imagine I'd notice pretty quickly though ;)

Huggies and kisses- Miss Julia

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So, do you cuckold your hubby? What are your thoughts on cuckolding?

Good question! Thanks for asking! No, I do not cuckold my hubby-baby. It's not our thing, nor do I think it ever will be. That said, I definitely understand why it's a big deal for so many, especially in a MDLB/ABDL type relationship. Chastity is a similar topic for us as well- I understand why people are interested in it, it's just not for us! Diapers and not being allowed to touch said diapers are chastity enough for my hubby-baby! Huggies and kisses- Miss Julia

[juliaedwardabdl]

I was curious where do you get a lot of your story ideas? Also do you think out society could turn from a patriarchy to a matriarchy? Have a great day!

Thanks for the great ask!

I’m a successful, career-oriented woman with a high-level position in a female-heavy business, so I draw a lot of the inspiration for my stories from my own reality. My hubby-baby, for his part, is active and successful in our other businesses as well and adds his own perspectives- that is, when he’s not in diapers and doing whatever I tell him to do, hehe.

As for your second question- YES, I 100% DO believe that our society is moving towards a Matriarchy, and this is based on my own life as well as what is happening in the Western World. This forms the uber-feminine thrust of my stories. While I think we have traditionally understated the power of women even in prior eras, there is plenty of data that indicates women are gaining in society, and in some ways at the expense of men. Women are earning more, working more, climbing higher on the corporate ladder, investing more, running for elected office more, and, unsurprisingly, delaying or foregoing childbirth more. Thus, we are headed towards a world where women are in charge and men less so. And if you give these child-less, high-powered women unending wealth and privilege, it seems only natural to me that they would gravitate towards the wholesomely erotic ABDL realm to fulfill their maternal urges and varied sexual desires. My stories also posit that the Matriarchy will not be what many expect it to be in some respects, hence some of the darker aspects like indentured servitude that enable the billionaire Matriarchs of our future to purchase and own lifetime babyslaves for their pleasure.

My stories are definitely not for everyone. They are lengthy, detailed, and riddled with dark age play and intense forced regression, as well as some downright exhausting naughty scenes, hehe. But seeing how the future is looking ever more female, coupled with the explosive growth of the ABDL scene - particularly among women – I contend that I have painted a realistic portrait of what’s to come…

It’s possible a fourth installment is in the works…

Huggies and kisses,

-Miss Julia

[juliaedwardabdl]

But what to do with the submissive males? I say women ought to keep them in diapers and treat them like babyslaves ;)

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I don’t know about you, but I’m picking up some serious @lilbabyfae vibes with this song! Merry Christmas to all ABDL’s- hope you get baby powder in your diaper and not coal in your stocking ;)

#abdl #baby girl #age play #Age Regression

[juliaedwardabdl]

Mommy life :)

Mommy’s baby boy.

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It's been a while, and that is one. Soaked. DIAPER! Time for a change, little baby!

#abdl #diapers #MDLB #femdom #Age Regression

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Oh, there are plenty of us Mommies out there who LOVE to hear little boy babytalk ;) Admit it, she made you squirm a bit when she cooed, "Who's your Mommy?"

#abdl #MDLB #femdom

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“Both adult babies felt their hearts begin to pound with anticipation, the baby boy eying the girl’s swaying breasts with arousal while she licked her lips in anticipation of pouncing upon the boy’s smooth body. Each of the babyslaves felt the warmth of the other’s body as their faces grew closer, the sexed-up adult babies drawn by the magnetism of their mutual attraction. The baby girl’s bare breasts began to heave with deeper breaths as the diapered girl made the first move, wrapping her hands around the boytoy’s naked torso and kissing him on the lips.” -Society at New Heights ABDL series now available at the Kindle store.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B08SL7XXWZ?ref_=dbs_p_mng_rwt_ser_shvlr&storeType=ebooks

#abdl #diapers #femdom #age play #Age Regression

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“‘Well, babies, you had better start playing with each other before Mommy changes her mind…’ The wealthy woman’s threat succeeded at impressing urgency upon the diaper-clad babies, and both babyslaves turned towards one another. The nursery air filled with the sound of crinkling diapers as the two adult babies rose to their knees and waddle-crawled cutely towards each other.” -Society at New Heights ABDL series now available at the Kindle store.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B08SL7XXWZ?ref_=dbs_p_mng_rwt_ser_shvlr&storeType=ebooks

#abdl #diapers #femdom #age play #Age Regression

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“The blonde billionaire tapped her fingers against the glass of her champagne flute before finally stating, ‘Well, Mommy believes that good behavior should be rewarded. So…’ The two adult babies clung to their owner’s every word as the lady gave the green light, ‘Mommy gives you permission to play with each other, but you may not remove your diapers.’” -Society at New Heights ABDL series now available at the Kindle store.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B08SL7XXWZ?ref_=dbs_p_mng_rwt_ser_shvlr&storeType=ebooks

#abdl #diapers #femdom #age play #Age Regression

[juliaedwardabdl]

THIS is why Mommy needs to leave her baby boy at home with a babysitter whenever she runs errands!

#abdl #femdom #MDLB #diapers #age play #Age Regression

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“The two adult babies glanced at each other before looking back at their Mommy with mild confusion. The wealthy woman teased aloud, ‘Don’t look so surprised, little babies! Mommy not only wants you babies to love each other passionately, Mommy insists on it.’ The woman’s words only served to heighten the two babyslaves’ arousal, as she added, ‘You babies are brother and sister, and you will love each other unconditionally. You don’t have a choice in the matter.’” -Society at New Heights ABDL series now available at the Kindle store.

https://www.amazon.com/Society-New-Heights-Book-One-ebook/dp/B08SKVZJBF/ref=sr_1_2?dchild=1&keywords=society+at+new+heights&qid=1613232036&s=digital-text&sr=1-2

#abdl #diapers #age play #Age Regression #femdom

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“Figuring playtime was on the verge of ignition, both adult babies watched the attractive physique of their Mommy as she rose to her high-heeled feet and retreated back towards her plush chair. The powerful woman sat down and crossed her toned legs, the luxurious lady lounging and exuding the power of leisure while the diapered sex objects continued to stare at their wealthy owner.” -Society at New Heights ABDL series now available at the Kindle store.

https://www.amazon.com/Society-New-Heights-Book-One-ebook/dp/B08SKVZJBF/ref=sr_1_2?dchild=1&keywords=society+at+new+heights&qid=1613232036&s=digital-text&sr=1-2

#abdl #diapers #age play #Age Regression #femdom

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“The baby boy’s arousal only expanded as he stared up at his owner towering above, the stunning blonde’s red lips and blush-covered cheeks a gorgeous head to the elegant curves and smooth skin that formed her exquisite body clad in light blue lingerie and supported by matching stilettos. The Mommy’s beautiful body basked in the glow of the nursery light as the baby girl stared in awe at the powerful woman and conceded to herself, ‘Good god, she’s so beautiful…’” Society at New Heights ABDL series now available at the Kindle store.

https://www.amazon.com/Society-New-Heights-Book-One-ebook/dp/B08SKVZJBF/ref=sr_1_2?dchild=1&keywords=society+at+new+heights&qid=1613232036&s=digital-text&sr=1-2

#abdl #diapers #age play #Age Regression #femdom