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genuinely saying this in the kindest way possible but i think some of u need to stop self-imposing completely fake n arbitrary rules onto the way u selfship and realize u can do whatever u want forever

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do your neurodivergent f/os have any favorite stims or stim toys? current hyperfixations or special interests? imagine them getting all excited about what they like and gushing to you about it!

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imagine watching the meteor shower with your f/o. smelling of bug spray, sitting out on the lawn with a picnic blanket. talking and waiting for your eyes to adjust to the dark. sitting in awe and looking up at the stars, holding hands or cuddling. soft sweet stuff

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taking a bath with your f/o(s). maybe it’s for your muscles or joints, or theirs, or it’s just a nice relaxing thing to do together.

them washing your hair and back lovingly or vice versa. burning a candle or incense if you appreciate it. listening to nice music or enjoying each others’ company in comfortable silence.

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f/o who is inexplicably gentle with you, even if you don’t believe that you deserve it. not in a patronizing way, not like they’re walking on eggshells around you. in a way that makes you feel like the most precious thing in the world

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- 𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙠 𝙩𝙤 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙤𝙧𝙞𝙜𝙞𝙣𝙖𝙡 𝙥𝙤𝙨𝙩 !◞◞

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- 𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙠 𝙩𝙤 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙤𝙧𝙞𝙜𝙞𝙣𝙖𝙡 𝙥𝙤𝙨𝙩 !◞◞

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fruity selfship positivity!! 🍎❤❤

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Imagine your f/o helping you calm down:

If you're nervous about an appointment your f/o will hold your hand for as long as you want them to. They'll keep you distracted and relaxed throughout the whole thing. They know you can handle this and that everything will go perfectly fine.

If you're nervous about going out they'll make sure you know how beautiful you look and how the only thing that matters is the two of you. They're proud to be with you and they'll make sure to keep your mind off of anything that might make you tense. You deserve to have a fun time and they'll do their best to help you enjoy yourself to the fullest.

If you're just having a bad day they'll do their best to cheer you up. They'll get you snacks, put on your favorite show or movie and have you relax until things start going a little more steady. They'll do anything to get a smile out of you.

They know things can be stressful and they want to take care of you.

No matter the reason, your f/o will always be there for you, through thick and thin! They care about your happiness and well being and they'll do whatever they can so make sure you're alright.

proship/comship DNI

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Hello there F/o community! I just want to let y’all’s know that it’s okay if you lose interest in your F/o for whatever reason, whether it’s temporarily or permanently. It doesn’t make you bad. What matters is the great memories they gave you. Even with F/o’s the spark isn’t burning bright all the time and that’s okay. It doesn’t make you less a part of the community or not loyal. Sometimes things change with our feelings and if you need a break your F/o will be there when you’re ready

[Proship DNI!!]

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your f/o wants to hug you

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your f/o thinks you would look really cute in their clothes