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jamerorm · 3 years

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For some with a need to be spanked, spanking is less about punishment and

more about overall motivation. For these people regular spankings (usually once

a week) are given, along with a reminder of the things they need to work on.

Being spanked clears their minds, allowing them to find their focus.

Spanking Therapy should ONLY be used on consenting adults who have

expressed a need for it. This is a relatively small number of people, and spanking

therapy will not work for those who do not agree that they need it.

Unwarranted spankings (spankings where no crime has been committed

and no therapy agreement has been reached) are abusive by nature, and

should always be avoided. Never use spanking as foreplay to sex unless you

are upfront with the other person that this is just for sexual release and not for

anything that will cause marks and bruising and extreme pain, but sensual light

slaps upon the bare buttocks.

Ideally, spanking therapy should take place at a set place and time,

allowing the therapy recipient to anticipate the coming discipline between

sessions. At the start of a session you should both sit down and discuss

anything the spankee feels he has done to deserve a more harsh or lighter

spanking. This is when the severity of the punishment is determined.

Next, I will address the things you need to be reminded of,

and the things I believe you need to continue to work on. For example, for an

unmotivated adult male I may say, "I want you to continue to focus on your

work, as well as keeping your personal life in order." Reminding you of any

goals set that have not been fully attained (weight loss, stop smoking, etc.)

I deliver the spanking with no games. Counting licks and stupid chants like

"please sir may I have another" distract attention away from the spanking and

reduces it's effects. Ideally the spanking should be given in silence, allowing the

smacking sound to be the only noise. An audible reinforcement of the discipline.

I will only speak to give necessary commands, such as adjusting the

spankee's position if he has moved. Which by the way, I do not appreciate.

Spankings done over the knee with hand on bare butt contact is more intimate

and should be the way a person is spanked, unless this method does not work

to achieve the goals set forth, and then implements can be used. The problems

with implements is that they create fear, and then the spanking becomes fear

therapy and in some people this is most effective, but should be avoided at all

cost unless the spankee feels they “need to fear the rod to save the child” so to speak.

After the spanking, I hug the person I have just spanked, and forgive

them for what they did to earn the spanking with a reminder to avoid that

behavior in the future. Then I allow them some quiet time to think and recover from

the discipline session.

Many men who only seek out women to spank them have lost the connection

to the male counterpart in their lives, like a father figure. These men are men who

have been raised and controlled and punished primarily by a female (mother,

grandmother, aunt), and have not connected to the male counterpart (father,

grandfather, uncle), therefore it is more important for men to be spanked by

another man than a woman to break the cycle, as women should only be spanked

by another woman. Men have become too docile in most families today. The

husband or father figure sits on the sidelines, and it is the mother figure who

controls the family, including the decision to discipline or not to discipline, taking

away the rightful place of the male figure in a young man’s life.

In the old days, men were the king of the castle so to speak and were feared

and were the disciplinarians, but since the seventies, women have all but outlawed

this with getting laws passed that say that spanking is a form of child abuse and

many who should have been spanked growing up, were only grounded and in

today’s environment is a joke, for they have televisions, cells phones, internet,

and other electronic devices to keep them connected to the outside world.

Men sometimes have to be on the receiving end of a good spanking in order

to understand their part in the family when it comes to disciplining their own

children. They need to learn to walk the walk so to speak and start to take a more

active part in the disciplinary decisions when it comes to their children instead of

letting the wife make all the decisions and not allowing him his parental right to intervene.

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jamerorm · 3 years

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I had finished my last class of the day at college and went to see the Reverand, who told me to visit him in his office after school. He was well acquainted with my upbringing with the paddle. I had asked him in the first semester to give me paddlings when I needed them. I now saw him once a week to go over my behavior and to receive a paddling from him.

He was sitting at his desk with his “holy” paddle (with 15 holes) prominently displayed on the desktop when I knocked on his open door. He told me to come in. After going over the past week’s behavior and tallying up the licks I was to receive, he told me that I was to receive 24 licks. It had been a bad week. We decided that two sessions would be the best course of action. What I didn’t receive today would be done tomorrow morning before class. Normally, when he paddles someone, he’d have the miscreant bend over the desktop. He told me to assume the position. I took out my wallet,set it on his desk, and grabbed my ankles like I do at home. He picked up the paddle, got behind me, said a prayer, and CRAAACK! I gave him a count as he laid the paddle into me over and over again.

After receiving twelve licks, I told him to give me another six licks and I would take the last six licks before school tomorrow morning. He agreed, and grabbed my belt loop, yanked it up to tighten the pants, and gave me the last six. He ordered me up, and I shook his hand and thanked him for the paddling I deserved.

Despite the pain the next morning, I returned to his office for the last six licks. He was standing in front of his desk holding the paddle, and I came in and assumed the position. We said a prayer, and he gave me the last six licks. Most of the 24 licks were due to masturbation, three licks each time I masturbated. As I left, I shook his hand and thanked him. I hugged him too. I love the Reverand with all my heart!

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