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don’t ever go on a car ride with me because i won’t talk to you i’ll just stare out the window the entire time

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Hey uhhh

So today I told my friends about my madd and I kinda cried haha… But they were very supportive and I want to encourage everybody who, just like me, was/is afraid to tell anybody!

Please know that your maladaptive daydreaming is something serious and that you’re not “exaggerating”

I was kinda struggling with that, like I was asking attention, but it isn’t like that. It’s something that can lead to other things, like depression (realising that your spending most of your time in a world that will never exist). It’s good to tell the people close to you about your problem.

They don’t necessarily have to help you, but having someone who knows about it can really be relieving

All my love to the other maladaptive daydreamers out there!

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its 11.46pm and you all know what this means!!!

daydream until 5am because sleep is a foreign concept to the mind

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me: whoa this character relationship gives me an idea! i gotta daydream now

brain: ok cool so what do you wanna daydream about????

me: …i don’t know…

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Maladaptive daydreamer feel #5

When in one paracosm you are dating a celebrity and then in another paracosm you are that celebrity

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daydreaming is often a coping mechanism for people who are often lonely or don’t receive a good amount of love in their life, so they make people inside their heads that will love them so they can feel the right amount of love.

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There needs to be negative impacts on daily life for daydreaming to count as “maladaptive”

There needs to be negative impacts on daily life for daydreaming to count as “maladaptive”

There needs to be negative impacts on daily life for daydreaming to count as “maladaptive”

There needs to be negative impacts on daily life for daydreaming to count as “maladaptive”

There needs to be negative impacts on daily life for daydreaming to count as “maladaptive”

There needs to be negative impacts on daily life for daydreaming to count as “maladaptive”

There needs to be negative impacts on daily life for daydreaming to count as “maladaptive”

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as someone who gets heavily fixated on fictional characters, one thing daydreaming has done for me is given me the ability to not need fanfiction lmao

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when im playing out a daydream scenario in my head and i catch myself trying to rush to The Good Part™:

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how i feel whenever i come up with a new paracosim

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when you’re pacing and your earbuds get caught on something n get violently ripped out of your ears

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i already said this but here we go again

do not refer ‘maladaptive daydreaming’ as in you’re just daydreaming about something detailed and long.

maladaptive daydreaming is a term that means when your daydreams take over a significant part of your life, making it hard to adapt fully in real life. it’s not when you daydream about something so detailed and long.

so i hope when y'all say “i maladaptive daydream everyday”, y'all are talking about your daydreams being a thing that make it hard for you to adapt fully in real life, not about what you daydream and how you daydream.

there is no different between normal daydreaming’s way of daydreaming and madd’s way of daydreaming, they’re the same, except one is normal and one is maladaptive.

please dont say ‘my maladaptive daydreams’ only if you’re about to talk about what you’re daydreaming, like daydreaming about holding hands with somebody and going on dates, because that’s not what it means. it’s just gonna give people the wrong idea. just say like your daydreams or something, unless if you’re gonna talk about how it becomes a huge part of your life, etc then go ahead.

#remember this yall

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I like Nighttime because that’s the only time it’s socially acceptable to lie down starting at the ceiling for an extended period of time daydreaming and people think you’re just trying to go to sleep instead of saying you’re lazy.

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i feel horrible for turning real life problems and traumatic events into daydreaming material but i can’t help it..