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INFP: In your opinion, is it possible for someone to hate frogs and still be a good person?

ISTP: Absolutely the fuck not.

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INTJ: *eating a cinnamon roll*

INFP: Cannibalism.

INTJ: [confused chewing noises]

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INFP Aesthetic // Expectation vs Reality

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ENTJ: *sighs* I don't have time for this INFP.

INFP: You don't want my muffins? They have blueberries, just like you like.

ENTJ: No, I'm on a tight schedule. Can't take a break now.

INFP: *sad face* Fine, I guess I will give this to ENTP then.

ENTJ: DON'T YOU DARE, AND GIVE ME THOSE MUFFINS RIGHT NOW!!!

INFP: *whispering* tsundere.

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INFJs are a triple threat when it comes to focusing 😂

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"are u okay" can we change the topic before i cry

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esfj: *points to somebody’s ‘starry night’ mask*

esfj, nodding knowingly: da vinci

infj: are you being serious right now?

esfj: wait was i wrong?

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Flirting

ENTP: damn i would sooo date you if you just asked

INTP(me): *confused* *thinks for a minute not saying a word*

INTP(me): are you flirting with me??

ENTP: have been for about a year thanks for noticing

INTP(me): *rewinds previous year* oh god

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mbti as ways they say “i love you”

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istp

“stay over”

“you might like this”

“i was just in the neighborhood”

estp

“i want you to be happy”

“you look like you could use a hug”

“i’ll wait”

isfp

"you didn’t have to ask”

“i’ll meet you halfway”

“i’ll be here when you’re ready”

esfp

“i saw this and thought of you”

“i’m worried about you”

“i like your laugh”

istj

“don’t worry about me”

“i’m proud of you”

“that’s okay, i bought two”

estj

“you should take a break - you work too hard”

“take my jacket, it’s cold outside”

“you’re important too”

isfj

“i made this for you”

“we can share”

“i don’t mind”

esfj

“it reminded me of you”

“i made your favourite”

“i want you to have this”

infp

“listen to this song - it reminded me of you”

“i’m happy you’re here”

“i saved you a piece”

enfp

“well what do you want to do?”

“i picked these for you”

“stay there, i’ll come get you”

infj

“you dont have to say anything”

“i’ll help you study”

“i noticed”

enfj

“do you need any help with that?”

“call me if you need anything”

“it’s no bother”

intp

“i’ll do it for you”

“i really want your opinion on something”

“wow”

entp

“you can have the last slice”

“what do you want to watch?”

“do you want to come too?”

intj

“is there anything i can do to help?”

“it’s okay, i couldn’t sleep anyways”

“take mine”

entj

“i appreciate what you do for me”

“you just made my day”

“we’ll figure it out”

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Types of INFJs

1. The Mystic

This INFJ loves all things mysterious and unexplainable, they’re relatively calm and reserved people who feel at one with the universe and immediately put the people in their presence at ease. They love being in nature and probably own a few plants themselves that they take care of very diligently. They know a lot about esoteric schools of thought, Astrology, Mythology, different religions and so on. They rely heavily on their dominant function and have an overall psychic/zen vibe. Quintessential INFJ.

2. The Activist

This is the INFJ that cares deeply for social issues, politics and human rights. They are very involved in their society and do what they can to better it. They hold strong opinions on the issues they’re concerned about and will stand up for the cause whenever needed. They tend to be high achievers and they generally have larger groups of friends/acquaintances than the other subtypes. May mistype as ENFJ or INTJ.

3. The Scholar

The nerdy INFJ, stays up all night doing research on whatever subject they’re currently infatuated with. They generally tend to have a knack for literature, art, languages, psychology, philosophy, creative writing etc but can often be interested in the sciences as well. They’re usually capable of holding a conversation on any intellectual topic, even if it is outside their main interests. This is the most introverted INFJ, may mistype as INTJ or INTP.

4. The Lover

This INFJ is the most relationship-oriented of the four, they seek to create a perfect, spiritual union with another person who will be the one and only love of their life. They may sometimes end up being codependent but at their best they make wonderful partners. In general they are very good at picking up on chemistry between themselves and other people and know exactly what approach to take in attracting each individual. May mistype as ENFJ.

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Me @ my gorls when they come and tell me about their shitty boyfriends and how shitty they are.

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Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation in which a person seeks to sow seeds of doubt in a targeted individual or in members of a targeted group, making them question their own memory, perception, and sanity. Using persistent denial, misdirection, contradiction, and lying, gaslighting involves attempts to destabilize the victim and delegitimize the victim's belief.

Instances may range from the denial by an abuser that previous abusive incidents ever occurred to the staging of bizarre events by the abuser with the intention of disorienting the victim. The term originated from the 1938 Patrick Hamilton play Gaslight and its 1940 and 1944 film adaptations, in which the gas-fueled lights in a character's home are dimmed when he turns the attic lights brighter while he searches the attic at night. He convinces his wife that she is imagining the change. The term has been used in clinical and research literature, as well as in political commentary.

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Why I Love the Types

INTP: They always ask the most interesting questions, and will consider your point of view and explore it thoroughly before judging if it is valid or not, their thirst for knowledge is super interesting and complex, and their open-mindedness is unparalleled, they act like they don’t care but they are capable of being incredibly selfless, also their minds are AMAZING, so complex and logical, and just lots of love to all the INTPs out there, you’re great people! X) also, whatever you create is always eerily fascinating, how ever do you come up with that? 

ENTP: You guys are incredibly witty, which makes it hard at times to be mad at you for being politically incorrect, as you have the capacity to understand and respond to almost anything, which makes you great at advising people, and you’re really fun to be with, your confidence empowers people to feel good about themselves, and the quality of conversation is just incredible, so we love you very much beside the fact that you’re infuriating sometimes ;) you’re ultra-smart, too.

INTJ: So F-types using Fi can be annoying but hear me out: I profoundly respect your aptitude to think things through and to sense what the best decision to take would be, you’re incredibly knowledgeable (like htf do you know so much!), your drive and vision are empowering and could truly change the world, and you are silently capable of anything. I basically respect you guys so much, you rock! Oh and your subtle humour and occasional passive-aggressiveness? That’s another great thing ;)

ENTJ: First of all, your organisation skills are unparalleled, you can find a plan for anything in a matter of seconds, and there is ALWAYS a solution, even though you’re a bit scary you’re really easy to talk to when we get to know you, the way you talk about the things that interest you makes it fascinating for the person listening too because of your drive, when you’re patient you can spend hours explaining things ever so clearly to people, you’re really cool ;)

INFP: You’re all so sweet, but this should not be misunderstood as a weakness, since you hold your values very close to your heart and whoever fails to be kind and understanding of others, or who persistently underestimates you, will be irretrievably lost, which makes you very loyal, and very complex. The way you relate to other people although you’re different, your empathy and perception of life are truly inspiring! :) also, your writing skills are very impressive.

ENFP: ENFPs are as capable of making people cry from laughter as they are in search of the deepest truths of their mind and personal understandings to see the world from a completely different perspective, you’re crazy in the best possible way and you speak from the heart, you find meaning in the seemingly smallest and worthless things, and your outlook on life -although it can sometimes be nostalgic or sad- is always breathtakingly beautiful, it’s amazing :)

INFJ: Where do I even start with INFJs, you people are so wise and oftentimes very old souls who genuinely care for other people that they know AND don’t know, you’re always ready to help, sometimes more than you can directly handle, and your concern for the welfare of mankind is incredible. You understand people better than they do themselves, and thank you for listening to our endless rants, and having so much compassion you sometimes feel like it could kill you. We love you lots, really

ENFJ: Not talking about me but about other ENFJs, because that’s what we do, but you people are the rays of sunshine of our lives, the extra mother we didn’t know we needed -badly- and your patience, added to that “fighter for peace” mentality, helps us through our darkest times and makes us stronger. You can always, 24/7, be counted upon to get out of your way to help a friend or make time for someone if they need to talk, and that’s fricking remarkable, you’re a great person -remember that. 

ISTJ: You save our asses ALL THE TIME, which would honestly be enough for me, considering how many times you do so, relentlessly, on a daily basis, you also work so hard to get what you want, you’re determined and nothing can make you stray when you’ve found the right path, your loyalty and strong sense of morals and duties are truly remarkable qualities that teach us many valuable lessons, and thank you once again for your notes, and your checklists, I don’t know what I’d do without you ;)

ISFJ: I’d already mentioned it somewhere but you guys are simply adorable, you care so much, and you excel when it comes to organising birthday parties and family gatherings. You remember little but meaningful things about people, but please stop beating yourselves up over things you don’t consider perfect because clearly, the fact that you’ve put so much of your time, and care into doing something we all see as amazing is way more than enough to any of us!! :) love you guys, take care

ESTJ: You guys are like these old professors from British colleges you see in films, you have your habits, you know your facts, you like cosy warm rooms where you can read and learn at ease, and your pun-based humour is hilarious. You can be completely hyper like you can be calm and smooth-spoken, and you always thrive to take the best decision, which is admirable. We love you for your patience and practicality, and just thank you for being a responsible person - even though sometimes you’re clearly train wrecks but that’s cool with us x)

ESFJ: Stereotypically you’re bubbly and happy to be alive, and I find that that’s actually true for most of the ESFJs I’ve encountered so far :) your organisation skills are epic and you use them to help people as well, so that they can have an organised and healthy lifestyle, which is great. Your positivity has an impact on the quality of my day, at least, and your compulsivity to hug is adorable, we love you so much! ^^

ISFP: You guys look quite serious from afar but when we get to know you, you’re about five kinds of crazy and six kinds of fun ;) You can be energetic and inspired and full of life, like you can also be perfectly chill and quiet -and just to be clear, you have the most amazingly awful taste in music; like I would want to hate it, but I can’t? Thank you for listening to my rants for hours on end and being cool with it, and for just being an awesome YOU

ISTP: You people act like you don’t care but deep down, you’re just fluff x) thank you for fixing just about anything I constantly break, and for being my Eye-roll & Sarcasm buddy. You also have a veritable sense of responsibilities, and will protect the people you care about with your life. Small acts of kindness is your way of showing love, and your strong opinions strive behind your unyielding determination and independence. You be you ;) 

ESFP: The palette of emotions you often display is pretty intense, and it makes great art works, that it be in dance, poetry, drawing or painting, as it also contributes to making you fabulous, and fabulously unique ;) You have style and you have opinions, and you’re not afraid to show it, and that fierceness and wildness is what makes you so damn inspiring. You’re full of beans, and completely crazy, and your party spirit is much appreciated. You also care a lot about your friends and family, and would do anything for them. You go, girl!

ESTP: You guys are driven, cool, aaand have like five different passions which have completely taken over your life and that you constantly think and talk about x) your sense of thrill and danger is also exciting as hell, and your persistent need to set up pranks and make trashy jokes is kind of awesome, but you will literally destroy anyone who tries to contradict you, which comes in really impressively when you defend your friends and look out for them. You’re like our teenage older brother, and you’re awesome ;)