are certain lubes better suited for vaginal or anal sex? or are they all the same?
hi anon,
water-based, oil-based, and silicone-based lube are all suitable for either vaginal or anal sex. many people prefer silicone-based lubricants for anal sex because it's so long-lasting and durable, which is helpful when you're working with an orifice that won't naturally lubricate itself. oil-based lubricants are also a no-go with latex condoms, which is relevant for both vaginal and anal sex. beyond that it's all a matter of personal preference!
I dont think tme people realize that growing up as a boy means that you will experience brutal levels of physical violence from your peers and that is an expected part of growing up as a "boy", even if you dont show any signs of weakness (a.k.a faggyness). Highschool specially.
Not to even BEGIN the levels of psychological violence that is explicitly targeted at young boys. How young boys have to learn how to protect themselves in social situations lest they turn into the one thats acceptable to make fun of.
Imagine being a trans woman in that type of environment and youll realize why a lot of us dont talk abt it.