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shoutout to boring queer people who don’t do shit. just go to work or school and then come home to watch shows. while gay

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“Living weapon” covers a lot and all of it is hot

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Chewy Brown Butter White Chocolate Macadamia Nut Cookies

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beach(ed) body

#no way

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laying on an anti gravity chair and realized i couldn’t get up..

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Todd Howard, the amount of salmon you’ve placed into ponds with no river access to the sea is atrocious 

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Hello, beautiful lovelies. As many of you are aware, I’m moving and I’ve been really busy. My paycheck for this month has been stretched thin, and I need to ask for help paying for my remaining bills. I’m currently aiming for $600, but for the month of June I need closer to $1,500. If anyone is in a position to help, I would be most grateful. If you’re able to, pass this around your dash, too.

Thank you for your extended patience with me. I love talking to you all, and I’m excited to have more time to give you original content, too. 💜

cashapp: $fattributes

ko-fi: fattributes

paypal: [email protected]

0/$600

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public restroom chic

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Why is death feederism ok? It is objectively self harm, as one is doing something that will result in them hurting themselves and eventually dying (as fetishized). I just can’t understand it… I am someone in this space that likes being stuffed and full, and doesn’t mind a little biy of wg… but I just don’t understand why gaining until death is encouraged so much when it’s so extreme and life ruining.

Like if there was a feeder and feedee couple that were into it… what would happen if the feeder had issues and couldn’t help the feedee that is reliant on their feeder? What happens if they break up and the feedee is dependent enough where they need family or something to help?? I mean it’s just… they could literally die if they were so dependent and forced to live on their own.. encouraging people to ruin their lives because it makes their private part excited is encouraging self harm.

This is my opinion and I seriously want to know what you have to say… I brought this up to someone else and their response was to block me and say “I think death feeding women think more critically about the fetish🤔” without response. And just so you know this isn’t fatphobic, i never once said I find fat people gross or anything, I just find the idea of fetishizing self harm gross. It’s fetishizing being disabled and or dead.

TW for death feedism, kink talk, self harm/suicide

so general disclaimer - I am not a death feedist and so I don’t know that I’m a good representative to speak on this topic but I’ll share some brief thoughts.

I think it’s okay to look at extreme fetishes and feel uncomfortable with them, so I’m not going to try and tell you that you can’t feel the way you do. I was very critical of people who practiced this fetish in ways I personally didn’t like and this community helped me realize it’s not my business to do that. There is no moral superiority in kink.

The thing is though - in order to be sex positive and an ally to our fellow feedists (yes, even the ones we disagree with or don’t like how they practice the fetish) we have to respect their bodily autonomy and allow them to make whatever decisions they think is best for them. It’s not our job nor our place to tell folks what they can and can’t do.

I would maybe agree that it’s a slippery slope and in a very extreme case, you could argue that this line of thinking would allow us to excuse a suicide fetish, for example (unsure if that’s a real thing). But there ARE disability fetishes and a fetish isn’t inherently bad as long as there are informed consenting parties and you are practicing RACK.

I don’t know if that line of thinking is even worth arguing because it could only serve to slip the other way up the slope back to overt purity culture. I want to validate your thoughts and questions because its important to critically analyze things and i want to believe you are coming from a place of good faith (and I have it in me to try and discuss this).

Regarding the statement of “death feedists think more critically about the fetish” could be true, as realizing you’re a death feedist DOES require reflection and understanding of yourself and of fatphobia in general. I haven’t had at length discussions with folks about this but the death feedists on my dash that post about fat lib seem to know their shit.

At the end of the day, why death feedists enjoy that aspect of the fetish is not for me to debate with or without them present. It’s not for me to tell them what they can and can’t do with their bodies. That aspect of the fetish isn’t for me, but that doesn’t mean I have the right to tell others what they should get off to. I also think death feedists are a smaller portion of the community and it’s easy to block the tags they use if you don’t want to see their content. I know a few death feedists and I like them (at least their online persona) and they are probably more equipped to discuss this if they want to. So please feel free to add some comments if you’d like, death feedist friends.

My advice is practice radical acceptance. It feels uncomfortable but I think ultimately it makes you a better person when dealing with things you think are weird or gross or bad.

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Men who have big moobs with a thick fat roll that reaches their back, are hot and just catch my attention fully, specially if their chest is more than visible under their shirt or hoodie.

Also, moobs paired with a big belly are just immaculate ✨

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Devour it all.

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Desperately wanting someone to push me into supersized territory already 😩

#omg

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I don't think people talk enough about fat thighs here. The way some of you used to be able to sit with your knees naturally knocking together. But now there's so much fat fighting for space on your thick legs that resting with your knees together is just impossible.

How's it feel to be so bloated up with excess fat that your body is forced to widen itself just to accommodate your piggish appetite?

Finish the food you're stuffing in your maw before answering, fatty. It's rude to talk with your mouth full.

#OH YEAH BANGERRRRR

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Hey cuties 😌 here’s a little treat for you, I love all my sweet lil followers and appreciate anyone who feeds me or supports my content 💗

✨A moot requested to see me get stuck/squeeze in something so here’s me in my little house that’s not big enough for a fatty like me 😮‍💨💗🥵✨

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ahh fuck, made a whole fuckin universe to justify my fetish doodles again

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umm . l.eons nobody asked for in an attempt to get myself out of a rut 😃👍