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wow imagine being this ignorant. 

he ain’t homophobic, it was a mistranslation. 

and I’m gay and can tell the difference between a mistranslation and blatant homophobia. apparently you can’t 

‪Imagine liking kaito momota‬

‪This post was made by gays uncomfortable w homophobic characters gang ‬

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New comic

So I decided to start up a post apocalyptic comic. haven't figured out the whole plot or anything and only have a few characters as of right now. but I will post stuff on here and might even open up a ask box. 

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You cannot give up just yet…

[Undertale]

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pros of practicing my art:

i will improve

cons of practicing my art:

bad to look at

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reblog if youre an idiot. reblog if youre just a fucking fool.

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I like big boys

itty bitty boys

Mississippi boys

inner city boys

I like the pretty boys with the bow tie

Get your nails did, let it blow dry

I like a big beard, 

I like a clean face

I don’t discriminate, come and get a taste

From the playboys 

to the gay boys

Go and slay, boys, you my fave boys

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the inherent horor of being trans is knowing you are the single touchstone a cis person will probably ever have

im reminded of when i went to sit my philosophy exam and had an ex-officer as an invidulator. he asked me if i was trans, something i had no obligation to answer. but if i didnt, i would be cagey. i would now paint an image of all trans people being rude in his mind, so i said yes

that invidulator asked me why, as a trans student, i should have my rights respected if there are so few of us

and instead of rightfully getting pissed off, i had to remember that i am currently representing a community of millions to a single man in a room with just the two of us in it. i could be the deciding factor on how he conducts behaviour with trans people in the future. what if he gets called to invidulate again in 20 years time and has another trans student? what if he remembers the one he met before, and instantly assumes he knows our community?

so i explained to him why i should have rights. and i used my words carefully, because if i slip up even once i have now put a trans person in danger, because he has made a choice based on me

trans people dont get to be angry. cis people always joke about how we demand a space, or we demand the right name, or we demand they bow down to us

think very carefully, did that trans woman demand that you use the right name, or did she correct you? did that trans man hold you at gunpoint, demanding you let him piss in public, or did he look like he wanted to use the disabled toilet to avoid bothering you all together. did the nonbinary trans person have you on your knees begging for forgiveness, or did they ask nicely for you to be mindful of their pronouns?

the transphobic narrative is one of victimhood, meanwhile if i even use the wrong tone cis people will act as a child does, and they will demand that the next trans person they meet apologise

every trans person you meet is aware of this too. we're all very tuned into the fact that we are ambassadors, and that we never asked to be that. i dont want to have to very carefully consider 'will a curt answer mean someome later dies', but every day of my life i do

and cis people need to know that. to be trans is to literally walk on constant eggshells of cis fragility. its why when we see a new trans celebrity we have to desperately hope they dont do stupid fucking shit like caitlyn jenner did. because now everyone thinks trans women are like her. because now negotiations for our right to exist unmolested have gone back another 20 years

and tbh, cis people are pathetically weak. a trans person asked you to use the right name? that did not happen in a vacuum. that trans person has met 50-60 cis people today who refused

and guess what? we get tired too

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FACTS

Please respect characters’ original figure, or I’ll go mad. 8)))))))))

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puffs and ruffs!! (ง'̀-’́)ง

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tfw someone calls you their friend for the first time

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really though the whole “cringy mary sue oc” thing really is attacking an important outlet for lots of kids… All those tropes have a place in it:

Tragic backstories and lgbt+ identities are clearly signs that those are things that the kids creating the ocs live with. Most of those kids struggle with abuse or are lgbt+, and either way need a character to relate to

Self-inserts who hang out with their favorite character or variations on their favorite character? yeah chances are that kid feels pretty alone and needs to feel like someone who they love and look up to respects them back. see the abuse thing again

“Flawless personality” when you feel like everybody hates you you start to feel like a shit person. so having an oc like you who is also flawless is a place to embrace the things you like about yourself and get more self-confidence. I don’t know, this one’s hard to explain. See the next one

“Overpowered or underpowered” yeah, an OP oc is usually because the kid feelspowerless and helpless and nobody wants that. a relatable oc or self-insert who has lots of power? instant self-confidence boost. If my oc who’s like me can have power, so can I. With underpowered characters that’s just an outlet of that same frustration

Anyway yeah cringe culture is dead. All this applies to adults too, not just kids! you’re never to old to make a fun character!

Plus not to mention that all this stuff specifically preys on neurodivergent kids.

If you can think of any other tropes like this feel free to add on

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People in their 20s through 40s: I still have nightmares about school sometimes.

School System: This is normal. I see no problem here.

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“Why should LGBT spaces cater to trans and non-binary people?”

“That’s the T, cis.”

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I am starting some commissions WHOOOOOOOO

if it is an oc have a drawing of them ready 

if it is an already existing character send me a clear full body image of them.

message me if you are interested! if it is just one character then it is the prices listed above but it 5$ for every added character each.

I will not release my paypal info to the public only to those who message me asking for commissions. 

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Not *technically* a birthday art for Kaito, but I wanted to post it on Kaito’s birthday anyway lol.

on deviantart

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DUMBASS WANTS TO GO TO SPACE, WHAT HAPPENS NEXT WILL DESTROY YOU