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drchishiya · 1 year
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chishiya shuntaro dating headcanons
♡ at first he was hesitant to date you, considering your situation in the borderlands, he didnt want to get attatched to you knowing he could lose you any day.
however, his mindset changed as he realised how much he likes you. now he believes, as sad as it sounds, you dont know when your final day will come, so you should make the most out of loving each other as much as possible
♡ nobody knows you are together except your close friends. he doesnt want anybody to find out because he knows they can use it against you, and they will want to hurt you.
despite this, when you are alone together he makes sure you know how much he loves you
♡ most of your time together is spent in his room at the beach, because nobody can bother you there
♡ he has never opened up to anyone, so finds it difficult to do so with you despite trusting you
however he has spent nights telling you about his childhood, how he never felt loved, and why it has made him the way he is now. he explained that that's why he feels the constant need for reassurance, so you know when he gets on your case for not giving him sufficient affection it isn't coming from a bad place
♡ he will always let you vent or open up to him about anything, and he always listens
♡ sometimes he can give really good advice but sometimes he can't say much, so supports you with physical affection rather than words and advice
♡ gets jealous extremely easily, which can be tough for you but it comes from a good place. the lack of love he received growing up has caused him to rely on you for it, and you almost have to 'make up' for all the love he has missed out on throughout his childhood and life
♡ the tiniest of things make him jealous, even speaking to your friends for 'too long' triggers his jealousy
♡ he is very passive, so he isnt likely to tell you straight up that you made him jealous. instead, he just questions your love for him, or instead is overly affectionate for a while to show you that he is the only source of attention you need
♡ he is almost unaware of what a 'normal' amount of attention and affection is, so even if you are giving him a lot of affection, he can accuse you of not giving him enough
this means you will constantly have to give him some extra reassurance, whether it is verbal or physical
♡ he LOVES cuddles but he has to be in the right mood
♡ loves all cuddling positions but really likes simply sitting/laying next to you and wrapping his arms around your waist while leaning on you
♡ if he is in a good mood he will be so affectionate while cuddling, he will smother you in kisses and never let you go
♡ if he needs time to think about something or isnt in the best mood, he will still cuddle you but wont be as affectionate in terms of kisses. he will hold you tight but in silence as you do your own thing, and he wont want you to constantly kiss him (though a few quick kisses to his cheek or neck would be appreciated)
♡ you either let him be big spoon or he wont spoon at all
♡ caresses your hand with his thumb when you hold hands
♡ he always wants to sleep with you as it makes him feel safe being with you, and reassures him you are safe and secure in his arms
therefore if you want to sleep somewhere else, like alone or with a friend, he will try to convince you to stay with him and will make it hard for you to go anywhere else
♡ he subconsciously cares about you so much that he will wake up immediately if you move even the slightest, and he will ask if you are okay (but will quickly fall back asleep once you've told him you're okay and given him a kiss)
♡ in the morning he is an absolute nightmare unless you love clingy people
he will hold you so tight will lay there with you for hours on end not wanting to get up
♡ his kisses are usually gentle and soft, but passionate
♡ will always hold you while kissing, whether that means cuddling or just gently holding your face in his hands
♡ always gives random, quick kisses to your forehead and cheek
♡ kisses during sex are passionate and always involve tongue, as well as trailing open-mouthed kisses down your neck and body
♡ your sex is either really sweet and romantic, or really rough
♡ when it is sweet and romantic he will always kiss you and whisper kind things to you, about how beautiful you are, how much he loves you, and how much you mean to him
when it is like this, he likes positions such as missionary or you riding him so he can see your face and kiss you with ease
he will try to be gentle, and will go at whatever pace you ask him too
♡ when it is rough it is usually because he is taking stress or anger out on you (or just because you like it, just like me fr)
he will verbally degrade you but praise you at the same time, and will be physically rough by choking you or slapping your face or ass
fast, rough pace and will only speed up if you ask him to slow down
♡ will never suggest using toys himself but if you want to, he is more than happy to. however he sometimes likes blindfolding you or handcuffing you to the bed so he can tease and edge you
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drchishiya · 2 years
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gwi nam dating headcanons
he loves you but at the start of your relationship he won't show his love very clearly, it takes a while for him to get comfortable and trust you
i don't wanna sugarcoat him too much, he is definitely a little toxic. he'll get mad when you don't give him attention, start arguments over small things and say a lot of mean ass things to you
however if you told him that what he's doing is upsetting you he will stop (not for a long while but hey its a start)
protective as hell
gets jealous SO easily
if he gets jealous he will just follow you around and keep his hands on you to show everyone else that you're his
as annoying as he can be, he genuinely cares so much about you
hates seeing you upset or in pain, whether that's crying and emotional pain or literally just a stomach ache
if you're upset he will let you vent to him and he will listen but don't expect any advice or good verbal comfort/reassurance. he'll definitely hold you though and give you (literally) a shoulder to cry on
either really clingy or the complete opposite. like one day he will be super clingy and never leave your side, never keep his hands off you and constantly want attention. then the next day he will barely touch you until you're the one being super clingy, and when that happens he'll complain but he really loves it
if you're the one to initiate pda he will push you away but he will always randomly initiate it himself
will never admit it but he loves cuddles. it makes him feel safe to have you in his arms or to be in yours
if you cuddle him he will melt into your touch immediately and stay there for hours, and sometimes (actually very regularly) fall asleep like that
still sort of embarassed to admit his love for cuddling with you so he will never ask for it, but if you guys are alone and he suddenly pulls you into his arms you know he wants cuddles
LOVES when you wear his shirts and hoodies but will never offer them to you, he's still way too proud to be doing that
he is really insecure and loves it when you tell him simple things like that you love him, that he's attractive, etc just because he craves that validation
idk how to word this but he can be unintentionally aggressive. like he'll tackle you to the bed or drag you somewhere by the arm without realising it's hurting you
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