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i thought these lyrics from halestorm: innocence fit rather well

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i don't know what younger person needs to hear this, but it is so valid to not want to drink alcohol at all, or to only want to drink very rarely. don't let others pressure you into joining in with those societal rituals. it is an outrage how normalized drinking alcohol is, to the point that those who choose to abstain are constantly forced to justify their private choices, be publicly questioned about what led to these choices or excluded from activities altogether. you do not ever need to justify your reasons for this. there are absolutely valid and important reasons to not drink, and nobody has a right to know your personal reasonings.

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dear porn bots  Please stop following me. please get out of my house. 

thanks xoxo, cooper

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i never want to contribute to toxic positivity so i want to acknowledge that sometimes things just suck and there isn’t a bright side. the best thing you can do in those times is take care of yourself as much as possible. maybe that means just brushing your teeth, drinking some water or calling up a friend. you don’t always have to be grateful for where you are in life. sometimes you have to get through some hard shit first, but i know that you’re capable of doing it.

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Yknow, you dont have to see everything as a learning experience, mkay? There's not always something to take out of a situation, and that's alright.

It's not all good damage, you dont always learn something from being hurt, and that's okay.

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Instead of berating yourself by saying “I should’ve known better”, “I should have made a different choice”, “I shouldn’t have done that”,

Say that now you know! “Next time, I will know better”, “Next time, I will make a different choice”, “Next time, I’ll try this instead”

We are all learning constantly, you can’t know everything your first go around

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shia lefbouf man...

what happened to that guy  ..  i know people look at him as a monster and i dont blame it i just find it sad   parents be good to your kids be good to your girlfriends set examples for your kid 

#shia lefbouf #seems approriate to blog it here #considering BOTH OF EM STRANGLED THEIR GIRLFRIEND #obv the oteher is more serious #i know he watched his dad beat his mom #be good to your kids be good to your partner #just be kind #like why abuse people i dont get it

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i love you character who’s trying to do better but cannot outrun your fate, i love you hope in spite of all proof of doom, i love you despaired attempts at making it right, i love you blind trust even as you know a knife in the back is awaiting, i love you love that doesn’t mean anything when faced with greater forces, i love you slow descend into madness at the unfairness of it all, i love you pure heart not strong enough to withstand tainting, i love you justified anger

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i still don’t understand why recovery isn’t romanticized more. getting better after being at your lowest point? working hard and doing what it takes to feel safe again? knowing that occasional dips aren’t the end of the world? changing yourself and ridding your life of toxic behavior/people? i’m sorry that sounds better than any edgy miserable story i’ve ever heard. 

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#my followers know wh_ im reblogging this

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S5 Filbert big show presentation episode

#bojack horseman #it comes off as treating tge audiences like idiot's to me #diane was very self inserty in that ep #most know bj sucks being lectured on it is ugh #and diane saying Filbert should be canned had me roll my eyes and go really they had her be that annoying person? #it was very self inserty

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this pic of katrina kinda looks like a child that goes into their parent’s bedroom to tell them that they threw up

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🎶 Back in the 90's 🎶

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I think this is the Saddest facial expression I've ever seen in a cartoon

“Buckle up, buddy! Your life is about to start!”

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“Well, whatcha gonna do? Sometimes life’s a bitch and then you die.”

“Sometimes.”

“Sometimes life’s a bitch and then you keep living.”

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#todd chavez