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Success Stories

It’s been incredibly to hear from so many of you who have found our articles helpful, both as ABDL’s using it as encouragement to speak with their partners and also for non-ABDL partners using it to understand more and help their diaper wearing partner.

I wanted to just write down a few elements which have stood out:

Non-ABDL partners are much more open to 24/7 than I’d have expected

Comments like “I don’t mind him wearing all the time if it makes him happier” are much more common than people worrying about it.

I’ll come onto this later but 24/7 is actually preferable for a lot of partners.

ABDL partners almost always need the push to embrace what’s actually best for them

Feelings of shame and worries about lack of acceptance often works against ABDL’s doing what is best for their happiness and mental health.

A partner “forcing” them to wear more has only resulted in positive stories from both sides. As well as helping the ABDL get want they actually desire the fact their loved one is encouraging them to do it makes them feel very accepted.

Non-ABDL partners prefer a clear structure over their wearing

Many partners really struggle to know when they should diaper their partner or encourage it as their desires are yo-yoing all the time.

Many I’ve spoken to have chosen to make them wear all the time vs random wearing and found this to be much preferable.

24/7 although seemingly a big lifestyle change is easier to understand and adapt to. Exceptions are ok but the non-ABDL partner should control these.

Checks are harder than changes

Most partners are willing to change their partners diaper regularly or all the time. About half also do their 💩 ones.

Checks however are harder for them to get into the routine of. Initially it might be fine for the ABDL partner just to ask for a change as required but the simplest way to incorporate changes is for a phone alarm to be set every 2 hours initially to get into the routine.

ABDL clothing is hit or miss

Some partners love the babyish side and lean into this while others find this element the hardest to deal with.

An honest conversation is required and then if they struggle with ABDL attire, experiment and work up slowly.

Kids complicate things

Couples with older children struggle to switch to 24/7 as easily. Wearing every night is the most common option initially in this case.

My advice would be to experiment with 24/7 pre-kids if you can and then just keep it going as the norm once kids arrive.

The non-ABDL partner should make the decision

It feels like it should really be for stories but actually I’m now a massive advocate for the non-ABDL partner triggering the shift to them being diapered 24/7.

They should throw away their underwear (maybe keeping and hiding a few for exceptions) and replace them with diapers.

This is as important for the non diaper wearing partner as the ABDL partner as it helps them fully accept this is a choice they’ve made and accepted. Doing this while they’re away and then diapering them for first time as a 24/7 wearer when they return is a powerful moment.

The success rate is amazing

All the couples who have now switched to 24/7 or close have kept it going. Most importantly both sides are reporting that they’re happier.

The best results are when they commit to diapers fully with very limited exceptions and the partner is involved regularly with changes.

Most expect this to now be permanent.

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Based on what we’ve seen this has continued to cement my opinion that if you can you should move your ABDL partner to as close to 24/7 as you can manage.

Keep the rules simple with diapers becoming their toilet for everything, exceptions only where 100% required and treat it as a permanent change.

Make the decision for them and thank me later 🥳

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Diaper discipline for your partner when you’re not ready for 24/7

Many couples I speak to the diapered partner has a desire to be forced to wear 24/7 but either this isn’t practical in their lives or their partner isn’t ready to get that involved yet.

So I wanted to put together a short guide on how you can implement diaper discipline and forced regression in a ad hoc and none full time way.

With 24/7 diaper wearing the discipline & domination parts come significantly by you removing their toilet privileges in a near total way which results in it being the discipline they need. If you’re instead only going to make them wear on an ad-hoc basis then you need to make some changes.

First although they’re going to be wearing a lot less you need to be more involved when they are wearing. Secondly it has to be unpredictable for them. And finally it should be more intense than 24/7 wearing to make up for the reduced regularity of it.

I did this to my partner before we decided 24/7 was the right path so here as some tips to get you started.

Look for opportunities to make them wear diapers where it will be more embarrassing while still protecting their privacy

- Going on a day trip? Surprise them by diapering them in the morning and packing a diaper bag for them to carry.

- Long drive? Thick diapers are required.

- Staying with friends or family? Diaper them up for bed!

Force them to use their diapers

- Once or twice a week force them to mess their diapers with the help of suppositories, enemas or laxatives.

- Use locking clothes or diaper covers to prevent them from removing their diaper so they have to use it.

- Lock the door to the toilet in your home

- Don’t give them permission to use the toilet in public

- Make them lose control in a semi-public way. You don’t want to expose others to smelly diapers but giving them a suppository and sending them to get groceries or go out for a walk is a favorite of mine. Or hand a suppository for them to insert at the end of a meal out or when on a drive and still an hour or two away from home.

Take control of their first diapering, checks & changes

- Surprise them by walking into the room, with diaper supplies in hand, and diapering them there and then.

- Tell them that they can’t ask for checks or changes and do these yourself

- Check them in a physical way, making them drop their pants or lift skirt

Vary the amount of time they’re diapered

- Sometime it might just be overnight

- Other times enforce 24/7 diapers for up-to a week

- Don’t tell how long each session will last

Throw in extended 24/7 periods

- Going on a 1 or 2 week vacation? Surprise them by diapering them and telling them that you’ve packed no underwear for them.

- Got a quiet month at home? Tell them you’re going to test them being diapered full time for a bit

Make it more embarrassing

- Tease them when they’re diapered

- Threaten then with being made to wear 24/7

- Force them to use their diaper in front of you

- Make them have their diaper exposed in the house or enforce abdl clothing only

- Don’t change them until they leak and then switch to thicker diapers

- Use more babyish diapers or make a male partner wear girly diapers more

Combine diapers with other humiliation elements:

- Male partner? Dress them as a girl when diapered

- Use bondage alongside their diapers; restrain overnight in a spare bedroom, use a straightjacket & suppositories to make them feel helpless, shackle their ankles to their desk in an exposed diaper while working from home, use locking onesies and covers regularly

- Chastity! Lock them up while diapered and experiment with pegging

- Butt plugs? Going out but don’t want them to mess? Plug them up.

- Role play. Nurse & patient or teacher & school boy/girl work great with diapers

- Pull ups or abdl underwear when not diapered

Use forced regression alongside diapers as much as possible

- When at home and in diapers they should not be dressed as an adult. Onesies, shortalls, exposed diapers, baby dresses, etc…

- Use pacifiers and bottles regularly

- Make them wear a bib while eating. Or step things up and feed them yourself

- Tell them they’re a baby, only babies wear diapers, etc

- Turn a spare bedroom into a nursery simply by replacing the sheets, adding some plushies and keeping a few piles of diapers and supplies visible.

How much and when?

With all of these ideas to try the question comes up of how often should they be diapered and how do I decide when that should be (especially if not a natural mommy/daddy).

As a minimum I’d recommend they’re diapered 25% - 50% of each month. In terms of deciding when you should make them wear, I used to do this at the start of each month and week.

At the start of the month I’d look at our plans for the coming month and see if there were any big events to add diapers to. These for example might be a vacation where they could be diapered 24/7, a weekend away, day trips, etc.

Then each week I’d decide how to get 2-3 days of diaper wearing in. Normally this would involve at least a full day at the weekend as well as some nights and maybe a day when he was working from home. Try pick a mixture of at home and in public diaper wearing time.

For forced messing I’d think when would be best for this. A weekend day at home works well especially when using laxatives where the effects can last a while. Suppositories are easier to plan around and can be inserted as part of a diaper check.

For the rest feel free to plan in as much or little detail as you like but keep it a secret from them. I started with very detailed plans which became less detailed as a gained confidence in the mommy dom role.

A tip from me is I setup a separate calendar on my phone to keep track of when he should be diapered and used a simple code to keep it discrete, naming the calendar “chores”:

- cook = they’re diapered

- garbage = forced messing

- clean = diaper change

- break = diaper check

- Etc…

The beauty of this is I could have notification reminders on for all of these and it doesn’t give anything away even if somebody sees it. In the early days, these reminders for me to check and change him were very helpful.

Finally, remember when doing this that you want it to be embarrassing & inconvenient for them some of the time. With diaper discipline and forced regression it won’t work if it’s always fun for them so plan accordingly.

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To other people, you and Daddy seem like any other gay couple. Meeting friends, attending music concerts, eating in restaurants, and doing all the adult activities. Nobody knows about what happens behind closed doors. It’s your own private thing.

A month ago you and Daddy went to a gay bar to have a few drinks and meet friends. The music played your favorite songs, and the vibe was awesome. So many hot guys around. Some had great faces, some great bodies, some even both. But there was that one guy, that one you couldn’t get your eyes off.

Maybe it was the drinks, but you said to Daddy out loud “Look at that guy! God what would I do to him…”

Daddy looked at you strangely. You never talked like that, and he never did as well. He shrugged and you both continued as usual.

A week from then you went out to the same bar. The music was great yet again, the drinks were great yet again. The vibe was right, the guys were hot, and then you saw that guy again over the bar. You couldn’t get your eyes off him. This time you said nothing, you felt like Daddy wouldn’t like it. You turned your head towards him and understood he saw you were looking at the guy. With a quick move, Daddy passed by you and walked around the bar and to the guy. You were in a bit of a shock, looking at Daddy talking to the guy. They were chatting, then laughing. After two minutes Daddy brought him your way.

“There now, meet John” Daddy introduced him to you.

“Hey?” you said awkwardly.

“Nice to meet you, we’ll chat another time cuz’ I have to go. Cheers.” John said and left in a rush.

“Hot guy right? Man, what will I do to him” Daddy said and winked.

Three weeks have gone by since then. It was a nothing special Friday night. Daddy decided to stay in for the night. No bars, no restaurants, no friends. It’s been a busy time lately and he thought it will be best for you to just stay in, having an early bedtime in your nursery. He thickly diapered you with a few overnight diapers, chose the biggest pacifier you had, and even locked your hands with mittens. Daddy wanted you to have the babyish night ever. He left the nursery’s door half open just before he went to watch a movie in the leaving room. It was still a bit early so you were just half asleep when you heard knocks on the door. You got paralyzed in your crib. This never happened. Nobody ever saw you as a baby, or even being around the house when you were babied. You sucked your pacifier anxiously. Daddy started to talk, then you heard the other person. You listen well. You couldn’t believe it, Daddy wouldn’t do it to you, it will be too much.

They talked and talked, then you heard footsteps that ended in Daddy’s bedroom, which was your bedroom not too long ago. Chatting turned to kissing sounds, then sucking sounds, then fucking sounds and moans. Daddy and the guy had amazing sex while you lay embolized in your crib. Hugging your teddy bear, you were too afraid to make even the smallest move so you wouldn’t make the slightest noise. You don’t want them to come over. You were overwhelmed. It was humiliating and degrading. You felt like Daddy used your words to degrade you inside your own home. You were so ashamed you started to sob silently, tears covered your face and pacifier gag.

The sex noises stopped and you heard the water running from the shower.

“Put on some clothes and bring your phone, I want you to meet someone” Daddy yelled.

‘No please’, you thought, ‘Don’t bring him here’.

Daddy came into the room, smirking, coming for the crib rails, he was about to put them down.

“Oh wow, what I did to him” he said, teasing you, choosing those exact words.

There he was, John, right behind him, holding up his phone, pointing at you, only the crib’s bars were hiding you.

None of them knew, because of your thick layered diapers, that you had the most raging hard-on ever. It started when you heard John’s voice an hour ago, you felt the diaper become sticky from oozing pre cum once you heard them fucking, crying made you even hornier, and then when he held his phone, recording you, after he had sex with your man, you thought you were about to cum.

Daddy just put his hand over your diaper and you released the biggest load ever into your waiting diaper. “Oh, hush now, you just came in your diaper after daddy had sex with someone else who’s taking humiliating pictures of you? It’s okay to keep on crying, Daddy knew what you needed”

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A gym is a place of many fantasies, who would believe some are true?

You fantasized about not being the only diaper boy out there. With every guy with a big butt, your imagination automatedly decided he is diapered. Sadly, their butts were the result of good proper squatting. Sometimes during situps you just sat there, on the mat, searching for clues. You felt your slightly wet diaper under you. Ever since you lost a bit of control over your bladder, you prefer to go with a diaper, even to the gym. Some guys may already saw it, but you just hope nobody will comment. There’s no other option for you, aside from wetting your trainers of course.

One day, you came for a workout, and you saw a familiar face. It’s an ABDL guy you were following online. He’s smaller than you, but still muscular. He looks so handsome, especially in a diaper. You thought about saying something, but couldn’t, you were shy about being ABDL. Halfway through your workout you gathered yourself and decided to finally say something to him. As you walked towards him, you saw another dude had started a conversation with him. You know that guy, he’s lifting here for a couple of years He is big, very big, burly even. You stopped and watched them talking. They were laughing and suddenly your online crush slapped the other guy’s ass. Wait, was the big guy wearing a diaper too?

Your peepee became hard in your diaper. No worries about tenting, you’re small and the diaper covers it nicely.

You finished your workout and went to the shower. It was pretty late and it was empty. You got undressed, took off your thin gym diaper, and throw it away. In the shower, you couldn’t help but think about the two guys in diapers, it was so hot and you were so horny, you jacked off in there, letting your seed down the drain. When drying yourself, you thought nobody is there, and you’ll diaper yourself real quick with a night diaper. It had a babyish print on it, but nobody would see. You lay on the bench, and got diapered real quick, then covered yourself with adult clothes. Anyone could tell you were wearing a diaper, but you thought nobody would see you until you step into your house.

Just before pulling the pants up, you heard someone talking “I knew he wears one, I just knew it”

It was the big guy, with the smaller Twitter guy next to him. “Awwww and he has one with a print too!” said your crush.

You stood there, silent, not knowing what to say. Your online crush, a huge muscle guy next to him, looking at you, wearing a thick babyish diaper. You didn’t even cover yourself, you just gave them the view they wanted.

As they were talking about you and your diaper, they took off their gym clothes. Both of them had a diaper on, but they were plain white and thinner. You could see raging hard-ons under the diapers. They got turned on by you. The sound of tapes filled the space as they took their diapers off, reviling their big hard-ons.

“Sometimes wearing babyish diapers is because the wearer has a baby’s peepee. Show us your peepee baby.” said your crush.

You just jerked off, your small penis is even smaller now, tiny even. But you turned around and lowered your diaper, showing off your tiny powdered penis, pointing forward.

“Just stand there baby, as the bigger kids take a shower” said the big guy.

So you just stood there, pants to your knees, one hand lowering the front of your diaper, showing your small peepee to the bigger boys with bigger cocks, while they were taking a shower.

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Butt Pats

There’s nothing I love more than butt pats. The crinkle sound, crinkling in a rhythm. The light pressure on my butt cheeks. Sometimes a quick squeeze between the cheeks, the padding touching my hole.

Daddy is calling me from his room, while I play on the floor in front of the TV in the living room. When Daddy is calling, I’m coming. I crawl toward him, my diaper is wet, and as I crawl my peepee is rubbing into it. Crawling isn’t natural for me, but at home, it’s the only way I move around, especially around Daddy. It makes him happy, which makes me happy.

Daddy waiting on his bed, sitting. He’s smiling at me, inviting me with a hand gesture to come up to him. I crawl and climb as he tells me to lie down on my stomach.

“Youv’e been such a good boy lately, I’m gonna give you permission to make stickie in your diaper. Keep your paci in and follow the rhythm.” he says, caressing your face, onesie, and diaper butt.

Your small peepee got excited just from his words and got ready in the warm diaper.

He forces his hand on your butt, then you thrust your peepee into the padding. He releases then you let go. He’s pushing, you push. He’s letting go, you let go. Daddy gives you the rhythm to hump your diaper. You can’t even hump your diaper by yourself, daddy is in charge even on that. It drives you crazy and you get embarrassed, burning your face in the matters. The paci gag forces the plastic nipple further into your mouth, making you suck it more eagerly.

“Now I’m gonna pat your diaper. You’re allowed to hump only when me patting. Got it?”

“Yes Daddy”

Daddy starts to pat and I’m going at it. The crinkle sound makes me horny, being controlled by Daddy makes me horny, and being his baby boy makes me horny. I’m so close, then he stops. I stop my humping, frustrated. Then he pats again, and I’m giving it my full energy.

I turn my head to look at him. He looks at me like such a proud daddy of his boy. I’m his boy. I am almost there. He stops, and I stop.

I start to whimper and make upset baby noises, I need to cum.

“Please Daddy” I beg.

“Who is the man of this house?” he asks.

“You are”

“And who’s the baby?

“I am” I say, blushing.

“Cum in your diaper for Daddy”

PAT PAT PAT PAT PAT PAT It feels so good to be Daddy’s baby boy. I like to be his boy. I am his boy. Daddy’s baby, Daddy’s baby, Daddy’s baby.

My body tenses as I explode in my diaper, it’s amazing. As my body relaxes, Daddy stands. He gives me a little kiss, and leaves the room, closing the lights behind him.

“Take a little nap boy, you deserve.” he says, and leaves the room.

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Night Nursing

You and Daddy are cuddling in bed. He just came out of the shower. Naked, smelling good from the “Men” scented body soap he uses. You’re only allowed to use baby shampoo. The “Men” smell is distinctly his. Before he got into the shower, he prepared you for bed. You are freshly diapered, wearing your baby blue onesie, sucking on a pacifier. A baby powder smell is your smell these days.

“Come over” he says, taking you onto his whole body while he lay on his back. 

You rest your head over his bare chest. You can feel his heartbeat, his chest going up and down, and his skin, still a bit moist. You close your eyes and start to calm yourself down. It’s so lovely to be on Daddy, so safe, he’s got you, he’s taking care of you. Nursing on the pacifier adds to the calming effect you’re experiencing. 

Daddy starts to caress your body softly. Your back, your neck, giving your diaper little squeezes. He’s gently touching your exposed ear and nose, tapping your pacifier guard.

It’s all a part of the bedtime routine before he moves you to your nursery and adult baby crib. He knows how much Daddy-Son bonding time is important for fathers and sons. Especially for a boy like you. 

You feel his cock starts to pulse under your diaper, pressing into your padding.

“I know you are tired, but Daddy needs you to be a good boy and nurse on him for your milky treat. It helps daddy to fall asleep faster” he says.

Daddy sits up and lies against the headboard, you stay on your stomach, looking forward and up at him. His big legs are spread aside, a raging boner is inches from your face. You are tired but suddenly you start to suck on your pacifier faster, you’re even salivating heavily. You have nowhere to go but your body starts to move a bit. Your arms and legs, little movements. You love Daddy’s night nursing. Unintentionally you are making cooing baby sounds while moving your glance from daddy’s face to his raging boner in front of you.

“Is my baby excited? Just adorable. Here you go my boy, nurse” Daddy says and picks out the pacifier from your mouth.

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Ideas for Supporting Your AB/DL Partner

Not into diapers or ageplay yourself, but want to make your AB/DL partner happy? Here are a few simple things you can try!

Pick out an outfit for them at bedtime so when they wake up they have to wear whatever you’ve chosen.

Use special terms of endearment. Ask what names they prefer, or simply experiment! Sometimes even a simple “good boy”, or “good baby” can make them melt.

Instead of letting them wear their special clothes or diapers whenever they want, set up a rule that they need to ask you first. It’s simple and quick - and it’s pretty fun to watch them blush and stammer trying to ask if they can put on a diaper!

Pick out a special “Little” item for them to wear. Like number one above, but this time add a onesie or diaper.

Ask them if they need to go potty - anytime, anywhere.

Casually put their pacifier in their mouth when they’re working or gaming or watching TV.

Cut up their food for them at meals.

Order for them at restaurants. Doesn’t have to be anything super childish - just that act alone can make them blush!

If your partner is padded up, give them plenty to drink. Remind them that you really wouldn’t want them to get dehydrated. Bonus points if you’re out in public and order them a giant beverage!

Pat their bum. If they’re padded, watch them melt and squirm at the sound of their own diaper. If they’re not, tease them about how strange it feels when that padding is missing!

Deliberately walk down the baby aisle with them while shopping. You don’t need to buy anything, but bonus points if you go slow and start examining the baby foods (or better yet, the diapers!).

Refer to underwear as “big boy/girl/kid pants.”

Ask if they need a sippy cup or bib if they ever happen to spill something while eating.

Get a warm washcloth and wipe their face with it after eating - even if they’re perfectly clean. Watch them melt!

Stop by the swings at the park, and if they’re empty, try them out. Heck, you’ll probably enjoy this one too!

Pat and stroke their head, especially if they like to ageplay. Littles are often very sensitive to touch when regressing, so that sensation combined with the caring and condescension it implies will likely bring them a lot of pleasure.

Give them a padded weekend; simply replace the underwear in their drawer with diapers. (Or even make them do it themselves!) Tell them they’ll get their underwear back once they’ve used those up.

Remind them how cute they are. Many age players can be intensely embarrassed of their appearance when wearing baby things, so communicating that you find them attractive can mean the world.

Encourage them to “use their words” when talking about what they want. Don’t expect them to wax eloquent on what they’re craving, though; it’s often embarrassing and hard to articulate these things. Be patient and listen.

Try talking to them in an enthusiastic, bright tone - just like you might talk to a three-year-old - and see if they like it.

Let them show you love in return. Maybe they’ll be embarrassed, or turned on, or both - but above all they’ll love you and be grateful for your acceptance. So if and when they try to return the favor by doing things for you, let them.

This is just a starter list, so feel free to add more in the comments! 😊