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just logged on here for the first time in YEARS holy fuck this is crazy. may b i will be active again

#i miss talking thru tags omg #wow

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the episode of grim adventures of billy and mandy where grim got a goth gf and she got scared and ran off when she realized he was the real grim reaper was complete bullshit. nobody would do that.

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Why are women expected to dilute and tone down their personalities to be more appealing to men. Men are never told that they might struggle to get married because they are ‘too much’. They are never too opinionated, too confident, too educated, too passionate, too strong willed… it’s always women who must chip away at their selves to become more soft and easy to stomach and pliable.

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Reminder that libido and sexual attraction are separate things.

Libido and sex drive refers to how much and how often your body wants sexual release. Sexual attraction is wanting to have sex with and/or being aroused by a specific person. You can have a libido and still be asexual. In fact a lot of asexuals do.

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Something I wish I'd heard earlier

Good reason to have a sexual/romantic encounter:

•You want to

Not good reason:

•You feel like you have to

Remember kids, Your first kiss, crush, significant other, sexual encounter, romantic heartbreak, etc. is NOT some special rite of passage you Must go through in order to count as an adult or whole person or whatever. Don’t subject yourself to something you don’t actually wanna do just to “get it over with” cause you feel like you have to.

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kinda funny when english teachers say stuff like “i can tell if you didnt read the book” or “i can tell when people bs their paper”

no you cant.  you can tell when people are bad at bs-ing their paper.  i didnt even read the sparknotes and i barely skimmed the wikipedia and you gave me an A.  you kneel before my throne unaware that it was born of lies

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this makes me want to cry

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Frida Kahlo

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me: *receives nonsense information from a dream*

me: this is hidden knowledge only i am privy to

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“I can’t see anything that I don’t like about you.”

“But you will.”

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind (2004) dir. Michel Gondry

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self care is putting yourself to bed on a regular schedule because it’s the base treatment for mood disorders

there’s no twist or anything it’s just really really good for u to sleep at consistent times

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Once upon a time in the West, Hayley Eichenbaum

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Bro come on just tuck me in bro you know I can’t sleep unless someone tucks me in man

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Intuition is real. Vibes are real. Energy doesn’t lie. Tune in.