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[dearweirdme]

Where are the receipts where mjh said that bang pd copied BTS on her ideas? Is there any evidence or only media statement?

Hi anon!

Apparently there’s a transcript of her online conversation with a sjaman in which she states Bang Pd got this far by copying her. I’m not actually sure if there’s more than that and her claim is that the conversation is edited to portray a certain idea.

#music industry

[dearweirdme]

Correct me if wrong did Tae went live on the next days after the Dream premiere night? Is it normal that you don’t wash after you got home coz he seems just got home before he went live or maybe he stayed with JK or maybe I’m just delusional.

Hi anon!

Well, if he passed out he probably wouldn’t have showered before going to bed. I suspect it’s just a case of bad bed-hair (though super cute!!) If anything I think Jk might’ve gone to Tae’s place for a bit before going home, but it’s also very possible they just actually didn’t accompany each other at their places.

#taekook #dream premiere

[dearweirdme]

https://twitter.com/nightstar1201/status/1783381281700765992?t=V5KVf_MYIfTq0uOjJH_knw&s=19

One of your anons said not to insert the guys with what's going on, but clearly this lady is nuts. Now I don't even trust that her working with Taehyung was in good faith. I know everyone had different beliefs, but as someone who grew up in a culture that believes in witchcraft this is concerning 😟

Hi anon!

As an atheist, to me inserting any kind of religious belief into business decisions is unwise. So yeah, to me this is a big 😬.

I dislike how she’s being portrayed as an insane woman because of this though. To me it is hypocritical and definitely slandering to use her beliefs against her. As if she’s not also been very successful for a very long time. I don’t like what she’s doing with naming other bands, but I also feel there’s unfairness going on.

#music industry

[dearweirdme]

For what it’s worth, I originally thought there was no BH security at Dream Premiere, but as we got more footage, it became clearer they were there — you can see familiar faces when they walk in the mall area.

Hi anon!

That would point to some company awareness indeed.

#taekook #dream premiere

[dearweirdme]

#guess who just got blocked #not a straw after all #just someone who thinks all shippers are the same and there’s no difference between atraws and tkkrs #also someone very condescending #did i evee mention i hate being called honey #please at least read through my blog before you claim I believe certain things #sigh

[dearweirdme]

This keeps getting interesting by the day. Best drama to come from Hybe.

Do you think 2025 and beyond for BTS is not promised?

Also how easy is to paint women hysterical

Hi @wheniwrite28 !

Omg, I’m getting more annoyed by the day. It’s like watching a car crash happening. The mus throwing is insane! I ao wish they could’ve dealt with this behind closed doors.

My take in this: I don’t trust or like either side. I think both are manipulative. I dislike how they paint her as a hysterical woman (the misogyny is strong 😑) and I dislike how she drags in several groups.

#music industry #what a mess

[dearweirdme]

https://www.tumblr.com/dearweirdme/748745325601243136/httpswwwtumblrcomdearweirdme7486647146728652

Or, or, hear me out. Tae and Jk are just friends who hang out with each other and return to their separate homes at the end of the day.

It’s funny to me that you literally just accused your fellow shippers of bending reality to fit their narratives, so what is this you are doing? You are literally bending the hell outta the reality that Tae and Jk hang out as friends and return to their homes as friends do, and trying to make it fit with the narrative of them being a couple by saying they have to keep themselves safe. That makes no sense because if they wanted to keep themselves safe as you claim, then Tae definitely wouldn’t be telling you how Jk sings a song for him.

There is a pattern here that you taekookers are refusing to acknowledge or making up excuses for. Jk and Tae never being together on days a couple are expected to be together and literally confirming it, so there is no speculation here. Them hanging out for a few hours and separating to go to their houses as friends would. If y’all don’t bend tae and Jk and make them into some actors, liars and pretenders, your ship makes no sense does it? It’s kinda sad honestly

Hi!

Not sure why you’re looking at a Tkk blog if it upsets you this much. It troubles me that you can’t understand the differences between the things we speak of.

Bye!

#this is a straw #i know because of the couples day thing #i’ll block you next time

[dearweirdme]

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C52ciQQvcQE/?igsh=dno2Ym9iZjB1OWs=

Why do you think someone dragged Tae's chair? Like whatvkind of behavior is that?

Hi anon!

I know that’s something that goes around in fandom, but personally I don’t think it was staff that pulled him back. I think it’s probably himself shoving his chair back and we’re just not able to see his legs move properly. I see no reason for staff to do that, neither do I see any indication that someone was standing/walking behind him.

Not everything that looks a bit weird is actually something wrong.

#taekook

[dearweirdme]

Hi Rain!!

I would like to add my two cents in the ongoing discussion.

Fans often miss the mark by viewing Taekook through a conventional dating lens. Societal norms cloud our judgment, leading to misinterpretations.

In my opinion, the Dream premiere's purpose was to portray them as extremely close, not romantically involved. Their separation afterwards might be a strategic move by the company, possibly orchestrated by Taekook themselves, to display their strong bond as a duo outside the group dynamic. This approach allows them to be close in the present and future without fueling romantic speculations.

There's a contradiction: fans simultaneously believe they're not ready to publicly disclose their relationship yet, while also expecting them to act like couples in public. This is simply unrealistic.

I genuinely believe Big Hit anticipated this. Artist contracts often address such situations, especially for popular groups like theirs. While I can't confirm details about permission or veto power, it's likely stipulated that Taekook should at least inform the company before appearing together publicly in a way that could be misconstrued as romantic.

It's understandable why people might speculate about Jungkook's emotional state on the live stream after the Dream premiere. This situation is unprecedented for them. Previously, their outings were only known through personal stories or leaks from a few people. This was the first highly public event where they appeared together in a decade. Knowing their every micro-expression would be dissected, it's natural for him to feel nervous about the public's reaction. The public's perception of Taekook's relationship is often skewed towards a romantic interpretation, regardless of their actual intentions. Their appearances, interactions, and even expressions can fuel these speculations, as evidenced by the recent fan and media reactions to their Dream premiere appearance.

The decision to sleep separately and appear on separate live streams could be a strategic move by the company or taekook themselves. This might serve several purposes gauging public reaction, managing fan expectations. It's important to consider that excessive speculation, even from well-meaning fans (*cough* us *cough*), can have negative consequences. While other fan groups might engage in similar behavior, with same popular pairings, the potential for harm is likely less severe for them. However, for Taekook, managing fan expectations is crucial to avoid negativity and potential "outing" before they're ready. Ultimately, these strategic moves could benefit everyone involved – the artists, the fans, and the general public.

The speculation about loneliness also stems from a single viewpoint – that they maybe casually dating. However, what if they're simply cautious? Imagine having a fantastic night, but instead of enjoying it freely, you have to wait and see the public's reaction for fear of questioning their relationship or to create the perception you are not dating while you may very well be. This could be quite heartbreaking.

While Jungkook might not be overly sharing, as Rain pointed out many times, he also finds it difficult to completely mask his emotions.

Forgive the text wall! Just wanted to share my thoughts. 🫣

Hi @purplemoonlibra !

Thanks for sharing your thoughts! I very much agree with not looking at Tae and Jk as a conventional couple. They are not. They’re famous and they’re a secret. Both of those alone would mean there’s planning involved when it comes to a relationship, the two combined only makes it more necessary.

The though of them doing certain things to normalize seeing them together has come across my mind at some point, I’m just not really sure if that’s deemed necessary at this point. I haven’t got a great grasp at what the opinion of SK’s in general is about them. Do they already see them as friends? Do they suspect something? Would they be surprised to see Tae and Jk spend this much time together? So, is there a need?

I do think it’s something they have done before. To me the way they were shown in ITS was very much about this. Establishing closeness with strict boundaries. I do think at that time there was a need to do it.

If Tae and Jk would have a plan to be more open after enlistment, then maybe you are right and this was already a start into that. I absolutely think their aim these days is to show that they’re super close. I don’t know if they actually plan stuff to make that come across though.

To me it does look as though at least Tae’s live had a purpose other than him actually telling us he heard Jk did a live and that he himself was drunk and passed out 😂.

The last part of your ask I definitely agree with. I do think they are cautious and I do think it’s probably very heartbreaking at times.

#taekook #dream premiere

[dearweirdme]

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I personally think TK set their own protocols on "visiting" their homes. If they were just seen in public, that means many eyes are on them even after the event. Case in point, the "new" photo of them walking around with Wooga. People stalk them.

They are aware that stalkers are everywhere. So being out in public puts them more at risk of being tailed/followed. I don't think they go to each other's places after being seen in public but would go to their own places to minimize risk. This also happened after their public appearance at Hyoshin's show.

They definitely have ways on getting into eo's places without getting seen but that would be at risk of exposure if they do that just right after being seen publicly.

Maybe JK felt lonely afterwards because it really wasn't the most ideal situation specially after a night out like that, something that must have been huge for them. Plus them doing livestreams, as if to show that "hey, we went our separate ways". JK must have had a fun night but it had to end in a less than ideal way: having to separate ways for their safety against stalkers. I can imagine how that must have sucked tbh, taking a big step going out in public together and enjoying the night with Tae and Wooga, but having to cut your time together short, along with the happiness you felt.

Hi anon!

To some that might seem an extreme way of thinking, but I do think it’s rooted into something very real. Aside from the Tkk of it all, we know they have stalkers. Both Tae and Jk have had people come seriously close last year, and those must’ve been very scary incidents to them. So yes, when they’re out somewhere publicly I think they are very much aware that some stalkers and saseangs will take that information and await them at their buildings for when they arrive back home. In the case of Tkk the treat to their privacy that might be is even more of a risk.

I think Jk gets overwhelmed at times. I think he’s pretty sensitive. So a lot of that night might have contributed to why he was feeling off during his live.

#taekook #dream premiere

[dearweirdme]

i can’t believe i saw a jkker reasoning behind the nov 28 vlive be that jk is “very sexual” and “would have sex with anyone” and that jm “knows what he’s like” 🗿🗿🗿🗿

Hi anon!

Omg 😫, every time I think I’ve seen the worst take possible they go and proof that it can in fact get worse.

Though there probably are some exceptions (they just hide themselves very well) most Jkk accounts I see talking about Jk and Jm do not understand Jk at all! They have an inkling of what Jm is like (and he definitely is the main character for them) but they all get Jk wrong. It hurts both my brain and my heart.

They need to bend and break him to fit their narratives. They need to make up stuff and come with false proofs (that they might not even recognize are false because they don’t bother checking facts). Only this week I saw a post come by about Jm and Jk sharing clothes and having similar styles. I think the intent was to proof that Jm and Jk share clothes outside work, but they then went to proof this by showing pics of them in Run and other company content 😂.

But yeah thanks for reminding me of their idiotic reasoning 😂.

#straws

[dearweirdme]

https://www.tumblr.com/dearweirdme/748671843677929472/i-think-maybe-tkk-is-not-together-anymore-bc

They are still cutting a lot of their content though? I thought that much was obvious by the Bangtan Bomb from taejoon’s enlistment. I actually don’t think there’s much difference with how much TK content we’ve been getting in solo era vs when we were getting OT7 content. Maybe it just feels like “more” because we aren’t seeing all seven of them together?

Hi anon!

Oh they are, but it’s less than it used to be. I think the change happened somewhere around 2019/2020 so I’d agree with your thoughts on it not being much different from recent years. The standing out of Tae and Jk from last year is due to it being solo time and them spending more time together than the others.

#taekook

[dearweirdme]

isn't bogum a part of some homophobic christian church?

Hi anon!

Well, being in any kind of church doesn’t mean you can’t be queer.

Though there have been speculations that he left the church in question, he has been a part of a church that was deemed cult-like and had some very controversial practices.

#other stuff

[dearweirdme]

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bro im genuinely sorry for bringing this up again 😭 but tae would never ask for "permission" to hang out with wooga bc that would be in his personal time. but a premiere is a public appearance, they were there as public figures on top of being seojoon's friends.

im starting to feel im the only one who believes that tkk are not rebelling against bighit? i actually think that bighit and tkk over the years have reached a better point now especially after signing their contracts for the third time

Hi anon-bro!

You might be right, I have trouble deciding wether I think they would need permission to go to premieres. But just to stay on the safe side.. maybe let’s say the do and BH knew they would be there. It wouldn’t really make a difference in my feelings about them at Dream in general. It’s mostly about the way they were there and less about the status of them being there.

I don’t feel they’re rebelling against BH in general, maybe some smaller moments like the joint insta live they did, but then that wouldn’t be about rebelling to set them free from their closet, but more about them wanting to be able to do things without having permission in general.

#taekook #dream premiere

[dearweirdme]

i think maybe tkk is not together anymore bc bighit has been showing much more content from them. we got the bangtan bomb from jk’s inkigayo, the suchwita interview, them mentioning eo in interviews isn’t being cut out etc. i feel like if they were still together they would still be cutting their content but they’ve been showing us more so it seems like there’s nothing to care about

Hi anon!

I think there’s been a bit of a change in how Tae and Jk are being shown for a while now, but to me that’s more about them maturing and BH trusting them more. Fandom would still perceive them as a couple either way, so I don’t think the change would be because they broke up.

Aside from that, Jk and Tae don’t act like they broke up.

#taekook

[dearweirdme]

So I just started watching a new kdrama and Park Bogum is the male lead. He is GORGEOUS. Like im in awe every time he appears on screen. But I can't help thinking, he kinda looks gay? His costar is Hyekyo who is like the Korean Monica Bellucci, super beautiful, her sex appeal overflows and makes it even harder for him I think.

We obviously dont know his sexual orientation and the fact he looks fruity (to me?) doesn't mean he is indeed gay but I was thinking.. do you think there could be something more to his relationship with tae? maybe an unreciprocated crush? I know tae is so social, such a sweetheart but their bond always felt different in comparison to wooga for example. it was always just the two of them travelling together, romantic selfies and their interaction at the bts concert felt a little telling.. nothing happened but there was an awkwardness..?

im leaving jk out of it as his reaction to Bogum might be iconic but at the same time I am not sure at all how he felt.

Hi anon!

Oh no.. don’t you go all stereotypical on me… we want to get rid of thinking that sexuality comes with certain looks!

Well, I wasn’t in fandom at the height of the Bogum Tae friendship.. and I have a hard time deciding whether they are still as close these days. But from what I’ve seen, I don’t think they would’ve handled (and utilized) Tae and Bogum’s friendship the wat they did if it had been more than friendship. They actually placed a spotlight on them and I don’t think that would have happened had there been a romance there. Flirtations? Possibly? But it doesn’t look like it was something serious to me and I tend to believe they actually were/are just friends.

I think Jk’s jealousy was less than fandom makes it out to be, but I do think he also wasn’t very enthusiastic about it 😂

#taekook

[dearweirdme]

https://www.tumblr.com/dearweirdme/748664714672865280/anon-abt-the-dream-premiere-lives-again-idk-i

wait i have always assumed that tkk informed bighit about the dream premiere. so bighit wasn't aware that tae and jk would attend the premiere? but how is it possible to make a very public appearance and this isn't like they were spotted somewhere, all the journalists took photos and wrote articles about it, so how is it possible that they just went off on their own? plus a premiere has a guest list, the host also has to prepare. so i don't understand?

Hi anon!

I mean, I don’t know if they asked or told BH beforehand. It would depend on what’s in their contracts. I don’t think Tae would ask permission to go somewhere with a Wooga member every time he goes out, so would he have to if it’s him and Jk? Journalists taking pics and writing articles has nothing to do with BH knowing beforehand. The main thing would be if Tae and Jk are permitted to go to an event like this without BH knowing.

I’d say the host’s preparation isn’t that big of a concern in this case. I’d assume they have earpieces on for things like this, so it’s pretty easy to adjust. But maybe both Tae and Jk were on the list.

#taekook #dream premiere