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i hope someday i’ll get to build a garden with someone i love

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can’t help falling in love on a kalimba

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“Those poor boys”

“She deserves to be punished too.”

“I’m not saying I support rape, but-”

“Sorry to say - she deserved it.”

“She put herself in harm’s way”

“But if she was fingered, then that’s not rape.”

“She ruined their lives.”

[days-undone]

“I’m in pain because the day is ending and somehow I am never healing.”

— Anne Sexton, from A Self-Portrait In Letters (via violentwavesofemotion)

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“love, I’ve come to understand is more than three words mumbled before bedtime.”

— Nicholas Sparks (via goodreadss)

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the boy

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Life isn’t easy. Simply put, you will have good days and not so good days. You may relapse, or you may just feel off. Whatever the case may be, you are you. You are perfect. You are not a broken toy, or malfunctioning software. You are human. Let yourself heal and recover.

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friendly reminder: healing is not an overnight process

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I have to I have to I have to believe

that I can change again again again

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by kimothyjoy

[days-undone]

louder for the people at the back

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don’t let anyone tell you that it’s a bad thing to feel things deeply. a full heart is a strong heart and being soft doesn’t make you weak. being soft and loving makes you radiant. you deserve all of the love in the world and so many good things.

[days-undone]

look, tomorrow you will wake up and feel a bit better, a bit calmer. you are going to figure things out eventually, it dosnt have to all be done tonight. take a deep breath, relax your shoulders, and get some rest. you will manage.

[days-undone]

what relationships should NOT be:

filled with anxiety, self-doubts, extreme jealousy

a one-way thing

never stepping out of your comfort zone

blantantly forces you to do something you don’t want to do

hostile atmosphere is ever-present

lack of autonomy

uncomfortable, stagnant, undermining, empty

forgetting that you have a life outside of your relationship

make you feel limited, inferior, confined, always exhausted, insufficient

compromise your mental health and growth

what relationships should be:

promotes your welfare

filled with trust, honesty, and a stable communication

freedom to choose and speak

mental health is considered a priority

two-way thing

a safe, supportive space for both of you

empowers and fulfils you

might be filled with both the good stuff and sometimes bad stuff

^ but only because it helps you grow

a constant journey of self-discovery