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We've all gotten just a bit too comfortable being jerks to strangers on the internet I think

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If you have a new neighbor moving in, go introduce yourself to them and welcome them to the building/neighborhood. Welcome cards or welcome gifts aren't mandatory but aren't a bad idea either. It's also nice to bake them cookies or other treats if you feel up to it, but it might be a good idea to find out if they have any food allergens first.

Although moving into a new home can be an exciting time for many, it can also be a scary, frustrating, and uncertain time for many. A kind gesture from a new neighbor can really make a difference if someone falls into the latter category. And either way, forming connections with your neighbors can be really important for developing a sense of community. Being friendly with your neighbors can really come in handy if you're ever in a pickle such as your phone is dead and you're locked out, or nobody in your household can get that jar open that you need for dinner that night, ect.

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If you smoke, don't leave your butts on the ground. Dispose of them properly. The same applies if you use nicotine pouches, don't spit them out on the ground and leave them there, dispose of them properly.

While littering in general is usually a bad idea because the littered trash can be hazardous to wildlife or even people (and let's face it, just makes a place look uglier) littering nicotine products is especially harmful to wildlife and humans alike. In urban areas tap water often has nicotine in it due to all the littered nicotine products such as cigarette butts and nictotine pouches, due to rain runoff carrying nicotine into water sources used by both humans and wildlife. You're free to take up whatever habits you like so long as they do not infringe on others, but littering your nicotine products taints water supplies which unfairly forces nicotine on others who don't get a say in the matter.

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#mostly reblogging for the gif #because it is indeed not cool to litter

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If someone cooks a meal for you, offer to do the cleaning up and dishes after the meal.

If someone is kind and gracious enough to cook a meal for you, it's only fair to offer to return the favor. It shows a sense of appreciation for the food they cooked for you and the effort they put into preparing it for you.

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Say thank you when dealing with any employees

Even when they do something that seems easy or a part of their job acknowledging someone providing a service to you allows you to show you appreciate it and also can make their day easier as well.

This is especially true for Call Center and service employees.

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You never know who needs the kindness you have to offer. So, be kind. Not only to the people but also to the animals.

Be kind. It doesn't cost anything.

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honestly, being rude in general (especially if the other person didn’t do anything wrong or they didn’t intentionally want to piss you) is a no no

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I don’t usually do autobio comics but lately some difficult things have been on my mind that I felt like I should share.

#sexual assault tw

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Some of y’all act like basic manners, general human decency, and kindness to others is SO MUCH emotional labor. I don’t like that shit.

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Wait your turn, respect the queue, don't cut in line or in any way shove past those already waiting before you.

People started queuing based on the order of who arrived first for a reason, and that's because it's a lot safer than having a system where people just shove and fight to be first. But the safer system only works if everyone (or almost everyone) agrees to respect it and abide by it. If enough people just cut in line or shove past those already waiting before them we risk adopting a more dangerous system of just shoving or fighting to be first. This would be especially bad for children, elderly people, disabled people, and anyone else who could stand to lose out more on a system of shoving and fighting instead of a fair system of waiting your turn based on the order of who arrived first.

*the exception to respecting the queue being of course severe medical emergencies, especially if it's a matter of life or death. Anything short of someone's health or safety being on the line, respect the queue, let those who were there first go first.

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If you go to the gym, wipe down your equipment after using it and always return weights or any other equipment back to their designated spot after using it.

Not only is it unhygienic and unsanitary to leave your sweat on public equipment that others are going to be using, nobody likes sitting or laying on a gym bench that's sticky from other people's sweat, and it's only worse if you have sensory issues. As far as putting the gym equipment back to its proper designated spot, a lot of the weights are heavy making them difficult to move, which makes for an extra difficult and strenuous cleaning up for the staff at the end of the day if there are a lot of weights and other pieces of equipment they have to move back to their proper spot. Additionally leaving weights laying about on the ground is a tripping hazard.

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‘Don’t be like that!’

Poster reminding people to give up their seats to the elderly or other passengers in need (1957). Artwork by K. Ivanov.

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Always use your turn signal

Cars are several tons of metal moving at very high speeds, even though they're such a normal part of every day life they can be very dangerous or deadly when not used consciously. When you have several tons of metal moving at high speeds it makes it safer for everyone if we know which direction it's about to go, as being aware where the car is about to go reduces accidents and pedestrian/cyclist getting struck by cars.

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Of course good queuing etiquette isn't just for gentlemen, good queuing etiquette is for everyone ;)

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It's especially important when using shared public spaces to tidy up after yourself. Wash your own dishes in the work kitchen instead of leaving them for someone else to wash. Don't litter or just leave your trash sitting somewhere.

Sure, a lot of these shared public spaces usually have staff designated with keeping them clean. But not all public spaces have staff designated for cleaning and tidying it up, and even if they do the staff designated for keeping the area clean and tidy are almost always going to have too many duties to have the time to follow everyone cleaning up after them like a personal maid or a butler. When these areas stay clean it makes it better and easier for everyone to use. On the other hand if a lot of people are making a mess in these shared public spaces and few to none of them are picking up after themselves it makes it worse and more annoying for everyone to use or even renders them completely unusable.

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Gauge your audiences when bringing up a new topic. Avoid bringing up sensitive/NSFW topics unless you know someone well enough to know that they would be okay with you bringing up these subjects in conversation.

Certain topics like drugs, sex, and violence weren't just deemed sensitive/NSFW topics all willy-nilly. These are common topics for people to have trauma around or to be currently having personal struggles with. If you don't know someone well enough to have an idea of their personal struggles and/or what they're comfortable talking about, it's best to avoid bringing up subjects that are common to have trauma or personal struggles with. No need to unnecessarily make other people upset and uncomfortable in what could have just been a lighthearted conversation with a co-worker or classmate.

*the exception being if it's a specific setting that calls for it, such as a sex ed or health class. But in these cases people are warned well ahead of time that these subjects are going to come up, instead of just having these subjects unexpectedly sprung on them by someone who they don't feel fully comfortable around yet, such as a classmate or co-worker.