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High Earning vs High Value vs High Quality

Urtoospoiled’s Definition

High Earning: someone who has a large amount of income however lacks the qualifications to be considered to be kept or further entertained.

Feminine Example: Cheryl, age 37 is a Nurse Practitioner who earns well over six figures a year. However, Cheryl is unable to secure a second date, let alone a relationship despite being a pleasant woman. When I asked the men that took her out (all qualified suitors) they overall stated that she’s nice however there was no personality beyond her career. No hobbies, no friends, no traveling. “She’s very Miss Independent,” one suitor stated.

Masculine Example: Darryl, age 26, was drafted into the NBA a few years ago signing a deal to make over $4M a year. Darryl immediately bought all the luxury he has ever wanted and ignored all financial advice. He has spent on friends, strippers, his gf and family. One game, he tore his ACL and is now out for the rest of the season. Due to the severity of his injury, he has been forced to retire early. Darryl has made minimal investment decisions (none profitable) and can no longer afford to keep up with a quarter of his previous lifestyle.

High Value: someone who has initially met an individual’s expected standard

High Quality: exceeding one’s initial expectations; someone whose value has been proven, tested and vetted over a lengthy period of time.

Real World Example: A new luxury apartment building may be considered of high value due to its rent prices and amenities yet construction was a rushed completion in 11 months. The older, dingy brick building with laundry in the basement across the street is considered of a much lower value however was built pre war, consistent maintenance and took years to complete.

A hurricane hit and the luxe apartment building lost power, windows shattered and two out of the ten floors flooded, not including the basement that has water from top to bottom. Meanwhile the low valued brick building didn’t flinch during the storm (and neither did the basement nor any of its power). This example highlights how the high value can indeed be (or become) low quality while high(er) quality can be deemed of lower value.

Another example includes how a Chinese antique bowl bought for $35 at a CT garage sale was auction for almost a million.

Conclusion: High Value does not dictate nor confirm one’s quality. Someone’s quality is proven in inevitable yet unplanned scenarios such as arguments, traveling, living together, etc. People change and their once outstanding quality can decrease, even minimally.

That’s all folks. Thank you for reading through my Ted Urtoospoiled Talks.

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I simply wanted a safe space away from the insults and injuries of bitter women to appreciate men. You are our backbone, our protectors, our lovers.

You may ask, why is the header my chest with the words #wakeup? I don’t intend to show my face because this isn’t about me, and my covered bosom is a representation of the warmth, love, and safety of a loving woman.

Don’t worry, king. I don’t intend to use this space to seduce you. I will likely be writing posts to uplift you, and reblogging and affirming you kings.

Consider this a shrine to all the high value men out there. I love you, to eternity and beyond.

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