Let me tell you something, men leech off women with wisdom and grace and a feminine alluring personality and especially if you are knowledgeable and skillfulll.
Be careful of mental leeches, they will:
use long calls, to waste your time and lure you in.
penpal antics, by not arranging to see you and constantly contacting you.
use you as a therapist and a mental dumpster by telling you their problems in their life because they are attracted to the feminine side of you that allows them to be vulnerable.
SET BOUNDARIES.
Remind yourself of the woman you are and know there are going to be so many dusties that will attempt to try you and use you, FOR FREE.
Stay away from them, block them and from early on do not be vulnerable or allow long calls or texts at any hours.
Men take advantage of how empathetic women can be and will save their resources to get access to you for FREE.
“The pulpit is not the place for personal testimonies, political speeches, group therapy sessions, motivational talks, self-help advice, worldly philosophies, or scientific theories. The pulpit is the throne of the Word of God. Therefore, the sacred text must be the priority of our preaching.”
what if God is trying to show you that He is so much bigger than you thought He was? what if this trial, this circumstance, this season is a reminder that God is so much better, so much kinder, and so much more faithful than you thought He was? if He takes care of the birds in the sky and the flowers in the field, how much more does He care for you? don't let your current circumstance place a limit on what God can do in your life. He is for you, not against you!