catboybitchboy

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pssss pssss psssss predator dommes. i love you 💕

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short shorts that say "I ❤️ WHEN WOMEN OBJECTIFY ME" embroidered on the back

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gonna start sending this to ageless blogs that follow me

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If I may add on with my own knowledge (though I hope I'm not stepping on toes),

I have OCCASIONALLY seen "blue" added onto the stoplight system, treated as a red (or in RARE cases a yellow), but to specifically denote "I am having a medical emergency of some kind, help me". For example, if you're in a scene with a partner you know has asthma and they call blue, it's likely they're having an asthma attack, time to shut things down and get their inhaler

mini kink conversation: (10.5) Safe Words:

these are NOT acceptable:

-stop

-no

-don’t

i feel it is somewhat self explanatory but especially in a CNC scene, you need a safe word that is not a typical word you’d hear. but ALL irl scenes especially (and online!) should have a safe word set up. if you’re doing any form of breath play, gagging, anything where the mouth will be covered or talking not possible, a nonverbal cue should also be in place.

the way a lot of people do it:

red - stop, do not continue at all. scene done.

yellow - unsure, uncomfortable, needs to slow down, needs a break. talk it out before continuing

green - when in a scene where something comes up that you may not have discussed beforehand (things slip your mind, it happens), if it is not a soft/hard limit for your partner - doing a quick “safe?” or something of the same tone to check in! if it’s not obviously red/yellow would be options, but if it is an easy “green” and continuing on makes you know both you and your partner are comfortable.

subs and doms both should have clear, understandable safe words/actions to stop a scene.

(please i’m gonna throw up if i see another “hehe my safe word is ‘!stop!’”)

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these two posts are in a very loving relationship

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This isn't about assault or deception; this is about you knowing all the relevant factors and deciding to go ahead with it, either in spite of or because of the taboo.

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#the answer is 'I'd want to but haven't gotten to' either way #but like is the basic BDSM package still considered 'taboo'? #like is this question about bondage or is it about fucking a pool noodle? #both are valid ofc

[catboybitchboy]

being horny is a disease and brother I am infected.

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BDSM gets a bad rep as like a violent (male) dom pushing the boundaries of a reluctant (female) sub but in my experience it's a lot of subs with wildly elaborate fantasies screaming shit like "PUT MY ASS IN THE CHILI" while a new dom is like "Okay I think, we are reaching yellow for me,"

#my hyperspecific one is I'm a museum thief #and they're either a guard I'm bribing with sex to turn a blind eye #or the private detective (bc I don't even pretend to fuck cops) that I've had simmering sexual tension with while they chase me down #and we fuck in the interrogation room

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i wanna take advantage of a cute boy when he's drunk. just a liiiiittle

#not even gonna lie I thought this said cowboy #which I'm still on board for. just not what I expected and had to reread

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a LOT of kink content on tumblr is fantasy and does not reflect what kink should actually be like. it is totally ok to be turned on by these fantasies and it's good to incorporate them into your sex life in safe ways. however a lot of the hot hardcore kink scenarios that make it seem like everything was spontaneous are not necessarily lying to you, but they are leaving out the "before" part. kink requires a LOT of discussion and communication. you should not forsake this part of kink because you wanna get to sex immediately because the before and after of kink are just as important, if not more, than the during.

#this should apply to little things too #for example getting pinned against the wall can be hot. getting pinned against the wall with no warning can be incredibly frightening #not everything needs to have a PowerPoint presentation about it #but you should at least be fairly able to anticipate it and not caught off guard when it happens #I had a friend over who recently pinned me to my door without warning and scared the goddamn daylights out of me by doing it #so that's immediately where my mind is

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i think one of my fav ways to brat is touching myself when i’ve explicitly been told not to. there’s just something about the inevitable aftermath and punishment that really gets me going—whether it be overstimulation or a good beating, i don’t give a fuck. it’s always worth it if it means really pissing off a dom. there’s something about sitting there, making myself feel sooo good, stroking and fingering myself, knowing that if i’m caught or if i confess (which would be straight up taunting my dom, but that’s the fun of it) then i’ll be absolutely fucked. but of course i’m still gonna fucking do it because, really, what’s the worst you can do? it’s my body, isn’t it? i can touch it if i want. and if it’s not mine—if it’s “yours”—then shouldn’t you just fucking stop me before i even start? you’d think one would monitor their toy at all times if they really wanted to prevent misbehavior. especially if they already know they’re dealing with a brat. like. come the fuck on. you can’t be that stupid, right? it’s almost like you’re asking for me to break your stupid fucking rules.

“don’t touch yourself without my permission.” oh, yeah? what’re you gonna do about it? you gonna get all mad and put me in timeout? how about you go fuck yourself, and i’ll do what i fucking want.

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Venus fly trap 🪰

#worth it

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are certain lubes better suited for vaginal or anal sex? or are they all the same?

hi anon,

water-based, oil-based, and silicone-based lube are all suitable for either vaginal or anal sex. many people prefer silicone-based lubricants for anal sex because it's so long-lasting and durable, which is helpful when you're working with an orifice that won't naturally lubricate itself. oil-based lubricants are also a no-go with latex condoms, which is relevant for both vaginal and anal sex. beyond that it's all a matter of personal preference!

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Thinking about being tied up in a public place and rented out as stress relief for anyone passing by. A basket of condoms and a tip jar mounted next to me with amounts for each hole.

Titjob - Free

Handjob - $1

Oral - $5

Anal - $10

Cunt - $20

See how much I can make just being a cute toy for strangers to get off with. Chained to the wall with a leather collar and leash. A set of toys for people to stuff into me so that I'm never empty. A thick dildo, a vibrating plug, and a cute little bone gag so that I'm a constantly drooling mess, plus some extras in case someone wants to swap a toy out. A pump bottle of lube for easy access.

Just chained up and waiting for someone to decide they need a quick release.

Most people just jerking off onto my chest, tugging at my nipples and slapping me around a bit. Or they decide that they want to paint my face and cum there. But others decide that they need more than just a quick jerk session.

Someone dropping a few bucks into the jar and pulling my gag down so they can shove their cock in as far as it can go. Fingers tangled in my hair as they use my throat to jerk off, laughing whenever I gag or choke. Cumming in my mouth and shoving the gag back in nice and tight so I can either struggle to swallow their load, or let it drip slowly from between my lips and have their taste coat my tongue until someone else decides to pay for my mouth.

Someone watching and dropping a 20 into the jar, grabbing a condom and rolling it on while they wait for their turn. Tugging me to my feet and shoving my face into the wall while they tease the dildo in and out of me, grinding against me while they listen to garbled moans. They take their time teasing until they tug the toy out leaving me achingly empty for a few moments before they easily slide their way into me, helped by how sloppy my cunt is from earlier patrons.

Maybe they just lazily grind into me for a while, letting me squeeze around them. Have me arch my back so they can reach the plug in my ass and toy with that, fucking it in and out of me slowly until they turn the vibrations up to high and shove it all the way in, groaning when I spasm around them. And then they decide to fuck me. Cumming quick and hard to the vibrations against their cock, letting me milk them dry before swapping their dick out for the dildo and leaving me with the plug running on high.

Someone deciding that they want my ass and they make me ride them nice and slow while my mouth and hands are busy with other people. They keep the dildo nice and snug inside of my cunt because they like how tight it makes my ass. And when they cum they shove me to the floor and fuck my ass hard enough that I can't breathe.

Someone decides that they want to play with me multiple ways, so they keep dropping bills into the jar. A couple bucks and they shove my head back guiding me to slip my fingers inside of their own wet hole while they grind their cock against my tongue until they squirt across my face. A couple more bucks and they're fingering my ass open, shoving a different dildo into me so that I'm full to bursting, feeling the two toys rubbing against each other inside of me. Then they make me lay on my back, sit on my face and put their fingers on my cock and make me eat them out while they make me cum again and again and again until I'm a sobbing, overstimulated mess, barely able to use my mouth on them.

And after their done, there's yet another person who comes and uses my holes, rolling me over onto my hands and knees and shelling out enough to use my cunt because they like how much I cry when their balls slap against my sensitive dick.

I'd be a mess. Sore and bruised. Covered in my own drool and stranger's cum and tears. But I'd be so fucking satisfied. Used without any say in what happens to me. Just the perfect toy.

OP is a trans man who uses He/Him pronouns. This post is specifically queer/t4t.

DNI if you are a minor, a cishet man, or a lesbian, this post is not for you or about you.

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foreplay with new mutuals is spamming each others blog hoping that you don’t have to be the one to message first

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honestly most people not being monsterfuckers is weird to me. like i forget that the natural state of humanity is not wanting to be pinned down and wrecked and filled by a dragon twice your size