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wake up wake up wake up wake up

#bathroom

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writing commissions & donations

hiii i'm a broke wheelchair dyke on disability aid with bills and debt to pay, and bunnies to feed! i also looove to write for others.

if you're just looking to be kind, here's my paypal (fake name lol)

for fanfics & short stories:

♡ give me the deets: fanfic? short story of your OCs? or just general story idea you keep obsessing over? tell me as many details as you can about the setting, characters, plot points, etc. it doesn't need to be a fandom i know, i will watch or read whatever i need to know the material and the characters well enough to do it right. i love obsessing over fandom wikis and i will often ask a lot of follow-up questions, especially if it includes OCs of yours :]

♡ decide on length: i offer 2000-ish words for $15cad. i say ish only because let's be real, i want the story to wrap up nicely, even if it takes me a couple hundred words more. but it will be 2000+ words

♡ i will take around a week to deliver the final product, maybe less. i will only show half of the story, probably cut off on an annoying cliffhanger, until i get the actual payment

♡ payment is thru paypal, or e-transfers (no checks) within canada

♡ you will be forcing me to join all your favorite fandoms and i will either love or hate you for it (probably both <3)

♡ if you like it enough i can write another 2000 words for $10

♡ if i take more than 7 days i will remove $2 for each additional day

♡ nothing that involves s/exual violence, torture or ddlg pls

♡ that's it ty for reading! hmu anytime!

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We really have harmed a whole generation of trans and gnc children by failing to communicate how serious a decision binding actually is, how there’s no ACTUALLY safe way to bind, how it permeneantly damages the body, how it can make top surgery more difficult in the future. I don’t think we should be keeping trans kids from binding (we let kids do all sorts of things they’re really not old enough to understand the potential consequences of) but we owe them the ability to make informed decisions at LEAST

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oh hey, someone put that thing i was mad about yesterday into words!

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i can’t believe twitter is real

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A win for the SC lesbians

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ok lemme fix this b/c once again, it’s clear that these people have never come into contact w/anyone gender-critical and actually listened

gender-critical feminist: we are here to abolish gender

anti-’terf’ individual: oh, so we won’t use gendered pronouns anymore?

gender-critical feminist: changing your pronouns doesn’t change the way you’re treated if you’re female (afab). this is missing the point, also, many of us will respect pronouns. many radical and lesbian feminists are detransitioned or in the process of re-identifying and are using/have used he or they pronouns.

anti-’terf’ individual: gendered clothing?

gender-critical feminist: regardless of sex, people should be able to wear whatever they want, especially comfortable and practical clothing. many of us are gnc or butch. we are highly critical of the makeup/beauty industry and femininity being forced on girls. we don’t believe in ‘lipstick strong enough to kill a man.’ we think clothes are clothes and a boy who wants to wear dresses is not a girl.

anti-’terf’ individual: segregated bathrooms?

gender-critical feminist: segregated bathrooms were created to give afab women protection from the sexual harassment and violence of amab men. trans women are amab and are still male-socialized and many even have male anatomy still. 

female bathrooms are not a refuge for everyone who suffers from male harassment and violence. they are for females. should we let gnc gay men into our bathrooms, too? fat men? how do we distinguish between a man and a male-passing trans woman who identifies as a woman on the inside? females have the right to safe spaces in their restrooms. 

many of us consider single-stall gender-neutral bathrooms a good addition to male and female bathrooms (not a replacement).

anti-’terf’ individual: So, we’re going to do something about the gender binary, yes? We’re going to attack the idea that gender is intrinsically linked to one’s anatomy, and we’re going to boost the visibility of trans and intersex people, who face the most violence consequences of the sex and gender binaries–yes?

gender-critical feminist: oh, you’re so close to the point! the gender binary is not the source of violence, though. gender itself is. 

gender is a set of expectations and rules forced on people due to their sex. afab people suffer far worse consequences from this than men, although we also have sympathy for gnc and transitioned males who suffer under patriarchy. we want to end the idea that one’s personality, interests, sense of style, etc all come as a package with one’s anatomy. 

we want to end the idea that females are made for male consumption and males should chase females. we oppose and critique male and female socialization and we want children to be raised in a gender-neutral manner. 

as for intersex individuals, there are many intersex radical and lesbian feminists and many of us are striving to become more aware of intersex issues. the abuse intersex people suffer at the hands of the medical industry often stems from violent reinforcement of heterosexuality (e.g surgery to allow penetration) or ableism (fixing ‘abnormal’ bodies even when it’s not medically necessary). 

there are actually only two sexes and intersex conditions are just naturally-occurring (though often non-functional, as they lead to infertility) variations on male and female.

anti-’terf’ individual: Then what are you going to do, exactly? What is your plan? How are you going to accomplish this?

gender-critical feminist: if you acquaint yourself with our actual theory and practice and not just straw-women, maybe you’d understand that. anti-’terf’ individual: how?

gender-critical feminist: read a book. listen to a woman. stop misrepresenting us, burn-the-witch-ing us, and excluding us from our own feminist and lesbian communities because you can’t comprehend centering females.

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She made it unrebloggable 😂

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hobbies masterpost!

a really excellent way to reduce anxiety is to pick up a new hobby. find something you’re interested in, learn it, then use it as a healthy and productive way to cope.

learn to play guitar

learn how to make interactive stories with the free program Twine

learn how to make pixel art

learn another language

learn how to build a ship in a bottle

learn how to develop your own film

learn how to embroider

learn how to make chiptunes (8-bit music)

learn how to make origami (the art of paper folding)

learn how to make tumblr themes

learn how to make jewelry 

learn how to make candy

learn how to make terrariums

learn how to make your own perfume

learn how to make your own tea

learn how to build birdhouses

learn how to read tarot cards

learn how to make zines

learn how to code

learn how to whittle (wood carving)

learn how to make candles

learn how to make clay figurines

learn how to knit scarves

learn how to become an amateur astronomer

learn some yoyo tricks

learn how to start a collection

learn how to start body building

learn how to edit wikipedia articles

learn how to decorate iphone cases

learn how to do freelance writing

learn how to make your own cards and

learn how to make your own envelopes

learn how to play the ukulele 

learn how to make gifs

learn how to play chess

learn how to juggle

learn how to guerrilla garden

learn how to chart your family history

learn how to keep chickens

learn how to do yoga

learn how to do magic tricks

learn how to raise and breed butterflies

learn how to play dungeons & dragons

learn how to skateboard

learn how to do parkour

learn how to surf

learn how to arrange flowers

learn how to make stuffed animals

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If you are so caring about disabled men then why don't you kneel and go suck their dick for them, Karl Max?

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*screams into a pillow*