Shit No One Told Me About My Period
I knew the basics before I got it, but I had no clueâŠ
* The blood wouldnât necessarily be red. When I first got my period, I spent a few min looking at my underwear wondering how I shit myself. I didnât know the blood could look brown, or be thick.
* That tampons werenât a good idea yet. I was 10 or 11 when I got my first period and physically smaller than an adult woman. My first attempt at inserting a tampon was very painful and unsuccessful. I wouldnât use them until I was around 14 or so.
* That when you use pads the blood can get on your bottom and Iâd have to occasionally clean off the toilet seat after using it.
* That getting your first period DOES NOT mean youâre fully developed and fully able to bear children. I could have technically gotten pregnant at that age, but I was still a child and pregnancy would have put my life in danger because I was still physically immature.
* That it wouldnât be regular for another few years.
* That very painful cramping is NOT NORMAL once you reach your 20s and is cause for concern.
* That the blood and tissue you pass can look chunky or stringy and not like blood from a cut.
* That stress can halt your period for months BUT
* That doesnât mean you canât get pregnant
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Picture Of Mum Breastfeeding At A Wedding Goes Viral
This image of a mum breastfeeding her son at a wedding has sparked a debate [Photo: Instagram/dahs]
Dressed in an emerald green, floor-skimming satin dress with her hair swept back in a wet-look chignon, Haddas Ancliffe looks every inch the stylish wedding guest as she poses for a picture. But the blogger wasnât the only one making an appearance in the snapshot, as the new mum was also joined by her 18-month-old son, who she was breastfeeding at the time.
âJust me and my baby having a drink (Gotta do what you gotta do, wedding or not)â the 21-year-old blogger, who goes by the name Dahsi, wrote captioning the Instagram shot with the hashtag #normalizingbreastfeeding.
Since posting the candid snap has been liked 2,619 times and received over two hundred comments many praising the mum for highlighting the normality of breastfeeding.
Haddas Ancliffe uses her blog to try and normalise parenting issues like breastfeeding [Photo: Instagram/dahs]
âItâs so nice to see you put your babyâs needs before your own,â one follower wrote.
âKeep on doing what you do and be strong. Letâs normalise breastfeeding and make people realise how wonderful it is,â added another
But while many comments came down on the positive side of the morality fence, some criticised the mum for âover-sharing.â
âItâs cool youâre breastfeeding but donât need to show it to the world,â wrote one
âHaha why post this on instagram. Do this in private,â one man wrote
Another felt even more aggrieved by the shot writing that the photo made them feel âillâ.
Others stepped into defend Ancliffeâs choice to share the image: âHow can people not been ok with this but ok with a girl in a skimpy thong bikini or less.â
Itâs not the first time the blogger has shared pictures of her breastfeeding son Jonah [Photos: Instagram/dahs]
Claiming she uses her blog as a platform for âself expression and open sharingâ, this isnât the first time Ancliffe has shared photos of herself breastfeeding her son Jonah in a bid to breakdown breastfeeding in public stigmas.Â
And sheâs also used the photo sharing site it to tackle body issues, inspiring other mothers by sharing unedited photos of her post-baby body. Alongside a picture of her stomach the honest mum wrote:
âSo this is my tummy nearly 11 months postpartum. Itâs covered in stretch marks, has a little sag and is nowhere near as flat as it used to be.
The new mum has also shared unedited pictures of her post-baby body to inspire other mums [Photo: Instagram/dahs]
âToday Iâm going back to the gym for the first time since having Jonah. Thereâs so much pressure in our society for mothers to âget their bodies backâ and you feel a constant shame if youâre not working out to do that, but I can honestly say I am not ever going to try to get my body back.
âI will workout to be stronger but not to change how I look. My body did the most incredible thing a human body could do and it should only ever be loved and appreciated for it. I am beautiful, screw what mainstream society says, Iâm sexy too!â
Seems like this blogger is tackling parenting taboos one Instagram post at a time.Â
What do you think of the image? Join the debate @YahooStyleUK
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