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couples tshirts that say "god won't let me die" and "I'm god"

#i’m laughing thinking about ted and rebecca doing this 😂😂😂😂😂

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requested by anon ♡

#the babysitters club

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I have more of an opinion question for you. When fans of things hear about misconduct happening on sets/behind-the-scenes are they allowed to still enjoy the thing? Or should it be boycotted completely? Example: I’ve been a major fan of Buffy the Vampire Slayer since I was a teenager and it was currently airing. I really nerded out on it and when I lost my Dad at age 16 “The Body” episode had me in such cathartic tears. Now we know about Joss Whedon. I haven’t rewatched a single episode since his behavior came to light. As a fan, do I respectfully have to just box that away? Is it disrespectful of the actors that went through it to knowingly keep watching?

I have been precisely where you are, right now. In fact, we were just talking about this a few days ago, as it relates to a guy who wrote a ton of music that was PROFOUND to me when I was a teenager. He wrote about being lonely and feeling unloved, and all the things I was feeling as a teenager.

He grew up to be a reprehensible bigot, and for years I couldn't listen to one of the most important bands in my life anymore.

But this week, someone pointed out that he was one member of a group that all worked together to make that thing that was so important to me. And the person he was when he wrote those lyrics is not the person he is today. And the person I was when I heard those lyrics doesn't deserve to be shoved into a box and put away, because that guy is a shit.

This is a long way of saying that Joss sure turned out to be garbage. Because of who I my friends are, I know stuff that isn't in the public, and it's pretty horrible. He's just not a good person, and apparently never was a good person.

BUT! Buffy is more than him. It's all the actors and crew who made it. It's all the writers who aren't Joss. Joss is part of it, sure, and some of the episodes he wrote are terrific.

At least one of the episodes he wrote was deeply meaningful to you at a moment in your life when you'd experienced a loss I can only imagine. The person you are now, and the 16 year-old you were who just lost their dad, are more important than the piece of shit Joss Whedon revealed himself to be.

His bad behavior is on him. He has to live with it, and the consequences of it.

16 year-old you, who just lost their dad, shouldn't have to think about what a shit Joss Whedon is for even a second. That kid, and you, deserve to have that place to revisit when you need to go there.

I can't speak for the other actors, even the ones I know. But I will tell you, as an abuse survivor myself who never wanted to be in front of the camera when he was a kid: it's really okay for you to enjoy the work. The work is good and meaningful, and if nobody is going to watch it because of what one piece of shit did two decades ago, what was it all for?

I'm not the pope of chilitown, so take this for what it's worth: I believe that when some piece of art is deeply meaningful to a person, for whatever reason, that art doesn't belong to the person who created it, if it ever did. It belongs to the person who found something meaningful in the art.

If it feels right to you to put it away and never look at it again, that's totally valid. But if it brings you comfort, or joy, or healing, or just warm familiarity to bring it out and spend some time with it, that's totally valid, too.

I've written a lot of words. I hope some of them make sense and are helpful to you.

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it’s so funny how immune i am to hustle culture. people will talk about taking breaks for their mental health and how difficult it was for them to do what was right for them and i’m like. it’s absolutely unreal how quickly i’ll dump something i don’t want to do anymore.

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Ted Lasso || 2.05 Rainbow

#ted lasso #roy kent

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"hey babe I'm sending you something horrible" is a love language

#me right before I send my friends the angstiest shit I’ve written #😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

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Why pay someone to do what a friend should do for you for free? || 1.05 vs 2.01

#ted lasso #rebecca welton #*grinch voice* help me I’m feeling #gosh I cannot wait to see how this plays out

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Listen, everyone meets the love of their lives in different ways. Sometimes you meet through a dating site. Sometimes you meet in a bar.

Sometimes you meet after sitting around her house for 10 years, belittling her due to internalized misogyny and a toxic friend group, until she recruits you into her scheme to murder her husband and you realize that she’s a lot more fun and cool than you realize, and you become friends and THEN you realize you might be gay due to ending up on an accidental date with the cop investigating your opioid business, which, oops, awakens some new and scary feelings for your friend, and you’re starting to feel like she MIGHT return those feelings when your brother tries to strangle her and you swoop into rescue her and hold her bloody hand in a show of love and commitment.

#kevin can f**k himself

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KEVIN CAN F**K HIMSELF 1.08 Fixed

#kevin can f**k himself #allison mcroberts #patty o'connor

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KEVIN CAN F**K HIMSELF 1.08 Fixed

#kevin can f**k himself #I just finished this show today and what the fuccccccck #allison mcroberts #patty o'connor

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Trent Crimm, bringing the heat.

#trent crimm #ted lasso

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female awesome meme [3/20] female dynamics

Thank you. I love you. I love you, too.

#sleepless in seattle

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TED LASSO | 2.01 “Goodbye Earl”

#ted lasso

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You know, my friend, Flo, once told me that intimacy was all about leaving yourself open to being attacked… isn’t that horrible? 

#ted lasso #rebecca welton

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Ted Lasso 2.01, “Goodbye Earl”

#ted lasso #rebecca welton #roy kent

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Okay, I should go. I promised the boys we’d watch Empire Strikes Back tonight, and I have to get my thoughts together for when they ask about Luke and Leia making out. Wish me luck.

#ted lasso #leslie higgins

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REBECCA WELTON in TED LASSO 2.01

#ted lasso #rebecca welton