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i adored the messiness of femme (2023) like yes it's a queer erotic thriller about a drag queen who is hate crimed by a closeted violent young man and then seeks revenge by starting a relationship with him it's so fucked up and glorious. he's not a 'perfect victim' he ill-advisedly lashes out before the attack and the audience is forced to confront that, he makes a series of questionable decisions in his effort for revenge the affect of that trauma and the dissociation shown by nathan stewart jarret is incredible.he tries to reclaim agency by getting revenge but is anyone really winning??

they also never let george mackays closeted character off the hook he is shown to be callous, bigoted and violent throughout and YET he's also broken, soft and in his own way loving. you laugh at his road man ignorance but the audience also pity him it's so delicious. unafraid to show actual sexual scenes too including messy dom/sub dynamics and quite bloody violence it's just so honest and raw and unapologetically unfiltered !!!!

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one of the big problems of this website is that not enough people think about crossdressing butches, basically

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we cant all be studs or sorta grungy fellas. Some of us gotta take one for the team and fill important niches. Who’s gonna get forcemasced into the IT guy

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if this isn’t the transmasc experience i don’t know what is

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he is eating a cheesy corndog

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Today for #BiHealthMonth I'm sharing the research corner piece from our fall 2023 Bi Women Quarterly issue, Bi+ Joy, which reviews a study on how bi-positive messaging and internal bi-positivity can help improve mental health.

Read it here:

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hi im so sorry my account is overdrawn by about $500 because of some insurance stuff and i really really really need to fix it before fees start hitting me. my lease is about to end and has also been breached because i wouldnt let men in my building threaten violence against me and i currently cant work because of health reasons. anything helps because i honest to god cannot stress how terrifying this situation is for me right now and how important it is for me to get my account out of the red — i cant use it for ANYTHING. AT ALL. while its overdrawn. i cant buy food, pay rent, go to medical appointments, get meds, nothing. i have absolutely nothing until thats fixed. please please help me out with this if you can.

i also do art on the side and will happily draw for you if thats something youre interested in.

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i love my boyfriends (my butch mutuals)