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nothing funnier than making an oc just to give him a problem. get fucked sketchbook boy

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men i would hold by the scruff of the neck & wash with dawn dish soap in the kitchen sink

#lmao charlie

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you can’t ‘i’m just a little guy’ your way out of this one cunt

#cupid

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Self Diagnosis

So apparently it’s time for another self dx info post because people are gross

INFO:

basics

self diagnosis isn’t looking at one post and going “hey thats me, im autistic”

self diagnosis includes research and introspection

self diagnosis of multiple disorders is reasonable - comorbidity is common (see: autism and ADHD, ADHD and SPD, many personality disorders with each other, though more than one is rarely diagnosed due to overlapping traits)

self diagnosis doesn’t take away resources from anyone

the only people who don’t take a disorder seriously “because of” self diagnosis don’t take it seriously anyway

the DSM is available online

it doesn’t matter if they’re wrong - if they’re self diagnosing it’s because they had a problem and the resources and coping mechanisms within ____ community helped them. 

re: doctors

many doctors refuse to diagnose

a lot of these reasons are racism and sexism

some traits/symptoms are internal and are therefore not seen by doctors

doctors diagnose based on behavior. people self-dx based on.. behavior.

re: racism, classism, sexism

many poc (especially black people) are diagnosed with “being {race}”

many people who are perceived as girls won’t be diagnosed because {sexist reason such as ‘girls cant get autism’ - yes thats a real reason people have been denied diagnosis}

going to a professional is expensive. it doesn’t matter if you were “obviously _____” or not - it’s expensive.

#important #every time i see people trying to argue that Self DiAgnOsiS Bad!1!!1!1! #i lose a couple of brain cells #good post op

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u don’t understand i have to bite u

#dante and bh behavior

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sometimes “!!!!!!!!!!!” is a word

[bebxos]

not to sound like your dad but if your not having a great time rn you might legitimately be playing too many video games or being on that damn phone too often, or at least without any necessary activity buffers

#as someone who finds much enjoyment in viddy games i still agree with you wholeheartedly op #like. #after a while it actually starts doing less for your wellbeing and you need something else something palpable and real i suppose #even though i'm also a teen i can't Not make fun of us too sjdjdjs there are really many huffy ones in notes #one thing you can always count is teens saying yes (aggressive) to everything you say no to #important

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"what are you looking at?" for rhaxa

no content warnings on this one

Your hands are sweating, knuckles aching. Every blow sends a wave of exhaustion up your arms, the dull thuds of impact growing quieter as your energy drains away. You’ve been here for hours, now, and your knuckles are bruised, your hand wraps soaked through. The punching bag barely moves as you hit it, the muscles of your arms strung out and aching. You clench your teeth, and pull back your fist once more.

Something moves in the corner of your eye, a shadow blocking the light momentarily, and you startle, shaking fists raise, only to let out a long breath as Rhaxa slips silently into the room. They barely acknowledge you beyond a brief glance, settling down on their haunches and tucking their wings around themself. Your scowl goes unnoticed - or ignored. You can never tell.

“What are you doing?”

“Looking for you.”

“It’s after midnight.”

Rhaxa tilts their head, tail twitching. When the silence stretches, when it becomes obvious they don’t intend to answer, you shrug, turn back to the punching bag. Even with the brief rest, your back and shoulders are screaming in protest, and you have to grit your teeth as you try to focus on the movements, the steady ache in your fists. Rhaxa’s eyes burn into you, a dark, gleaming shadow in the corner of your eye, and eventually you groan, wipe the sweat from your forehead with the back of your hand.

“Go back to bed.”

“No.”

Whether they’re trying to frustrate you on purpose, you can’t tell; you’ve got better at reading them, but they’re still- well, alien. They stare implacably back as you glare at them.

“I’m not coming back to bed yet.”

“Okay.”

“Why are you here?”

They shrug, a movement they’ve picked up from you - it’s more impressive when it’s done with four limbs and those hooked wings, all that serpentine grace brought to bear in a gesture of truly breathtaking apathy. “You weren’t there when I woke up.”

“So?” You’re being belligerent - you know it, can practically hear Nash telling you, but you do it anyway, pushing back your hair and glaring at Rhaxa.

“So I came to find you.”

You’re reminded, not for the first time, of the ouroboros: a snake eating its own tail, every conversation going round and round and delivering you exactly nowhere, leaving you with an increasing sense of frustration in their obtuseness. They’re doing it deliberately, you’re certain of it. “Great. You found me. Go away.”

“No.”

“Fuck’s sake.” Clenching your teeth, you turn back to the punching bag, force yourself to raise your aching arms. “I don’t want to talk.”

“Okay.”

“I’m serious.”

“Then stop talking.”

There’s a hiss in their voice now. They’re laughing at you. Your next punch comes with more force than you’d thought yourself capable of, muscles clenched, ragged and shaking. It works: you do stop talking, clamp your mouth shut and focus on the ache, the movements, the rhythmic slap of your knuckles against the bag. You can’t ignore Rhaxa’s presence, though: never could, probably never will. It’s just too much, all that muscle and sinew and predatory attention like claws against your skin.

They don’t even blink, don’t give you a moment’s respite.

Finally, you turn to them, take an aggressive step forwards. Your voice almost cracks, a hitch in the words that you put down to exhaustion and not the tangle of razors in your chest, the bile that’s been crawling up your throat since you woke sweating from another nightmare. “What are you looking at?”

Rhaxa tilts their head. Straightens, and you should be scared as they tower over, as they prowl towards you sleek and dangerous, sweat and metal in the air and your breath tearing harsh from your chest. You should be running, says the part of your brain that still misses IVI, the deepest, most primitive part of your consciousness.

You should be apologising, says another part of your brain, small and ashamed of your anger, your pettiness. Your everything, the way all your broken pieces fit together wrong like a pane of glass, shattered and taped back together.

You press your lips together, and realise your jaw is shaking.

“You,” they tell you softly. “I’m always looking at you.”

#my bug!!! #author you mad lad you made me fall in love with a bug #and i'm scared of bugs. #rhaxa #project hadea #writing

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Me, reblogging from anyone I don't follow: I'm introducing diversity into the gene pool. This will make my mutuals' dashes stronger and healthier.

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#mnfhfhg look at him face

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get you a boyfriend that squeaks like a dog toy when you hug him

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I think everyone should make dumb ugly zines and bad music and write shitty books with weird premises and publish them for pay what you will online. I think people should write plays that are only ever intended to be performed with their friends in their living rooms. I think people who like ttrpgs should explore bizarre itch.io games and new systems that have no affiliation whatsoever with any major publishing house. If youre lucky enough to have a cool local community radio station nearby you should listen to that and what people close to you have to say and what they're creating that has no focus on being nationally appealing. I just think creation should be more joyful and local both in a geographic sense and a personal and social sense and unconcerned with whether or not it will be commercially viable or slick or even good beyond your own pride in it. And I think it's good to seek out art that exists for its own sake or to appeal to the community it was created within

#important

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the cyerce elegans sea slug srsly has no business looking this ethereal

#shinyyyyy #fave

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Living my life one titty pic at a time…. Always thinking the next boobs image will fix me

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SOON WE’LL BE STRANGERS

ocean vuong, on earth we’re briefly gorgeous // hanif kureishi // her (2013) // megan morrison, grounded: the adventures of rapunzel // @heavensghost

#i miss you more than i remember you oh god that is a Line #writing #fave

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21 sideblogs and apparently thats a small amount…im curious 2 see reblog with how many sideblogs yall have this includes saved urls

#we reblog everything to main in this house like men