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beautiless · 2 years
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This caption had nothing to do with the video- it was just a small aside. Like a normal thing to deal with. The fact that you can’t function because of cosmetics. Leaving your daughter partially unclothed because you physically cannot button the buttons on her dress. You don’t put her in a T-shirt because you need to have her in a pretty dress. You accept that your daughter’s dress will be unbutton. You accept that you will not be able to complete daily tasks because you need to have pretty nails. Beauty over Functionality
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beautiless · 2 years
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Unpopular opinion, but I genuinely don't understand the "Men are inherently privileged in this society". Like, who's the first to die in wars? Who's always expected to sacrifice themselves and not expect any help? Who's seen as inherently dangerous and violent and thus experience police bias? Who's sexual violence victims are always overlooked and hardly every get any justice? Who's expected to be feminist for equal rights BUT pay for the woman they're not even dating yet? Ik last one isn't a huge deal, I'm saying that it's about always placing the financial burden on a man as if a woman is his child or something.
You may go on about how these issues are invented by men, but if you're a man or society forces you to be one, it doesn't help you anyhow or chanhe the situation. You have to sacrifice yourself, you have to go to the army, you will be ignored as a sa or violence victim. You can be a dead ass 'smash the patriarchy' dude but this won't save you from all of these issues. So where is the inherent privilege? I agree that male privileges do exist, but there are also disadvantages and pretty serious ones. How the fuck are we supposed to ignore all this?
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beautiless · 2 years
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the alternative girl with pathetic boyfriend thing has to end
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beautiless · 2 years
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beautiless · 2 years
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just got a proana post suggested on my main account...
it upset me and i reported it, but i guess i’m also happy to realize it’s almost 10 years now since i overcame my ed
i won’t let it take over me ever again
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beautiless · 2 years
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also what the fuck is up with men’s obsession with drawing women’s spines like this
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i mean i know WHY they do it but most of them don’t even seem to realize how absurd it is, try standing like that for 5 seconds
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Fan art by Sykosan
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beautiless · 2 years
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on the “its acceptable for women to wear men’s clothes but not men to wear  women’s clothes” thing- its always forgotten that women and girls have been fighting in small but organised ways to wear “masculine” (mostly read practical) clothing from at least the 1870s.  I know women in their 80s and girls in their tweens who at some time in their life have organised in order to wear the clothes they want - from making petitions to persuade their school to let them wear shorts not gym skirts, to trade union organising at work to make sure overalls and workboots are available in women’s sizes, to being the first women in the office to wear trousers, to just turning up at social events in the clothes they want to wear - and getting solidarity from other women doing the same thing - and of course not forgetting the women who risked violence, losing their job or families, or being arresting for cross-dressing laws because of what they wore.
There just hasn’t been such a widespread and longstanding organised push from men to wear skirts or other clothes coded feminine in everyday life.  That isn’t women’s fault.
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beautiless · 2 years
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comfy girl aesthetic
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beautiless · 2 years
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Sometimes we do mention how ridiculous makeup looks on here, like how absurd excessive eyelash extensions look, but we don't make fun of or shame individual women in place of an argument. The crux of the matter has never been 'we're anti-makeup because it makes you look ugly'. It's about societal misogynistic expectations, the effect it has on your skin, your self-esteem, businesses preying on insecurities, its unethical origins, etc etc etc.
But when I listen to the women who are into makeup and shaving, why do they feel like they have to make fun of how we look, or how ugly we are, or insinuate that we're too inept to understand how to put on makeup or look good... and unprompted sometimes too! You'll just be sitting there and they'll be like 'why are your legs so hairy... you should shave'. I've never just told a woman 'grow out your leg hair! ew!!' unprovoked, have y'all? I mean. :/
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this is your sign to stop shaving when you go to the beach. this is also your sign to wear comfortable bathing suits that allow you to move and swim and jump without worrying about readjusting them every minute to avoid flashing someone. this is also your sign to stop the constant body monitoring - sit comfortably on your towel and ignore your belly rolls, get your hair wet and don't stress about it looking bad, walk along the shore and enjoy yourself without thinking about how your body is looking like while you do so, crouch down to inspect the sand and focus on the pretty seashells below you not on how your body looks in that position, lay down and feel the sun on your skin without caring about your double chin
free yourself from this mental burden. you don't owe anyone prettiness, but you owe yourself this
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beautiless · 2 years
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living by this from here on out 🖤
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i was already kinda suspicious of the new face massage trends that i’ve been seeing over and over on social media. like at first it seemed obvious what the product was: those “gua sha” rollers, but then i stopped seeing them. all i got were videos of women talking about massaging your face with your bare fingers and how that had taken 3944858 years off them in a few weeks. but what was the product? i was too skeptical that this magical technique had just been discovered and everyone just wanted to share the knowledge.
but today i found out, it’s oils. you’re not supposed to do them on bare skin so they’re promoting special oils to massage your face with.
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beautiless · 2 years
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new insane tiktok thing: i saw young women going to sleep with tape all over their faces, which will supposedly prevent wrinkles.
tbh, i get it. i have a huge fear of wrinkles myself. but even IF it works (bc it seems super sketchy, like wouldn’t stretching out the skin be worse?), to what lengths are we willing to go?! i already envy how most men just carelessly go to sleep, without ever worrying about complicated skin care routines... i have found myself remembering how i once read that sleeping on your side will cause more wrinkles, trying to force myself to sleep on my stomach... also the countless time i slept with an uncomfortable as fuck, elaborate hairstyle that would supposedly give me the perfect waves...
like, even if it all worked, we look a little prettier, a little younger for a while, etc... is it worth it to spend our lives like this?
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she needs to be put down
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Disney vs. 7 early fairytales 
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