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The term masochism comprises any passive attitude towards sexual life and the sexual object, the extreme instance of which appears to be that in which satisfaction is conditional upon suffering physical or mental pain at the hands of the sexual object.

Freud distinguishes three types of masochism: feminine, erotogenic and moral. Feminine masochism, the most easily observable form, is found in male patients, who conjure fantasies or seek sexual activity in which they are gagged, bound, painfully beaten, whipped, in some way maltreated, forced into unconditional obedience, dirtied and debased. Erotogenic masochism, which underlies and supports the other forms, is characterised by a libidinal pleasure in pain. In Three Essays on the Theory of Sexuality, Freud had rejected the notion that the extreme and exceptional stimuli of painful experiences could carry a sufficient libidinal charge to explain the origin of masochism. In this later essay, Freud turns to the death instinct to find the origin of what he now concedes is a primary masochism, one that does not depend on the transformation of a prior sadistic instinct. According to Freud, one task of the libido is to meet the death instinct and render it innocuous. It fulfils the task by diverting that instinct to a great extent outwards towards objects in the external world. When this will to power is sexualised, it becomes sadism proper. Part of this instinct, however, remains "inside the organismic” and becomes libidinally bound there. It is in this portion that we have to recognise the original, erotogenic masochism. Moral masochism, the third form that Freud considers, is chiefly remarkable for having loosened its connection with what we recognise as sexuality.

Freud's first detailed consideration of masochism appears in his discussion of sexual perversions in Three Essays on the Theory of Sexuality. At this early date, Freud writes that sadism and masochism are inverse forms of a single sexual perversion centring on pain as an avenue to pleasure.Sadism and masochism, at this point in Freud's theoretical understanding are inextricably bound - the former being the active, externally directed version of the perversion; the latter being its passive, internally focused form. In fact, it is passivity that defines masochism, not a desire for pain, humiliation or punishment. Freud considers sadism and masochism to be "the most common and most significant of all perversions. Although he fails to elaborate the reasons for choosing the second adjective, the choice of the first is most likely related to an understanding of sadism as an exaggeration of the normal aggressive sexual instinct in men.Because there is, on Freud's understanding, an intimate connection between cruelty and the sexual instinct an active or violent attitude toward the sexual object" is to be expected; it is only where sexual "satisfaction is entirely conditional on the humiliation and maltreatment of the object that the term "sadism," as a signifier of perversion of the sexual aim, is entirely appropriate. While Freud opines that masochism is further removed from the normal sexual aim than its counterpart," the logic of the transformation of a single sexual instinct into an active and passive form means that masochism shares sadism's purported naturalness. Even if sadism, then, is represented as an extension or exaggeration of normal impulses and desires - most likely because it is more comfortably aligned with a culturally normative understanding of masculinity as active and aggressive - it is important to note that masochism, which is an intrinsic part of this pain-related perversion, inevitably shares in the normality afforded sadistic impulses.  Freud reports that his male patients in both fantasy and performance always select a woman to perform the role of chastiser. In addition, in both performance and fantasy, the male masochists invariably transfer themselves into the part of the woman; that is to say, their masochistic attitude coincides with a feminine one.While the figure of "woman" appears to play an important role in male masochistic fantasy, it is the male who is central. Freud contends that the fantasy of a woman chastiser is a translation of a prior, now unconscious fantasy of being beaten. Echoing his understanding of the fetish, Freud explains that the conscious masochistic fantasy - the translation from love to violence.

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The gift of Submission

Submission is defined as ‘the action of accepting or yielding to a superior force, or to the will or authority of another person.’ This statement implies that will has been given up due to the irreconcilable inevitably of strength over weakness.

Therefore, your submission is a gift. It is only awarded to the most worthy of Dominants. Your submission is not only of your body, but of your mind, your spirit, your attention, your emotions, and your well-being.

Being a submissive is a lifestyle, not a hobby. If you take on a sub, be prepared to give them the attention they need, crave, and deserve. If you deserve their submission, then they deserve your undivided attention. Nurture them and guide them. Put in the effort and you will be handsomely rewarded with a highly desirable sub that will make other Dominants jealous.

Design your bespoke sub. We want to please, we want to serve. We want to find that one Dominant that makes being a pathetic mess feel uber sexy. We want to feel the overwhelming desire to kneel for you. We want to feel the need for rituals. We want find the one Dominant to be their ultimate sextoy, ragdoll, baby-girl/boy.

If you own us, then own us wholeheartedly. If you use us, then use us wisely. If you collar us, then collar us loyally. If you dominate us, then dominate us enthusiastically.

What you give, you will get back in spades. Subs have the compelling need to submit. Too many of us will give our gift away too quickly to a dummy Dom/me because of the compulsion to serve. Submission is precious, don’t forget this and don’t abuse this.

If your sub looks deep into your eyes and says, ‘I submit to you,’ then take it seriously, affectionately, and proudly.

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Memoirs of a masochist 2.0

For a start, all pain causes the central nervous system to release endorphins – proteins which act to block pain and work in a similar way to opiates such as morphine to induce feelings of euphoria, until the nervous system's control centre the hippocampus kicks in. This portion of the brain responds to pain signals by ordering the production of the body's own narcotics, endorphins. The proteins bind to opioid receptors in the brain and prevent the release of chemicals involved in the transmission of pain signals. This helps block pain, but endorphins go further, stimulating the brain's limbic and prefrontal regions – the same areas activated by passionate love affairs and music. It’s a post-pain rush similar to the high of morphine or heroin, which also bind to the brain’s opioid receptors. Meanwhile, the pain causes a spike in another of the body’s painkillers, anandamide. Known as the ‘bliss chemical’, it binds to cannabinoid receptors in the brain to block pain signals and induce the warm, fuzzy pleasure emulated by marijuana, which binds to the same receptors. Adrenaline, also produced in response to pain, adds to the excitement More generally, the pleasurable post-pain rush is thought to have evolved to help people cope in the immediate aftermath of an injury.

But why are some types of pain enjoyable, and others just plain agonising?

One theory to explain it is ‘benign masochism’ – seeking out pain while maintaining the awareness that it won’t cause serious damage. It’s something animals aren’t capable of doing. Benign masochism is something that those who engage in BDSM won’t find surprising. Mistress Alexandra, a professional sadist explains:

“We make a difference between good pain and bad pain. Bad pain indicates that something is not right, something we have to pay instant attention to. Then there’s good pain which is enjoyable. For example, when the shoulder starts pulling during bondage, that’s potentially unsafe so we release it.”

The theory is also thought to explain why we seek out and enjoy other intrinsically unpleasant experiences, such as fear-inducing rollercoasters or sad movies.

Researchers used fMRI to visualise the brains of women as they stimulated themselves to climax, found that more than 30 areas of the brain were active, including those involved in pain.Barry Komisaruk from Rutgers University, who authored the imaging study, thinks there’s a fundamental link between pain and orgasm pathways. “Another observation is that the facial expressions during orgasm are often indistinguishable from those in pain,” he says. In the BDSM field, many of our normal definitions of terms such as violence, sex, pain, and enjoyment either lose their conventional meaning or become alien, ambiguous, controversial, or essentially contested.

The main point (of S/M) is that the characterizations of erotic/pleasure and nonerotic/pain change places; in other words, they exemplify reversible pairs. Hence, in a BDSM context pain and pleasure are related. When we discuss serious pain close to that of torture, and not some pain-like playful little titillations, this makes the BDSM context a special one: It is a context in which serious pain and rich pleasure are indeed related metonymically in cooperative setting. To make the case stronger, also consensual cooperation between the top and the bottom shows its metonymic features: When you are hurt by an agent, this seems like a paradigmatic case of conflict; yet in BDSM it is all consensual and hence cooperative. Such a double metonymy strongly characterizes the unique world of BDSM. In the language of BDSM, pain and pleasure as well as conflict and cooperation freely switch places.

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The term masochism comprises any passive attitude towards sexual life and the sexual object, the extreme instance of which appears to be that in which satisfaction is conditional upon suffering physical or mental pain at the hands of the sexual object.

Freud distinguishes three types of masochism: feminine, erotogenic and moral. Feminine masochism, the most easily observable form, is found in male patients, who conjure fantasies or seek sexual activity in which they are gagged, bound, painfully beaten, whipped, in some way maltreated, forced into unconditional obedience, dirtied and debased. Erotogenic masochism, which underlies and supports the other forms, is characterised by a libidinal pleasure in pain. In Three Essays on the Theory of Sexuality, Freud had rejected the notion that the extreme and exceptional stimuli of painful experiences could carry a sufficient libidinal charge to explain the origin of masochism. In this later essay, Freud turns to the death instinct to find the origin of what he now concedes is a primary masochism, one that does not depend on the transformation of a prior sadistic instinct. According to Freud, one task of the libido is to meet the death instinct and render it innocuous. It fulfils the task by diverting that instinct to a great extent outwards towards objects in the external world. When this will to power is sexualised, it becomes sadism proper. Part of this instinct, however, remains "inside the organismic” and becomes libidinally bound there. It is in this portion that we have to recognise the original, erotogenic masochism. Moral masochism, the third form that Freud considers, is chiefly remarkable for having loosened its connection with what we recognise as sexuality.

Freud's first detailed consideration of masochism appears in his discussion of sexual perversions in Three Essays on the Theory of Sexuality. At this early date, Freud writes that sadism and masochism are inverse forms of a single sexual perversion centring on pain as an avenue to pleasure.Sadism and masochism, at this point in Freud's theoretical understanding are inextricably bound - the former being the active, externally directed version of the perversion; the latter being its passive, internally focused form. In fact, it is passivity that defines masochism, not a desire for pain, humiliation or punishment. Freud considers sadism and masochism to be "the most common and most significant of all perversions. Although he fails to elaborate the reasons for choosing the second adjective, the choice of the first is most likely related to an understanding of sadism as an exaggeration of the normal aggressive sexual instinct in men.Because there is, on Freud's understanding, an intimate connection between cruelty and the sexual instinct an active or violent attitude toward the sexual object" is to be expected; it is only where sexual "satisfaction is entirely conditional on the humiliation and maltreatment of the object that the term "sadism," as a signifier of perversion of the sexual aim, is entirely appropriate. While Freud opines that masochism is further removed from the normal sexual aim than its counterpart," the logic of the transformation of a single sexual instinct into an active and passive form means that masochism shares sadism's purported naturalness. Even if sadism, then, is represented as an extension or exaggeration of normal impulses and desires - most likely because it is more comfortably aligned with a culturally normative understanding of masculinity as active and aggressive - it is important to note that masochism, which is an intrinsic part of this pain-related perversion, inevitably shares in the normality afforded sadistic impulses.  Freud reports that his male patients in both fantasy and performance always select a woman to perform the role of chastiser. In addition, in both performance and fantasy, the male masochists invariably transfer themselves into the part of the woman; that is to say, their masochistic attitude coincides with a feminine one.While the figure of "woman" appears to play an important role in male masochistic fantasy, it is the male who is central. Freud contends that the fantasy of a woman chastiser is a translation of a prior, now unconscious fantasy of being beaten. Echoing his understanding of the fetish, Freud explains that the conscious masochistic fantasy - the translation from love to violence.

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Are you following the story? And yes, that is my voice don’t get too hard

The Ingram Mansion - Episode 3 - Do your magic.

The steps continue, and I start seeing Bunny’s legs, now without the roller skates, only her big hole fishnets. On her right I can see the man she went to go get, he has leather shoes and blue formal pants, the blue is shinning from here and I think it’s one of those silky materials that feel so good to touch. They kept coming down the stairs and I could see him clearly now, a tall man, with a white shirt tucked in his pants, brown wavy hair with his sides cut short, deep brown eyes, and intricate facial hair. But more than that, his presence was known, I looked around and I wasn’t the only one expecting the man to come down the stairs, I realized the only eyes not turning, was Mari’s as she kept battling a lost battle against the dildo machine. He stopped before the last flight of stairs, he stood there looking into everyone’s eyes. There he was, with Bunny petting Goose next to him but behind him were two giant statues. 

They seem like goddesses, like those statues rich people have in their gardens, the stone was black, like cold magma. The goddess on the right is long and tiny waisted, she has wide hips, small perky tits, and has a necklace around her neck. Her ass is being exposed, and her waist is turning to face us as she bites her lips. On the left, the girl has long straight hair, big breasts, and long thin legs. She seems to be holding her big tits with both hands but looking into people’s eyes.  It’s almost like lava was spilled over two goddesses that fell from heaven. 

After a brief moment, his eyes met mine, I was intimidated, hoping I would be well received by him.

“You must be Shuu.” He said, looking at me with what I supposed were friendly-looking eyes. 

He turned his eyes to the moaning lady in the room, Mari kept holding herself, like she needed to prove her point. 4:30 on the clock.

As he was smiling, the man said with a deep voice: “You are doing so well slut, breath deeply… ” After doing as told, Mari answered with a shaky: “Yes Sir!”

With an even bigger smile, he added: “And now feel myself stretch you from the inside. ”

The room was silent, no more talks, no more giggling, no more of anything, only Mari kept moaning, scream and getting close to what tears are supposed to sound like.

As soon as the last syllables of the word “inside” came out of that man’s mouth, Mari started shaking, her body trying to break the ropes, clearly, something was happening, and we all knew what it was.

Her scream was deep, in all that silence, it all hit like a truck, a truck of pleasure and lust. And then… pure silence, not a sound, just the heavy breathing of Mari’s sweaty and satisfied body on the table. 

Barely able to talk, the girl whispers: “That’s not fucking fair…” And, he just continued to smile. 

People all across the room started commenting, then laughing about what had just happened, Mari was not happy, although her shaking body said otherwise. While being untied, she looked at the man and shook her head…

- “As I was saying, you must be Shuu, and I am Max. Nice to meet you. I heard you got lost?” The man that now had a name asked.

- “Yes, I got lost out there, Bunny was nice enough to let me in and possibly use your phone,” I answer, trying to hint at the phone call I needed to take. 

- Look around you… Are you sure your priority is to call home?

- “Well…” I started to second guess my need to take that phone call. 

Mari was now on her feet, her legs trying to keep her body erect, she put a blanket around her body and walked towards the fire while looking into Max’s eyes. Soon after, another girl stood up and walked towards the girl that had just submitted Mari to that cruel endurance exercise. 

- “Is it your turn Sammie?” Max asked the girl that seemed interested in beating Mari’s time.

- “It would appear so…” Sammie said while smirking and giggling. 

- “Glad to see you’re enjoying your daily task.” Max said while pointing to a blackboard. 

On that blackboard, I could read: “ November 11th - Daily task #153. Orgasm control, get bound on the fuck table, and get used by the dildo machine at full speed. Let’s see who can resist longer. Any hole is valid.”

Sammie was looking adorable, her hair was done in cute braids, she had a pink top, and her curves showing as she wasn’t wearing any panties. I couldn’t stop myself from getting a glimpse at her pussy as she walked by me to lay on the table and I was amazed by the shining pink that my eyes were seeing. 

She laid and just like Mari was before her, she was tied to the table, no movement was even possible, that damn rope girl knew what she was doing. 

- “You’re not letting them escape, are you Lou?” Max asked the girl that had been torturing poor girls for what I understood now, since the beginning of this day. 

- “They sure aren’t going anywhere but I promise you Sir they will be cumming.” Lou answered with a voice of a British humorist that was more than enjoying the torture that she was making the others endure. 

That was when I realized that I have been so focused on what she had been doing to others and how Mari was reacting to it that I didn’t even pay attention to this girl Lou. She smiled while pulling on the rope that was tieing Sammie. She had a black rope harness around her tits, only exposing her nipples, it was the most beautiful rope I had ever seen, it was a color of black so powerful and every curve of the rope was only second best to Lou’s own curves. These same curves were being shown by that tight leather mini skirt that matched the color of the rope. 

- “You’re ready Sammie?” Lou asked while putting a new dildo on the fucking machine. 

- “Yes Lou, please be gentle,” Sammie answered in a soft voice.

Lou aimed the dildo at Sammie’s body but everyone in the room understood something different was happening, Lou wasn’t doing the same that she did to Mari.

Lou took a look glass bottle and poured some viscous liquid on her right hand. She rubbed the toy by giving it a handjob, it didn’t take more than 5 seconds, shortly after that, she told Sammie to breathe deeply as she caressed the outside of the tied girl’s ass.

The dildo machine turned on, the dildo came closer and closer to Sammie’s tight little ass hole, I could already see into the future, I have learned that between these walls if anything crazy can happen, it will. 

As the dildo motioned forward and backward, just like it did for Marie, I realized that the liquid that was dripping on the floor was in fact lube to make it easier for Sammie and harder for her not to cum. 

Lou came closer to the dildo and said whispering:

- Do your magic, Trevor. 

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My first attempt of a heart harness

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Valentine sneak peak

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Just ass, nothing less nothing more

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