“You don’t know you’re ace/aro, you might feel attraction later” and??? That’s true for most other orientations too. Any straight person might be attracted to someone of the same gender later on. If they don’t say “I’m straight at the moment, but I might be bi someday you never know teehee,” then I think they can deal with me saying I’m aroace.
The gayest and transest thing that could have happened to me is going on a date to the christmas markets to make fun of the weird nativity statues with the cute person that compimented my hair while in class and then taking them with me to the university offices to change my name and gender marker on my university ID and institutional email, so teachers can use my proper name and pronouns during exams and lectures, and then them telling me that we should bake together the cinamon roll (the sanrio character, apologies if its not spelled correctly) cake they saw somewhere while waiting for me outside the offices as the next date <3
if you haven’t, i hope you fall in love with life again. i hope you wake up with a happy sigh, hope you feel like doing things you enjoy, hope you are surrounded by people who make you feel safe, hope you smile at yourself in the mirror.
you ever know someone and you think “god i love you. i wish we could’ve known eachother when we were carefree and 11. i wish we could’ve played together as kids”
new level of ridiculousness achieved: ahah maybe if you need practice like you said you can pierce my nose and in change I can dye your hair and maybe then we can watch our flag means death :'D
me flirting: ahah maybe i could make you this food you said you wanted to try when we'll see eachother or maybe if you want to i could send you the recipe or maybe we could cook it together when we'll meet next time ahah
We're going to look for empty classrooms so that when we have time between a lecture and the other we can maybe meet there to spend time together or eat lunch :3
I told them that I might get lost because I still don't know the school grounds that well and he replied that maybe we can get lost together :''''')
They also take care of a colony of cats, but that's not what I was talking about :'D
have you ever stayed up late with someone texting or chatting and known as the hours ticked by that you’d be ridiculously tired in the morning but it didnt matter because it was really fun and totally worth losing sleep over just to laugh with someone and enjoy their company maybe and then the next day you keep tiredly recalling how much fun it was
i ended up liking how gendered french is solely because i can say that i want people to use he/him pronouns for me the same way they use it for angels, blood and blunts