you know what, shoutout to the neurodivergent people with "scary" symptoms.
the ones who:
-say dark things without realizing
-talk to themselves
-have homicidal thoughts
-get really, really angry
-make others uncomfortable on accident
-don't tolerate bullshit
-can't/won't mask
-have dark interests
-have genuinely hurt others before
-have been in a psych ward before
-obsess over people
-have intrusive thoughts about hurting people
-have sexual intrusive thoughts
-don't really care about others much
-always choose themselves first
-have low/no empathy
-are seen as creepy or scary by others
this goes out to my folks with autism that isn't "uwu cute". personality disorder havers. schizospec people. ocders. odd and ied havers. and anyone and everyone else.
this post does not support intentionally hurting people. but people who have hurt others in the past and have changed or are trying to change/in the process of changing are more than welcome here.
Can we please please talk about switch x switch sex because oh my:
- Both people fighting for dominance and it’s confident and snarky and eventually when one of you gives in it’s the roughest, most possessive sex ever
- Switching roles halfway through and being hit with the “it’s my turn to make you feel good” or perhaps the “don’t you think you got a little carried away, doll?”
- Both not really feeling like domming so it’s just soft and whiny and touchy sex filled with pleas and begging.
"It’s often unhealthy to hyper-analyze your sexuality to the point where how you experience it changes where you belong. This is why the idea that broader terms are somehow more restrictive is baffling. Continuously breaking labels down and creating terminology for each facet of one’s identity shrinks communities until it’s just one person convinced that they’re the only one who relates to their experiences. It isolates people and ignores the importance of individuality within a collective identity."
wait you understand that kinks are ok because they're fantasies that make you happy right? you all get that you don't need to have trauma for your kinks to be okay? right? like none of you think i witnessed a tragic accident on the pool toy assembly line right?
Hey hi hello my brain thrusted this thought upon me against my will and uh
Warning for intense (but very much enjoyed by the lee) overstimulation type tickles I guess?? It’s just some text thoughts but just in case
Imagine (consensually) putting your lee through such intense tickles that they start to beg and tell you they can’t take it, but in actuality they’re just on the cusp of being truly unable to stand it anymore, and carefully you manage to keep them right there, dancing on that line between ecstasy and torment. You coo ever so lovingly as you reassure them, “You’re doing such a good job taking it for me~” If they hadn’t lost their mind already, they most certainly have by now. You almost can’t believe they haven’t used the safe word yet. You’re so proud of them—so happy to be able to bring them this much enjoyment as a ler.
The best thing about bondage, especially kinda heavy bondage, for me, is the overwhelming sense of relief. Not having to worry about anything, about what's happening to you, what to do with your hands, where to touch, nothing, you're just there to exist and feel. It's kind of all encompassing in a way. Trusting someone so much that not being able to do anything turns from anxiety inducing to anxiety relief is such an intense thing.