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Tumblr is doing some stupid AI shit so go to blog settings > Visibility > Prevent third-party sharing.

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You’re back!!!!!!!

Sorta kinda, anyway.

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Long time since I've posted. Anyway: such a commercial exists now. While one character, whom I will call the Mom, is hoping for a positive result: the other two, whom I will call the Exec and the Student, are both introduced hoping for a negative. (Spoiler alert: no one is disappointed.)

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This is a lot to ask for but my mom is really stressed from work and her own health issues and my older sister is not helping with bills. I need like $600 to help my mom with bills and buy groceries. If you can’t donate, which is completely fine, please share this!!

C*sh*pp: $dickedown

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It seems appropriate.

#music #Dream Theater #Christmas #not really on Tumblr any longer #may resurface #if they get their shit together #WTF Tumblr

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felicity-kitten replied to your post: “Mama cat. ��”:

I'm so terribly sorry. May she rest in peace

Thanks.

She’s under a lavender.  I wanted a wild lilac—they're a native plant where we rescued her, she was a lilac-point, and she wasn’t as prickly as Esmy—but that got vetoed on the grounds that it’s more of a tree than a shrub.  (Later, I found out that there are prone wild lilacs...should have gotten one of those.)

#felicity-kitten #cats #animal death #rest in peace you precious fuzzlet

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unsuspectingfish replied to your post: “Mama cat. ��”:

Oh no, I’m so sorry!

Thanks.  It seemed like she was getting better for a while; and the original symptoms that we’d treated her for in February never actually came back.  But then, she just...went downhill fast, and painfully, in the space of twenty-four hours.

I mean...she was an old lady; and she’d had a rough life before we took her in.  It still hurt to see her hurt; and—even though we’d prepared ourselves for that to be the case—it still hurt to find out that the kindest thing we could do for her was to make it quick and painless.

#unsuspectingfish #cats #animal death #rest in peace you precious fuzzlet

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Mama cat. 😭

#cats #animal death #rest in peace you precious fuzzlet

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I usually troll, but yet another of my favorite authors just died and I’m kind of reeling from that on top of being busy and tired.

#Vonda McIntyre #ave atque vale #death mention

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We moved, because our house is being sold out from under us. We lost our income. Mama cat got sick while we were still broke. 

We got money for a vet trip, and she seems to be at very least on her way to recovery now.  I still feel horribly guilty about allowing a sweet old kitty’s health to slip on my watch.

#cats #poor baby #gripe whine grumble #I suck

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please don’t scroll past

im a gay trans man who got kicked out of my transphobic household by my mother who has abused me for 10+ years. i’m currently living with one of my friend’s, but i have absolutely none of my things, including any sort of phone. she’s gracefully letting me use her computer, so that is how i’m setting this up.

i don’t know how to phrase this, but i’m barely a week into turning 16, and i have nothing to wear to school, which i still wish to graduate from. i need all the support i can get.

please, even if you can’t donate, spread this around. i don’t know what to do, since this was all sudden and out of the blue.

my paypal is  [email protected], and i am also willing to do commissions. if you need an example of my art, please visit my art blog and send me a dm to discuss prices.

#signal boost #abuse for ts #help this guy

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This is the only day you can reblog this ever

#Monsters Inc. #awesome

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The death threats alone.

Just in case I haven’t made my stance clear enough, I wanted to lay a few things on the table. 

Tumblr is cancer, and the entire anti movement even more so. No one on this website knows how to do research and instead prefers just to make up their own definitions, spouting them as truth. Fujoshi does not mean what you think it means. Fujoshi are not inherently bad people. They’re in their right to ship whatever they can conceive. As it has recently been brought to my attention, let me also say that lolicon does not mean what you think it means. Loli consent is literally the worst case of Western bullshit I’ve ever seen. Its shorthand for lolita complex. Which by the way, Lolita is a name. There is nothing inherently sexual about the name. Its been twisted by trigger happy morons, but the lipstick or the fashion? Absolutely nothing to do with pedophilia in any way shape or form. 

As a fandom old, I like and support “bad ships” because I have the brain capacity to wrap my head around the fact that these are fictional characters, not real people. If Inuyasha aired today, everyone would be having a fit about not only the Kagome x Inuyasha ship (15 year old human female x 50+ year old half-dog demon) but also the hugely popular Sesshomaru x Rin pairing (god only knows how old dog demon x 10~ year old human female). That being said …

My favorite Golden Kamuy pairing is Ogata x Asirpa (30+ year old man x 13 year old girl) and thats just the fucking facts. I like it. A lot. Its a good pairing. 

I have no qualms about people shipping age gaps, whether legal (Endeavor x Hawks) or with minors involved (see above).

I have no qualms with people shipping incest. I’ve read a LOVELY Endeavor x Shoto series that was very cathartic for me regarding my own trauma and I’ve read plenty of BLmatsu fics as well. And to be honest with you? Incest isn’t even bad in real life, so long as its not rape. If a 25 year old man consented to having sex with his 22 year old sister? Its a non issue. 

I harbor rape fantasies (being on the receiving end) as does a significant portion of the female populace. Stories about noncon or dubcon are not bad things. The people who read and write them are not bad. Its SUCH a prevalent fantasy that a published book written by a female author I’m currently reading wrote a staged rape scene. No trigger warnings. No notes that said “just so everyone knows, rape is not okay”. No deflecting comments to make sure that the reader knows shes not romanticizing it. The scene literally just IS. 

Multishipping is not an endorsement for cheating (something else that was recently brought to my attention, much to my disgust). If someone wants to write about a female character fucking the ENTIRE male cast behind their backs, thats their prerogative and its really not that deep. Cheating in real life is bad because real people get hurt in the process. Fictional characters cheating on fictional characters is angst fuel. Plain and simple. 

Any ship being labeled a “bad ship” is fanwank and nothing more. 

Trying to tell people how they can and cannot enjoy their fictional media is wrong, and every anti should truly be ashamed of themselves for making people feel bad over something that doesn’t even exist. 

I was raped by a father figure from the time I was 11 until I was 18 and I can assure you without a shadow of a doubt that there is absolutely nothing in shipping or fandom that even comes close to the real thing. Equating the two is honestly offensive to anyone whose actually been in that position and I honestly, truly believe that every anti who says they were abused in some fashion or another is lying. Because anyone whose really been there knows that fictional works on the internet are of so little consequence it doesn’t even ping on the radar. Its harmless. Real life though?

And no partaking in these things does not magically turn you into a rapist or a pedophile or anything of the sort. The man who took advantage of me for YEARS didn’t wake up one day and decide to fuck his 11 year old stepdaughter because he read a fucking incest fic on FF.N. He was raped when he was a child and the cycle of abuse continued. 

Media effects reality but not the way you think it does. The power of suggestion only works enough to convince you that you need the newest Iphone or you’ll literally die. It does not somehow make you believe that real rape or real pedophilia is fine and dandy. It just does not work like that and anyone who thinks contrary needs to seek professional help ASAP. No amount of rape fic or lolicon doujins is going to make me go out and rape real children. Period. 

Oh, and for the record? Theres nothing wrong with ageing up characters either. I don’t see the point (refer to this entire post) but if it makes someone else happy then so be it. They’re not pedophiles for wanting to age up a fictional character they have a crush on so THEY’RE more comfortable, especially considering that said fictional character will always be 15 in canon. Like these fucking mental gymnastics are astounding. Literally pump the brakes for five seconds and think about this. 

If I had the power to magically warp into every anti’s house, or just anyone who believed any of the above “Bad Things” were true, I’d honestly kill every single one of them. Like, no joke. You’re a waste of space. You’re a waste of oxygen. No one loves and no one is ever going to love you with that attitude. 

Peace.

#what is this I don't even #batshipping #rape mention #incest for ts #pedophilia for ts #ephebophilia for ts #death threats

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#architecture #architecture pr0n #cob house

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I regret to inform everyone who has been white-knighting the Perdition Army lately that the Perdition Army has not, in fact, actually gotten their shit together and are simply attempting to pretend that there is no shit.

Reminder not to support the Salvation Army who are a bunch of bigots

#Perdition Army #homophobia #transphobia #shitty business

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How has this blithering twit of a cartoonist not figured out yet that people do want Immortan Fart to stop?  And by that, I mean stop throwing tantrums, stop pulling power trips, stop obstructing justice, stop lying, and stop pretending to be an actual leader?

Also: Beeler’s “donkey” looks like a cross between a cow moose and a rabbit.

youre a fucking nitwit, nate beeler.

#politics #wounded gazelleing