I know you're a lonely woman,
And I love you
But someone else is waiting,
And he owns you
If he should ever wake up
Be sure your story is straight, love
If you talk in your sleep,
Don't mention my name
If you walk in your sleep,
Forget where you came.
It really bugs me how everyone forgets Ginger Alden and how much she truly loved Elvis as a whole person and tried to help him when he was struggling. Many of the books and media I read donāt even mention her. They only focus on Pricilla and Linda. I truly believe Ginger was his soulmate, and I feel so bad because everyone did Ginger dirty. I can only imagine that EP would have been pissed at how everyone treated his Gingerbread and her family after he passed away.
I donāt want to be this person. But I feel like that new Elvis confessions account on here is just a gateway for people to start drama and spew their hate for people in this fandom and how others choose to love Elvis or how they write about Elvis and to basically shove down our throats how to be an Elvis fan āthe right wayā.
I just saw one of their recent posts about basically the fandom not being the same and how people donāt care about him and how people used to talk about his music and movies. Now people in the fandom only care about writing smut about him and donāt even know his songs or movies. Then saying how calling him ābig daddyā is disgusting.
Huh? What? I donāt know what part of the fandom this person is on but we are constantly talking about his music and movies. I feel like most of the people in this fandom have seen all of his movies. But also some canāt depending on where they live in the world so it could be harder for them to watch them. Heās got so much music to listen like you canāt be mad if EVERYONE hasnāt heard every single fucking song. Thereās actually some people who just joined and are still learning. Itās not that serious. Stop acting like you werenāt once new to being an Elvis fan.
Why are we acting like people havenāt been writing so much smut stories about him since 2022? Before I even joined the fandom here I was literally reading soooo many smut stories about him around that time. I donāt think thatās changed. Thereās so many different stories besides smut. If you donāt like smut guess what? DONāT READ IT BABE. Keep scrolling. Thereās so much variety when it comes to Elvis fanfics. Itās not just smut.
Then onto the big daddy thing. That didnāt just become a thing. Itās been a thing for the past two years. How is it disgusting? Lmao. Itās never that serious and honestly no one is being disrespectful when they use that term. That man has big daddy energy. That is never a bad thing, lol.
I swear. People donāt know how to just enjoy things and not taking things so seriously and constantly complaining about literally everything. Why canāt people just enjoy things? I feel like I constantly speak up about this because Iām so tired of people telling people how they should love Elvis or how thereās a wrong and right way. Iām so tired of people making others feel like they donāt belong here. We all love and respect Elvis. We all love learning about him in every aspect of his life. So many of us do so much research and constantly read books on him because we DO see him more than just a āpretty faceā more than just an āaestheticā. Heās a huge part of our lives and we all in some way have a story about how heās impacted us or what heās done for us. Doesnāt mean we canāt joke about things or like make unhinged posts. Life doesnāt always have to be taken so seriously.
Lighten up. Elvis would be bothered by how uptight some of you are.