chronic fic author & fandom orbiter, recently returned to my tumblr era. currently enjoying One Piece brainrot and acute blorboism.NothingSoDivine on AO3 and cohost, @nsd_ao3 on twitteralso I write self-insert drabbles by request at @not-quite-angelic
i told my friendās dad that he was hot (it was in context with the conversation, he was complaining that he was feeling old, etc), and he said a very genuine thank you and the conversation moved on to other topic, my friend was now talking about something else entirely when his dad goes
āi think if i were born in your generation i might have been bisexualā
everything everywhere all at once (2022) // i remain in darkness, annie ernaux // poplar street, chen chen // original writing (@scorpiogays) // electra, sophocles (trans. anne carson)
i will give tiktok one concession and that is that it has spawned a comment that contains a phrase that i think of often at relevant moments: pack it up boys we've made a social blunder
I have worn my magen david and not had a single comment, from anyoneā not Muslims, Christians, people wearing kufiyahs. Iāve been to protests and demonstrations, and never been more welcomed or felt so safe. Palestinians have hugged me, have shared food with me. Leftists have constantly held space to listen and to learn, to make room for changes and growth.
But you know what I have experienced? Jewish Zionists screaming at me, calling me shameful, Jewish Zionists on the internet debating the legitimacy of my Jewishness. Iāve been called kapo, k*ke and told Iād be r*ped by Hamas. Iāve had the most vitriol from ZIONISTS. Iāve faced the most antisemitism from Zionist Jews, and that makes me so inconceivably sad. Iāve been looked down upon and cursed at.
I promise you, relationship anarchy is a good thing. Tell your friends you love them. Go on dates. Domme them. Take them to weddings. Have a relationship with the sub from the dungeon where she does your taxes or you mow his lawn. Help your neighbor plant begonias and become their honorary granddaughter. Become friends with your partnerās partners. Cuddle with your book club and talk about Polysecure or something, idk.
I donāt care. Just stop expecting every relationship to follow a specific pattern and instead find the beauty you both want in your specific relationship with that other person.
Life is more than the nuclear family and strict pseudo-Christian mythological ideals.