âgetting thicker skinâ is great in theory but I think for some people âget better at handling your thin skinâ is gonna be way more helpful advice. I have strong emotional reactions to criticism and they might never go away, but i can continue to try and handle each situation maturely and thatâs the important part. Sometimes irrational feelings are chronic and living with them is better than trying to beat yourself up into not having them.
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Cannot stop thinking about Anne magill paintings. Maybe my new favorite painter. She just captures this ..,,,,,, dreamy feeling...,,, a certain tenderness..... a fleeting moment of contentedness..... like nothing else Iâve seen
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I've been back in the tony stark tag on ao3 yall lol I am once again in my feels about him!! Have some art bro
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I'm intrigued...who is Sick Boy?
SICK BOY!!!!
@le-red-queen I'M BEING ASKED QUESTIONS ABOUT SICK BOY WHAT A GREAT DAY!!!!!!!!!!
sick boy is a useless silly little criminal baby boy punk who's addicted to heroin
he's one of the ensemble of the movie trainspotting which i would recommend with a whooole bunch of content warnings if you have triggers or squicks
it's an iconic movie based on an iconic book, about a group of scottish addicts who rail at the nature of the world around them and the hypocrisy of 90s capitalism (ohhh sweet summer children), but also double-cross each other, have anger issues, drag each other down, and fuck up their own lives in various ways -- the score is also a work of art!
sick boy's character in this story is someone who pretends to be generally unaffected by the life they're in, obsessed with james bond, and on the whole the somewhat shallow it-girl of the team, if you will, but there are a lot of strong clues in the first film that suggest that he feels far more than he lets on, and he goes through his own personal tragedy in the movie as well
but yeah he's kind of head-empty bimbo too
in the sequel, x amount of years later, the writing decided to focus more on him and his dynamic with the lead character, renton (played by ewan mcgregor), and where their lives have ended up now they're no longer youths who can push away the accountability for their own lives and the world around them. it leans more heavily on them having a lot of homoerotic tension, and having had A Past in which they were best friends and how becoming addicts gradually pulled them from one another, but maybe they'll find their way back again who knows, which is a little different from the first movie in which the outlook is generally quite bleak (they're both quite bleak, but the first one is by far the more tragedy-based narrative)
all grown up sick boy, still a bimbo
the other two leads of this dynamic are begbie and spud, and they do have large parts to play in both of the stories as well. fun links, begbie is played by richard carlyle who's in plunkett & macleane with JLM and he's been very opening about playing the former of these roles as a closeted gay man... the latter is my own imagination, but i see you mr richard carlyle
but yeah. trainspotting. amazing movie. unfortunately all your brother's edgy friends are into it too, it's kind of one of those "if your boyfriend's favourite films are american psycho, fight club, the matrix, and trainspotting, run" movies, but you know. don't hold that against it đ
the sequel: a bit self-indulgent, but I'm the person being indulged and it's genuinely fun seeing these actors who've remained close throughout all these years return to some of their career-making roles, and explore a little more of the book lore + look, i read too much into it maybe, but both ewan mcgregor and JLM are recovering alcoholics, and seeing them as middle-aged men playing the parts of recovering addicts, it's... good. i think this movie is good, in a very different way to the first one. renton and sick boy do not make out, but there's a character who says they're definitely in love and ought to fuck, and she's so right for that
in conclusion:
highly recommend it
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Rejection sensitive dysphoria is wild. Someone will be like âhey just so you know the thing you did was a little bit loud/uncomfortable/insensitive but itâs ok I know you didnât mean itâ and my brain will instantly translate âyou should be shotâ
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âYouâre just about the last person I want to see right nowâ
More fanart of @jewishclarkkent s fab fanfic âThereâs a Science to Walking Through Windowsâ. This is from the latest chapter where this gorgeous description made me draw.
Extract from fic:
In the doorway stands Tony, pale and dishevelled. His clothes, typically pristine and tailored, now hang loosely on his frame, wrinkled and unkempt. Stray strands of hair, normally meticulously styled, now stand in disarray, clinging to his forehead with sweat. Heâs holding his phone in his left hand, his fingers curled tensely around the device as if theyâve already been forced to hold this position for hours.
Thereâs a weariness in Tonyâs gaze, his typically sharp features softened by exhaustion. The room behind him is bathed in a dim, flickering light, casting long, ominous shadows that dance across his features, accentuating the tension etched into every line of his face like cracks in porcelain. Dark circles create deep hollows beneath his eyes, betraying the sleepless nights and restless days heâs endured.
When their eyes lock, the weariness in Tonyâs expression deepens, an evident mixture of agitation and frustration. Tonyâs body stiffens and Steve finds himself mirroring the stance, every muscle tightly coiled. The air around them is thick with anticipation and unresolved tension, as if the very atmosphere is bracing itself for the impending confrontation.
âYouâre just about the last person I want to see right now,â Tony says as he rubs a hand over his face, his voice hoarse with fatigue and resignation. Still, he steps aside to allow Steve entry.
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if you want to actually start to end homelessness, you need to give homeless people unconditional homes, including when we use them to do drugs or sit around drinking. either housing is unconditional or it isnât
someone sitting at home alone, an active alcoholic, squandering your charity, drinking all day is better situation than a street homeless alcoholic. someone using drugs in your charity house is better than them doing the same w no shelter
most of you would not like most street homeless people, I definitely donât and didnât when I was street homeless. for every one person who uses unconditional shelter to turn themselves around, someone else will do jack shit and very slowly, if ever, work through the issues that made them homeless, will maybe never be able to live independently. still better than street homelessness, still worth doing. ultimately either you believe that shelter should be universal or you donât
homeless people actually canât be rehabilitated if you want to end homelessness. we either affirm the right to shelter for the worst drunken, lying, filthy, cheating, self destructive homeless people that exist, genuinely irredeemable wankers, or we concede that shelter is not a right
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Growth capitalism is a deranged fantasy for lunatics.
Year 1, your business makes a million dollars in profit. Great start!
Year 2, you make another million. Oh no! Your business is failing because you didn't make more than last year!
Okay, say year 2 you make $2 mil. Now you're profitable!
Then year 3 you make $3 mil. Oh no! Your business is failing! But wait, you made more money than last year right? Sure, but you didn't make ENOUGH more than last year so actually your business is actively tanking! Time to sell off shares and dismantle it for parts! You should have made $4 mil in profit to be profitable, you fool!
If you're not making more money every year by an ever-increasing exponent, the business is failing!
Absolute degenerate LUNACY
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17/29. Fucking Television History Moment of all Time if you ask me
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So a free tool called GLAZE has been developed that allows artists to cloak their artwork so it can't be mimicked by AI art tools.
AI art bros are big mad about it.
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Artwork Copyright © Tyler Spangler
www.shoptylerspangler.com
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Artwork Copyright © Tyler Spangler
www.shoptylerspangler.com
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