I'm just going to say - I love it and I love the style clash and I love the way it's composed and put together and it actually tickles the brain and makes me stim. Like, I get all hand flappy and smiley (I don't smile nowadays that much) - I suppose the hand flapping is a good side effect considering, you know, chickens 😂 But anyway, YES. Kot Kot is a Yes Yes from me 😁💚🎊🎉
I constantly think about the quote (literally no idea what it’s from) I read once about how teenage girls want to fuck their band guy idols because it’s the closest they can get to wanting to BE their band guy idols. Like damn… way to recontextualize my entire adolescence with 1 sentence
Even if I wasn't trans and bi my aroness would make me so extremely queer
Romantic relationships are the norm, not wanting them ever and not being romantically attracted to people is seen as literally inhuman. Especially when you're afab.
When you're raised as a "woman" everything in your life, every decision you make, 24/7 365 days a year is dictated by potential romance.
"Don't dye your hair or get a tattoo, your future husband won't like that"
"Don't get that job, men don't like women who earn more than them"
"Don't work out too much, your future boyfriend will feel emasculated"
"Dress like this to attract a man"
"Men like this kind of personality"
"You'll need to learn these skills so you can be a good wife someday!"
"You need to dedicate time to putting yourself out there! You can't spend all your time doing [thing you actually enjoy]!"
And yeah, it's linked with misogyny and women have been choosing to be single and childless for centuries despite the norm but the fact that it's not my choice is what makes me queer.
I didn't choose to not feel romantic attraction. I didn't choose to be averse to romance. I didn't choose to be aromantic.
I didn't choose to oppose the norm, I was born outside of it. And that's what queerness is all about.
(And yes, cisgender heterosexual aromantic men are 100% queer, I'm just speaking from my own personal experience)
[This post is about aromanticism, do not derail or tag as ace/asexual/aroace]
Some of you might have met Hannah at Joker Out and Käärijä concerts. If you’re like me, you could even be wearing her bracelets. Sadly, she passed away very suddenly today.
She was in Glasgow two weeks ago at JO gig and due to go to Böle next week.
I’m in touch with her Dad. He wanted to know about the names of the bands she loved and which artist is her favourite for Eurovision (pretty sure it’s Baby Lasagna).
It’s all a bit of a shock right now. Hug your loved ones tight. If you want to talk about it, you’re welcome into my DMs.
If everyone could do me a favour and reblog this with the worst outfits the Joker Out guys have worn. Anything really ugly or you just think looks bad on them.
It's for important meme purposes
(I know some of you think they don't have bad looks but don't lie to yourself there's some outfits that aren't good)
Absolutely amazing how AO3 is a part of the internet that doesn't sneak in any ads and doesn't have an algorithm and doesn't watch you or record how much time you spend looking at each fic or whatever. It's just right there to use for free. Legend