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Where we are leading to?

From the case of pollachi and the so many incidents that follows before and after,we are at the point,Do we have really a major defect on how the society brought up !! Totally true ! Yes,We have so many impacts as a individual on how the society teach us!

For the past two to three weeks,we have so many conversations,debates all over TN regarding this issue !! And meanwhile I found many comment on social media "why the hell she went there? It is also her mistake to trust him"!!Even I had a same thought regarding it ! Yes,Of course she did a mistake but still analyse in the perspective of the girl. Imagine,You are in love with a person !! And he owns your trust so much!! He acts that he loves you madly and respects you so much! You never know the fact that he is faking it ! What if the girl really thinks he is real gentle man and goes out there! You can't expect her not to trust him coz she believed he loves and respects her !

You can't live a life without trusting someone ! Even the girl,has a minor part of mistake that trusting him so blind but still "How can you people judge her"?Coming to the point,Where does all this start?We don't really know where we are heading to?If the same situation continues for decades,the existence of female child ratio will be drastically reduced!

God sake,I have read a article few days back,some random guy in Chennai was trying to have sex with a puppy dog! How ashamed it to be living in a country like this?Why the hell people are behaving this cruel in the past few years so frequently!The Truth is,We are not ready to speak to our children about sex education!The recent survey says,India tops the first countries to watch porn websites across the world! Teach your children sex education,and that is a part of every humans life ! It is not something you should hide,When something is hidden,You make the curiosity to know it more and if they search it on their own it leads to what we are exactly leading to!

Of course,Women is a physically weaker than men!Tell your male child,Not to take advantage of it but protect it !Tell Your child not to see girl just as a product ! Talk about menstruation,Sex education at the right time and right age ! Remember,explaining as a parent can really change the perception of your child towards a women than a porn site or a YouTube videos does!

And most of the girl child heard this for sure ! "Nee Ena ponna aluharaku amabala pulla alakudathu"!! There starts everything !! What you feed your child in his five will be remembered forever! Emotions are same! Don't make your male child dominant from his early age!

Parents has a really a great impact on how children are raised! Be responsible ! Have a outward conversation with your children in every aspect of life ! Every child is born as a good one! It is all about how you make him grow up in the stages of life ! Let us not hear this kind of horror rape issues in the coming decades !

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Fairy tales are real !

Almost everyone has their own view of what and how a fairytale is to be!And we are always in a hurry searching for all the possible ways of making a fairytale..we are chasing for the perfect But the question is how much you are in love with the idea of being in love?Is that only carries a movie together or a perfect dinner date!?But before all these have a clear perception that can you hold on to them for the whole life!

Make them feel loved even if they are unlovable!Forget about all those expensive datings.Think about how your partner makes you feel happy at your lowest how he could make you smile in the middle of the conversation just by looking at you!Be the kinda of partner who will love you completely even when you are different from each other.

Imagine a life growing old together accepting each other's flaws as a part of them and not judging them for what they are!Isn't that cute watching the stars all over the night right next to the person you love?Isn't that a happy celebration at your sixty's together with the same madness!Isn't it having a faith that it will last forever!

We are all in hurry in making up a fairytale!To a more clear perspective,we have a different idea of a fairytale! somewhere in life we want a life being loved every now and then!Build a relationship with mutual respect for your partner!No matter what make them feel loved in their soul!

Perfect kinda of fairytale relies in how you choose to see it💕

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Does it hurts you still??

Sometimes it is never easy to give up on someone whom you loved the most ! That one person whom you invested all your love,may turn out to a nightmare! Your heart feels like going back again!Remember,people treat you the way you give them your space ! Don’t make yourself granted always!They will start thinking as if you can’t live without them! Someone who cares will never want you to see in pain! If they are not so,they don’t deserve you every bit !

If they really you care for you they understand you! You have self respect and you are not supposed to lose it for someone who doesn’t deserve you ! Yes,Sometimes betrayal happens,You get hurt and remember that’s not the end of your life.And ofcourse,you end up with lots of question how can they fake a smile with so much lie in their words!

And people around you,starts judging your behaviour, they comeup with great advices which make you even more irritating !But trust me,don’t take it to your heart,only you know what you have gone through!and those barking dogs let them bark.Stay chill !

Sometimes you find everything fake.You feel like bursting out harder.It is not that you have to go back to them because this time if you do the same mistake again it is then your fault ! It is your life! And you are living it!And only you know which will suit you the most?Listen to suggestion but it is up to you take decision.You are a mess,and there is no wrong in it.Because no one could be either perfect !

Yes,It hurts when someone leaves you whom you loved so much.But it’s up to you to ruin your life in tears and weakness! When you choose to leave,you suffer but someday you will find your decision worth!Life is all about trust,when things doesn’t turn out,walk away with a smile ! After all,you have one life ,it doesn’t need a bunch of people surrounded by you to make you happy,If you have just one,only one that’s enough for entire life!

“Happiness is always a choice.Only when you choose to enjoy your life it happens”

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Follow your passion

“Tune into your heart desires”

Just a think a while do each one of you follow your dream?Do all of you satisfied with what you do!

How many of you had a dream at the age of 10 and still having the same dream?Iam sure the answer would be No!When our teacher asks in school"what is your dream?“ We would have told that we wish to be engineers, doctors, writer, actor, singer, painter, artist, chef, police and many more!When we grow the reality changes and the society follows us wherever we go! There are two types of emotions involved one doing any work regardless of passion for a well off life and another struggling for their passion and making them alive! These days finding a job in any one of the sector becomes easy but following something you love is very important.At the end of the day you should feel happy about what you do but not to get stressed of next day!

We always have a misconception about dream.We think the job where we earn the most is a perfect dream!But the bitter truth is “Dream is not about dealing with money or a big house!Your dream job is the one where you get you soul happy!

Everyone can ask what is purpose of following your passion?Let me tell a example your mom buys you two toys the first one is little bit costlier than the other one but you like the second one!Now you will chose the toy which is lower cost than the first one.It’s because you love it the most! Same here applies,if you follow your passion you love doing it which will make your work even more special!

Being in the right job is not about with money you have! Yes ofcourse money is must to survive and iam not offending who does'nt follow their dream!My point is when you do your work with passion everyday you find your work happy and creative!

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