if i could remove the shame and guilt girls feel from same sex attraction and give it to porn addicted straight boys, i would. how can they feel nothing for the way they dehumanize us while sapphics apologize just for existing?
What gets me is when other anti-capitalists who are pro "sex-work" state that there is no ethical version of capitalism that won't return to the late-stage hellscape we find ourselves in, but will theorize or talk about "ethical sex-work" and not see the contradiction.
Even if somehow we got every single coerced woman out of brothels, off of cam-sites, off the streets, etc. and were only left with the millionaire Onlyfans women, the belief that access to women's bodies is something that can be bought will always lead to women being coerced to fulfill men's demands.
There is no point in advocating for "ethical sex-work" as it simply cannot exist. To act like there could be is just a way to comfort men and defend their demand for women's bodies.
If I could get activists to listen to us about one single thing and nothing else, I would ask them to consider just how many of us perfectly fit the definition of âtrans kidâ when we were children. I would ask them to listen to those of us who, after getting help with body issues, internalized homophobia and sexual trauma, are now comfortable with the sex we were born as and wouldnât be happy had we transitioned.
when gender non-conforming people say that we 100% would have believed we were supposed to transition if this movement would have been as big as it is now when we were kids, we fucking mean it. weâre not being dramatic or doing it to make you look bad. it does not come from a place of hatred, it doesnât come from a place of wanting to deny you your right to bodily autonomy, it doesnât come from the same place that homophobes come from when they say they think same sex attracted people are broken and should be subjected to electroshock therapy.
it comes from a place of genuine concern, it comes from seeing children and vulnerable young adults who remind us of ourselves being called âtrans eggs waiting to crack,â medically transitioning, and then being blamed and ostracized for not knowing it wasnât the right decision when that path ended up being wrong for them.
if you really want to do right by gay, lesbian, and gender non-conforming kids then you should listen to gay, lesbian, and gender non-conforming adults even if it challenges your worldview. we have the hindsight to know what we needed when we were children, and for most of us, the last thing we would have needed is to be told weâre actually the opposite sex and sold DIY hrt online by random adults.
you can hate our guts and keep sending us graphic murder threats if you want but truthfully the movement youâve created is full of too much misogyny, too much homophobia, too many hurt people, too many contradictions, and too many unanswered questions to be sustainable. gender abolitionism is the only way forward.
advances in technology have made women and girls more vulnerable and men and boys more violent. that is a fact. but discourse in leftist and mainstream feminist spaces does not reflect this reality. instead, those people are more worried about the perceived danger taylor swift poses and the âviolenceâ of disagreeing with white transwomen and the âextremistâ beliefs of radical feminists (i.e. that misogyny is sex-based and that patriarchy doesnât hurt âeveryoneâ but instead benefits men and harms women).
the đĽ and đŞ of it all ⌠boys are out here radicalizing themselves into committing actual terrorism against girl children out of a psychotic hatred of women and a deep sense of antisocial apathy, while prominent men in our so-called progressive movements become millionaires thinking of different ways to say, âeverything wrong with men is the fault of women.â
âsex isnât binary!â if sex werenât binary, disorders of sex development wouldnât be disorder. but guess what - they are! there are in fact adverse effects of DSDs that range from cosmetic concerns such as a webbed neck, fingers, or undescended testes to profound intellectual disability and premature death. if sex werenât a binary, there would be no reason for DSDs to have an adverse effect on the human body - but they do.
it sucks trying to talk to younger girls about things like grooming and appealing to the male gaze as an adult bc so many of them just assume weâre out of touch, havenât experienced anything similar, and generally donât know what the hell weâre taking about when that couldnât be farther from the truth. they assume weâre puritans, which is so frustrating because itâs like i was you when i was that age lol please listen
there was a trans march in mexico city days ago where this man, after lifting his skirt and flashing his underwear, yelled "hope your daughter gets raped, b*tch!" at a female cop.
TRAs and their obsession with sending rape threats to anyone that dares to disagree with them... nothing new.
"How many genders are there" legitimately I think there are as many genders as there are people on earth, you can be a boy but is your version of boy 100% identical to any other boy?
shit like this has bothered me since forever and I only realize why now, its because they try to break norms without going all the way through, to the point of going backwards. Yes, a man can be pretty and soft BUT that makes him a princess! Or a wife! Or a material girl!
Notice how the essential social meaning of princess and wife never change. Notice how they have trouble wanting to consider that pretty men can be pretty princes, or pretty husbands. Notice how the roles associated with these words (wife and husband will always mean entirely different things to them) never change. They cannot fathom it, and because they do not want to think without the base of stereotypical gender.
Its all 'FUCK GENDER ROLES', but babes you depend on them so much. Your whole ideology would crumble and you wouldn't feel so special anymore without those stereotypes. Which is why progress on gender roles is not only stagnating but actively regressing, now anyone can opt into boxes that should have been destroyed long ago for the sake of true progress, but are being kept around for decoration.
women and girls, hereâs a reminder that you deserve to eat. your goal in life isnât to be skinny. the world is a happier place when you nurture your body and your mind so they can function properly. enjoy all the different foods and flavors out there without guilt. i love you
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