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Why the fuck did this give me butterflies I hate it!

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NFKWMDLWMDWLMDLWDJFKEKFŞWDM just watch it... You'll see why I am flustered...

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TERF Spotting 101: Hashtags

Trigger Warning: Transphobia, Enbyphobia

Note: Do not contact TERFs or SWERFs, this list is to help keep trans and nonbinary people safe.

This is a list of common hashtags that TERFs use. They are related to TERF issues, and often crossover with SWERF issues. If someone is a SWERF they are most likely a TERF as well.

Gender Critical

Gender Critic

Queer is a slur

q slur

Kill all men

Peak Trans

AGP (*this stands for autogynephilia)

Womyn

Gyn

Gender cult

Anti prostitution

Anti kink

FebFem

Drop the t

Female Separatism

Radfem

Radblr

Radical Feminist

Radical Feminism

LGB

Transcult

Trans violence

Transgender ideology

Gender ideology

Gender Free

Gender Abolitionist

Gay not queer

TRAs are MRAs

TRA misogyny

Transcels

Trans bullshit

Male violence

Gender Free and Gender Abolitionist may be used in a nonbinary way but I have not seen it used like that on tumblr. So please take note of context.

Q slur has become a calling card for TERF lesbians and bisexuals, though you need to understand context in which the hashtag is being used because non-TERFs may use it for other reasons (like a warning for queer genuinely being used as a slur in a fanfic or smth).

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How the fuck can people just say. “I’m ticklish” so casually. One of my friends casually mentioned it and somehow didn’t die. Y’all built different.

#tickle blog #tickle community #sfw tickles

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Now this is the good shit

I love tickle talk that makes the ‘ler sound like they’re surprised by or incredulous about how ticklish their ticklee is, stuff like:

“You can’t be this ticklish, can you?”

“I’m only tickling you; are you really this sensitive?”

“What, you can’t take a little tickling?”

“Is this your weakness? Being tickled?”

That’s the good shit

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death spot

(Tickletober day 27)

That concave spot on the hip, right below the pant line...

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Let's say, hypothetically, I was a ler in need of a lee

What would be the best way to go about finding one?

The short answer:

Use sites like FetLife, TMF (Tickling Media Forum), r/tickling on Reddit, or here within the tumblr tickling community to talk with others who want to meet up for tickle sessions! There are usually dedicated chats and forums solely for people looking for sessions - and there are a surprising amount of events on FetLife for tickling meetups! There's also NEST, the North East Society for Ticklephiles, a convention held annually.

The long answer:

I do not want to encourage ticklers to befriend and interact with ticklees ONLY because they want to enter a Lee/Ler relationship with them. Not all ticklees are actively looking for ticklers to play with, and not all tickees are comfortable with tickle-talk and teasing.

There are people who are actively looking to play and have tickling sessions. And those people should be best sought out in spaces dedicated to that (event meetups, the NEST tickling convention, tickle session chat rooms, etc.).

But here on tumblr, having a tickle kink or tickle blog does not automatically mean you are looking for tickles IRL. So if you are interacting only because you want tickles, whether you are a tickler or ticklee, then consider forums and chats that are dedicated to that.

Make friends. Get to know people as people beyond the roles of tickler and ticklee. And, with time, if the other person is comfortable and desires it - then you can discuss committing to a Lee/Ler relationship.

Thanks for the ask, nonnie, and best of luck to you! 💕

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I really just want a cute little lee to expose her cute tummy so my nails can glide all across the bare skin and I can hear her giggles in my ear. Is that so much to ask?

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When they nibble on your tummy and make growling noises 😨

And then you realize there’s no escape because their face is burried into your midsection ahhhhhh

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I am such tummy tickle trash it’s ridiculous

Tummy tickles are my favorite. So much attention in this community is paid to feet, and while they’re cute and all, for me nothing beats tummy tickles. You’ve got a bigger area to work with and tummies can be squished and pinched and wiggled and kissed. Plus you’ve got the belly button, which is a fabulous spot in and of itself.

Also since I vastly prefer fluffy, playful, silly tickles, tummy tickles are pretty much the ultimate in that. I mean, come on, everyone’s seen the Pillsbury commercials. Fluffy cutesy tummy tickles are my kryptonite.

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Things that make me melt (lee)

Gentle tummy skritches

Holding me in the little-spoon position and tickling my tummy from behind

Pink feathers

Being cradled like a baby

Kisses while being tickled so I giggle against the ler’s lips

Being chased

Soft quiet cuddles that turn into tickle attacks

Cutesy nicknames

Pillsbury-commercial-style tummy pokes when my shirt rides up

When the ler imitates my giggles

Face scruff that makes kisses even more ticklish

Saying I have a cute tummy

“This little piggy” or otherwise playing with my toes

Tracing circles around my belly button

A ler’s eyes lighting up when they see your favorite tickle spot exposed

Wearing tiny shirts/flip-flops/tank tops/whatever to purposely expose weak spots and be a bratty little tease

ANY SORT OF VERBAL TEASING OMG

That knowing little smile.

Tummy kisses!!!!

Having my tummy squished

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Y'know guys, don't expect all lees being touch-starved 24/7! There are some moments they just want not to be touched! Like, at all! Please respect that! We don't always want tickles or cuddles!

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