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#tag talk #“older men shouldn't be allowed to like younger women” excuse me. as someone who enjoys older men liking them I will defend their rights #like. it sounds reasonable to say “women should be allowed to like older men” because that's feminism #but then you say “men should be allowed to like younger women” and suddenly it's bad. #yes I get that there's history and yikes and power abuse. but if young women are going to find older men #they need older men looking for young women. #have you seen that Agatha Christy post about her and her husband? cause like. as long as their adults age isn't the issue. #can agree lend itself to a power imbalance that can be unhealthy? yeah. age isn't the direct issue. #anyway. it's a two way street and it helps to remember that every situation has its reciprocate. in other words I met a very nice man #unfortunately I'm moving in a month but you'd best believe I'm gonna make the most of my time 😏 #and remember. there's cool people everywhere. my town is lowkey a dead end and I still met a cool guy. there's always hope. #you just have to keep looking. #there's hella typos in this but I'm not retyping this whole thing in the tags so deal with if #also. thank the skies for bi men. it's so much easier to be openly genderdiverse when the other person isn't exclusively into one gender. #like. will he see me as a woman or a man? it doesn't matter he thinks I'm sexy either way. bless up #I recognize my privilege as a young skinny white twink and it's my duty to be an ally to the disenfranchised middle-aged man community