#the way some people are obsessed with sanitizing queer relationships and deeming anything that isn't like

[nikialexx]

i don’t understand the argument that atyd is bad because wolfstar is toxic in it cause like.... was that not the entire point? that’s one of the reasons i loved it lmao but i feel like that was the actual intention when writing it? it was not meant to be a healthy relationship 😭

look at me being nice about atyd for a change. isn’t that nice?

#believe it or not some people actually enjoy media that portrays toxic/unhealthy relationship dynamics #not everything needs to be a fluffy cookie cutter romance #you can *dislike* the fic because the relationship is toxic and that's not your thing. like that's fine #but the fic itself isn't inherently bad *because* the relationship is toxic #does that make sense #the way some people are obsessed with sanitizing queer relationships and deeming anything that isn't like #heartstopper levels of fluff #as 'bad representation' will be my undoing #you can dislike atyd for a lot of reasons god knows the fandom hasn't made it easy to love #but this one particular thing just always bothered me #personally i love my lil fucked up version of r/s like yesss let them scream and yell at each other let them be mean to each other #there are SO MANY other fics to read for the times when i want happy and fluffy lol #i didn't go into atyd expecting happiness i wanted them to destroy each other and they did :) #fandom stuff #atyd