#the 17 yr old is pretty okay she's got eldest sibling syndrome bad. I still think she's gay and has Issues with it

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tell me whyyyy I had to repeatedly assure these 13 and 11 yr olds that they were allowed to do whatever they wanted with my nails. any designs they've been wanting to try. "what if they look bad" it's paint!! on my fingernails!! I don't care!! it's fun!! "..can I use glitter" hell yes you can. "no one has wanted glitter" well I do!! let those kids be messy.. let em Have Fun with art. and self expression. my sister was like "are you sure? they're not gonna look good" In Front Of Them and I was like okay and so what!! these two r Thrilled at the idea of being given blanket permission to Do Whatever. they're 13 and 11 years old. let those kids be silly. anyway i love what they did they're so mismatched and messy and glitter bombed and they rock. I love those kids so much. let them have fun..

#clothes and makeup and nail polish r supposed to be Fun do what you Want be Silly and Express Yourself #I hate that they're so worried abt Being Pretty. youre prettiest when youre happy with how you look. my god #I did tell the 15 year old her foundation is way too orange for her but yknow. that's an assist. I'm taking her to state comp for french #horn in a few months <3 she started playing horn bc I played it. I love that kid. I love those fuckin kids. #the 17 yr old is pretty okay she's got eldest sibling syndrome bad. I still think she's gay and has Issues with it #bc. that family is megachurch suburban white christian all the fuckin way #swear to god I'm not just assuming she's a lesbian she has straight up told me she likes girls but that doesn't mean she's gay. hope she #figures that out one way or another. it is fuckinf suffocating in that household sometimes but. could be a lot worse #side note. 15 yr old is Literally a genius. shes so happy whenever I'm around bc I'm the only person who understands music like she does #but. she's better than me. perfect pitch. she can play anything by ear. but I've got her matched for horn skills at least #it's her biggest special interest . heehoo she always infodumps abt music to meee