#sadie adler is neither bisexual OR heterosexual just as she's not a lesbian

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im not a lesbian but i notice how quickly gay headcanons for men who have canonical relationships with women are explained away and given justification (which i support and do) but when you headcanon a female character who has canonically been in a relationship with a man as a lesbian, suddenly there's an issue and ppl start claiming "bi erasure" or whatever for a character who typically has 0 canonical sexual orientation. it's interesting. im sure a lesbian could give a much more comprehensive and analytical response to this but. i just think about it a lot.

#sadie adler is neither bisexual OR heterosexual just as she's not a lesbian #it's all headcanon #but ppl who get aggressive and upset when someone DARE say she's a lesbian by claiming Jake Adler urk me #let lesbians have fun #seen plenty of gay arthur hcs or gay dutch/hosea hcs and nobody leaps to say but mary or but molly/susan/annabelle or but bessie #bc we all seem to understand what a hc is #UNTIL it's a lesbian #thinky