#peak male behavior it's giving men are more likely to leave their wives with cancer than vice versa or w/e

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#been watching the newest season of love is blind #bc ya girl loves a corny reality show u kno #and then listening reviews/reading the subreddit like an idiot #and the amount of grace ppl give shitlords like izzy and uche baffles the mind #izzy rejecting johnnie after he begged for vulnerability and she opened up about her difficult/complex love history is like #peak male behavior it's giving men are more likely to leave their wives with cancer than vice versa or w/e #and the way uche verbally berates aaliyah like he's so mean to her #and the internet is so mean to her bc tell me why #even when ppl agree uche is trash they still blame her for ~allowing it~ #u know if she was a white woman the internet would be in tears with her #she's just a lady with an open heart who doesn't seem able to advocate for herself in those conflicts the way she should #and she shouldn't be judged for that like how many of us have toxic relationships of sorts #bc ur so stuck in the situation you can't see the toxicity for what it is #girl came ready for love and was thrown a whole shitbag situation with the uche/lydia thing #anyone would be emotional and confused in those circumstances #this an aaliyah defense squad acc i feel so bad for her #all she's done is react to a confusing situation / get yelled at abt it by the guy she likes #then yelled at again by the internet for Not Leaving Immediately #i have a million other thoughts on it but that's my biggest gripe #justice for aaliyah!!!