#only for a great-uncle of mine to walk in and loudly exclaim 'wow you sound so much like your mom!' as if it was a nice thing

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sometimes i forget how passive-aggressive and shitty my bio-moms side of the family is, and I have these moments where im like "what if i talk to more of them than just my uncle, but continue to have no contact w my bio mom?" and then i speak to them and it all comes right back

#vent #personal #was talking to my uncle and he had me on speakerphone so i could talk to his wife too #only for a great-uncle of mine to walk in and loudly exclaim 'wow you sound so much like your mom!' as if it was a nice thing #they are all very aware that i want nothing to do with her!!!! i dont talk to any of them except my unlce bc of that!!!!! #literally in what world do you see someone completely cut their mother off for EIGHT years and not budge on that no contact #and think 'you know what this person should hear? that i think they sound exactly like the person they want nothinf to do with' #which is a stupid thing to get upset about #but i spent YEARS terrified that i would become my bio mom no matter how hard i tried not to #so getting told that i sound like her in even the most innocent of degrees #is not sitting well w me #this interaction actually happened 3 days ago but its been eating at me and i hate it #i wish there was a way to just wipe any mention of her from my life for good