#not to mention it's not like the racism w martha was even subtle like

[menlove]

like tbh I think. if you are not black (and disclaimer I'm not either) and u see a bunch of black fans saying a certain arc/writing choice/what have u was racist and antiblack. it is not your place to go "well um Actually ☝🏻️ I think it was fine and I don't see why people thought/think this was racist"

bc yes of course we are not going to have the same lived experience as black people do to pick up on all the forms of antiblackness they do. but that doesn't mean you can't listen and take their word on it instead of arguing about it bc you like the writer/director/whatever.

#not to mention it's not like the racism w martha was even subtle like #my incredibly white passing 12 year old self growing up w Republicans could clock how bad it was w her and mickey #if u can't at ur big age that's a little embarrassing to admit and u should maybe talk to more poc idk?