#made someone uncomfortable and immediately apologized or behaviors I'd already corrected entirely etc

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I don't want to connect my main to posts about being plural bc I'm not out (yet) but re: the post about experiencing pluralphobia as part of abuse/unhealthy relationships: I have experienced that! I don't trust singlets with much, anymore, nowadays.

We out here 😔 I posted that instead of my other post i was typing of "hey maybe all the numerous callout posts in existence against random systems that have The Works(tm) all listed without much evidence that also so happen to usually fakeclaim them or bring up the fact they're a system in some way are disingenuous or at the very least exaggerated" but then I wondered if this brand of harassment is as widespread as it feels

#ableism tw #ask to tag #like i never had a callout post written abt me afaik but a singlet DID take So Many Things out of context an embarrassingly obvious amount #to accuse me of everything under the sun (like legitimately the only things they could bring up were times I misphrased things or #made someone uncomfortable and immediately apologized or behaviors I'd already corrected entirely etc #and of course faking a system(tm) was one of the biggest points #they also had other ppl they vented about a lot when we still got along who conveniently did all the same things so i think some singlets #just copy and paste this shit ngl #i feel bad admitting how much it traumatized me tho i feel like maybe they're right despite objectively knowing they were lying in bad faith #ocd and bpd are fun as u can see/s