#like every time i wear my slides anywhere im like 'ouaahh idk these are all old and ugly and dont match my outfit'

[natjennie]

idk who might need this but it's been the most influential shift in perspective in my entire life: if you're worried about doing something embarrassing like "oh my hair looks weird today" or "I slipped down the stairs and now everyone hates me" think about your memory of other people. have you ever noticed or cared about if a stranger's hair looked a little off? have you seen someone get hurt in public and thought anything other than "I hope they're okay" ? no, probably not. so probably no one is going to be thinking it about you.

#like every time i wear my slides anywhere im like 'ouaahh idk these are all old and ugly and dont match my outfit' #and then i think. have i EVER noticed or remembered what shoes someone was wearing? #no! unless it was to compliment them I have never cared about what strangers are doing. #so probably no one cares about me!