#like 'bottom surgery exists and people do in fact get it ever‚ ergo birth genitals ≠ forever genitals necessarily'

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help

forget 'uterus havers,' i just saw 'my penis holding coworkers' in the wild and i'm dying

#like the context was extremely full of people trying to be trans-inclusive but overlooking very basic shit #like 'bottom surgery exists and people do in fact get it ever‚ ergo birth genitals ≠ forever genitals necessarily' #also 'the category of people who menstruate once a month ≠ everyone who has a uterus' #or even 'everyone pre-menopause' thanks to a little thing called hormonal birth control and also the fact that cycle lengths vary #anyway getting mad abt oligomenorrheal erasure is probably not actually the hill i want 2 die on #really i just want us all 2 contemplate whether the image is 'cupping their penises for comfort like some ppl apparently cup their breasts' #or whether it's more of a 'work circlejerk' situation #many beautiful options available 2 us here imo